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RE: Humiliation..which words do you like? - 5/9/2008 4:48:50 AM   
uliveonce


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Status: offline 		my former sub used to get very embarrassed when we were playing and I would draw attention to the fact that she was soaked and sloppy and craving more.

I would be pounding into her, then slow down and exaggerate the penetrations
she would tense up thinking something was wrong
I would continue slow stroking and ask " are those happy cunt noises I hear"
She would redden up and start to protest, but before a word would come all the way out I would begin rapidly pounding her and the denial would instantly turn into greater reddening and moaning.
"I asked a question, are those happy cunt noises?"
After three or four askings, she could summon up the willpower to voice out "YES"
while fighting the need to orgasm, so I would again slow down, teasing her, keeping her at the edge and slowly whisper, "whose cunt is it?" then up the pace as she tried to answer
after doing this three or four times she would be beat red (mainly from not allowing herself to cum) and almost unable to concentrate on my words and visually begging for release.

Then I would cease penetrating her and rest my cock across her slit and ask "when will you cum, SLUT"  The glazed eyes would bolt open and her shame (over being so wanton and being aware that she didn't have a care in the world beyond getting me back inside her and cumming) would erupt out as she blurted "with permission".

"with permission?"
"SIR"  and I would slowly slide my cock back inside

"who is gonna squirt for me?"
"please sir" she would protest as she hated squirting
rubbing my cock on her g-spot "who is gonna be a good little slut and squirt for me?'
watching her arch and writhe as she felt the squirt building
"please no, Sir, please"
more stroking of her g-spot, more moaning and trying to force my cock deeper
"please, Sir, no please, OMG, sir"
slowing down the stroke and just rubbing on her g-spot and adding my thumb to her clit to make her gyrate on my head.
"PLEASE... SIR... I'm gonna CUM...OMG Ppllleeaaaassssssse SIR"
A single hard and deep penetration followed by "WHOSE CUNT is it?"
"yours" as she continues to shiver and squirm at the edge of overstimulation
"and what can I do with MY cunt?"
a long pause as she tries to keep from allowing her body to ride off to orgasm "anything you want?"
"ANYTHING  I want, WHAT?"
"SIR, oh please Sir, let me cum"

resuming my stroking of her g-spot "CUM" and a fountain gushes from her cunt. 
"Ah now that is a pretty cunt.  You are such a good slut" as I continue pounding into her as she drops completely off the map into subspace.  Only later to realize that she has a huge wet mess to clean off of my cock, stomach and legs and her last bit of shame.  Having to change the sheets.

For her, it was never the words themselves, rather having her completely wanton nature pointed out to her and the fact that doing so caused a self escalating cycle of arousal/shame.  And once she knew I was working that mental loop for her, she knew she was going to end up in subspace and completely mentally spend by the end of the session.

< Message edited by uliveonce -- 5/9/2008 4:51:18 AM >

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RE: Humiliation..which words do you like? - 5/9/2008 5:57:49 AM   
yesmaammelbourne


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Status: offline 		I love being called female insults like slut, whore etc... even though I'm male.  When I'm in subspace, I tend to lose my male identity, and pretty much like to be degraded as a female. 

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RE: Humiliation..which words do you like? - 5/9/2008 3:35:19 PM   
nwcutie102


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Status: offline 		slut,whore,naughty girl,bad girl,C---, good girl. i do so like them pre texted with MY.

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RE: Humiliation..which words do you like? - 5/9/2008 5:52:25 PM   
cravetobehis


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Status: offline 		Oh thank you everyone with your hot words...grins



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RE: Humiliation..which words do you like? - 5/15/2008 9:58:14 PM   
butterflymaiden


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Status: offline 		Whore - to me thats the most humilating word.. And Master uses it alot....

He doesn't like "Cunt" says too derogitory,,,
Bitch is an attitude He says

"Whore will do you just fine..."

i've had trouble in the last several weeks with the word whore, the meaning behind it..
But i've grown accustomed to liking it
(wont say i love it)
but, i'm getting there...

any others have this feeling?

~c



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RE: Humiliation..which words do you like? - 5/16/2008 12:55:22 PM   
lizcgirl


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Status: offline 		I forgot to actually mention mine... lol. Opps.  I love it when Daddy calls me His good little cock sucker. It's a compliment and an insult at the same time that I just love to hear in that breathless voice when I'm going down on Him. I know when He says it, He's REALLY enjoying what I'm doing. lol.

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RE: Humiliation..which words do you like? - 5/17/2008 2:24:42 AM   
NorthernGent


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quote:

ORIGINAL: FlamingRedhead

I looooove humiliation!  The others are right, though.  It's mostly the situation and not so much the words.  For example:
 
Dom:  Have you been playing with your pussy, little girl?  *spoken like a stern daddy catching you doing something you shouldn't*
 
Sub:  *surprised and guilty look*  Um....yes, Daddy.  I just thought I'd get ready for you is all....
 
Dom:  Whore!  *frown*  Did you ask if you could play with it?
 
Sub:  Ummm....noooooo.....*shifts uncomfortably*
 
Dom:  *approaching you*  Did you cum, you horny slut?
 
Sub:  No, of course not, Daddy!
 
Dom:  Is your pussy nice and wet for me?  Spread it and let me see.
 
Sub:  Yes, Daddy.  *slightly embarrassed*
 
Dom:  *sticks his cock in and makes wet noises*  Mmhmm...you're a sloppy wet cunt.
 
Sub:  *dying of embarrassment*



That sounds like teasing to me...not humiliation....

Were the following involved...."I'm seeing a pattern developing here and it's a pattern of you spending far too much time with your hands in your cunt. There are people out there learning, sharing and evolving, and you, you fuckin' animal, are sat around with nothing better to do than act like you've just discovered you own a cunt. Next, you'll be sat pissing yourself for a cheap thrill, which, incidentally, is exactly what I'll have you do in the event you don't get a grip. Act like a child; expect to be treated like a child".

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RE: Humiliation..which words do you like? - 5/17/2008 3:29:37 AM   
CelticPrince


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quote:

Master calls me "cumguzzler"...... He's so romantic!


eyes,

Thanks for the first laugh of the day.

CP

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RE: Humiliation..which words do you like? - 5/17/2008 4:12:20 AM   
enigmation


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Status: offline 		while Sir uses a lot of names, and many of those already mentioned, i don't find anything intrinsically humiliating about any of them.  being called slut or cumdumpster gets me hot, yes, but is not particularly humiliating.  When it becomes "humiliation play" is when Sir chooses to get inside of my head.  When He uses the terms in ways that relate to certain triggers within, and often, presses me into an admittance aloud (especially during those times when speech is difficult and rational thought lowered).  again it often depends upon context, simply calling me "whore" is likely to get someone the fisheye if not something more drastic ~lol~ when utilized in context though....

in a perhaps? odd manner....when some level of humiliation play is engaged in with Sir, i feel very cared for and lifted up.  Many things that are "listed" here and there as humiliating, i simply do not experience that way, so in order to engage in this kind of play, Sir has to have truly gotten inside my head, understood what i care about and what the triggers are, thats a lot of work and focus. 


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RE: Humiliation..which words do you like? - 5/17/2008 4:16:01 AM   
LPslittleclip


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Status: offline 		i don't get embarrassed  much at all so humiliation isn't something that helps me. my M'Lady enjoys calling me her little slut and such it thrills her especially when she is using her strap on!

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RE: Humiliation..which words do you like? - 5/17/2008 6:16:58 AM   
Degradethehog


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Status: offline 		Personally when being degraded and humiliated, being called slut and cunt don't do too much for me since my desires aren't sexually oriented. Words deal within my weight turn me on such as fatty, pig, slob,porker and such,love being humiliated in such forms

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RE: Humiliation..which words do you like? - 5/17/2008 1:10:02 PM   
clevername2


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Status: offline 		I like being told things about myself that are true and obvious, such as about my appearance. I like being told all the ways I am worthless and ugly. I like being demeaned for my wants and preferences, including for needing verbal abuse. I like the person abusing me to express their real thoughts and feelings of disgust towards me, making it as personal as they can based on things they know about me, so that I can relate to it and not just take it as general words that could apply to anyone. There is a duality in people, that they love but also hate. Verbal abuse should express the hatred. Let Hallmark cards express the love. In every heart there are dark feelings, and everyone has things you don't like about them. Humiliation is to what you don't like about someone, the same as making love is to what you do like. At least that is my idea of it, for verbal humliation, saying things to demean and tear down and step on the person.

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RE: Humiliation..which words do you like? - 5/17/2008 1:42:30 PM   
softness


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From: Leeds, UK
Status: offline 		Now being called a dirty fuck slut ... thats affectionate!
If someone calls me a dirty filthy whore when we are having sex .. I tend to look back over my shoulder and say something like "You only just noticed?"
I take being a slutty bitch as something of a compliment. Even among my vanilla friends I am lovingly and indulgently reffered to and described as "filth"

Now being really degraded .. that takes someone being right up inside my head and I have become very very good at keeping people out of my head, even right in the middle of play.. I can only think of one person who I can't keep out of my head. Now when I am really being degraded - like actually debased - pretty much anything will push a button. Variations on the theme of worthlessness, undesirability, uselessness, and stupidity are the most effective. This is because deep down .. right inside my head, all of those things are true and BAM someone just noticed that I am a worthless, stupid, unlovable piece of shit.

I am a sick and twisted little bitch ...

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RE: Humiliation..which words do you like? - 6/21/2008 6:12:25 PM   
natasha66


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Status: offline 		Doesn't matter to me as long as "My" preceeds it.....makes me feel truly and totally His......

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RE: Humiliation..which words do you like? - 6/21/2008 6:50:15 PM   
SimplyMichael


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Status: offline 		If I truly want to degrade someone into a subhuman space I reserve special insults

You are the illigitimate child of Dick Cheney
You aren't smart enough to see through george bush
You are so stupid you think invading Iraq was about fighting terrorism
You shop at Walmart

I could go on but I want to keep some of them for myself

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RE: Humiliation..which words do you like? - 6/22/2008 2:40:03 AM   
Deliena


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Status: offline 		I love it when Master calls me His Slut, when he tells me I'm good for nothing except fucking.  However the other night he decided to see just how much he could make me squirt and after drinking me and sometimes spitting it back on me he rubbed my face in the sodden sheets and said "there, that's all you amount to, holes to be fucked and mess to clear up".  I don't think I've ever felt anything quite like it.

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RE: Humiliation..which words do you like? - 6/22/2008 2:41:59 AM   
TMIk


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Status: offline 		I like being called little cumwhore, or dirty little fuck toy.

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RE: Humiliation..which words do you like? - 6/22/2008 4:31:20 AM   
favesclava


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Status: offline 		worthless slave. all  others have a "job" when with Master. mostly making sure He has His smoke , clean ashtray, fresh drink. they're also the go for girls. i'm just a pleasure slave . i usually just sit around looking sexy for Him. well i dont just sit , i might be dancing or reading or something that wont detract from His view. but really very rarely am i told to do any of the above chores. i am worthless in the labor department. but i know the only reason i'm worthless is because i'm priceless in His heart and soul.
when i hear that my breath catches and my bosom heaves just like in the stories. amazing.

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RE: Humiliation..which words do you like? - 6/22/2008 6:07:25 AM   
favesclava


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Status: offline 		i got an email that i was truly worthless because i sit around while the others work.
i didnt know i had to give details but here goes.
Master uses His girls as it pleases Him. it pleases Him for this to be my service. other girls get satisfaction of doing the chores. Master prefers to do things for Himself , but will indulge girls from time to time. mostly we are kept in bed all day. i'm not only for His pleasure. any slave may ask for use of me in any way . if a girl has served well and has been a good girl she is given use over me.
as head nurse i do enough intellectual stuff and running around serving others. Master takes all things into consideration. even how exhausted we are from work or from traveling to be with Him.
i am a worthless slave because that gives Him pleasure. as i've posted before " i"m whatever He needs me to be".

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RE: Humiliation..which words do you like? - 6/22/2008 10:10:12 AM   
Deliena


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Status: offline 		WTF?? who was rude enough to ask you that??  favesclava I thought your position in your household was succinctly put - perhaps the person emailing has too much of that "ironing" stuff I've heard about from softness to do and was jealous of your position?

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