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SteelofUtah -> RE: Respect and ? (4/28/2008 1:31:24 PM)

Seriously.

Guys DON'T understand what it is like for women here on CollarMe.

Guys get maybe 5 e-mails a week maybe more when they are talking to someone seriously but on average someone who is Posting on the forums REGULARLY and sending out 10 to 15 e-mails of thier own get on average 5 e-mails a week maybe more.

Girls WITHOUT DOING ANYTHING!!!! Get 2 to 10 a day. If they are new they get more. If there is a picture that number becomes 10 to 20 a DAY.

So guess what Hondo. After time if you look more like a bottom round then a Fillet Mignon most girls will simply delete and pass.

Also are you responding to profiles that say they are looking for someone like you? If not you might not even send them at all.

So realize that GUYS get a raw deal when it comes to getting responses BACK women get the raw deal when it comes to having a vagina that every guy wants to meet on an intament level.

Just keep plugging away ... be a respectable human being and just drop all the sexual comments or suggestions until you actually get to know one another and be happy when you get 1 e-mail a week by someone who is interested in you as a person.

Steel



Aileen1968 -> RE: Respect and ? (4/28/2008 1:31:35 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: SurDub
Alas though as with life...rudeness in our society seems to be quite rampant.....  
SurDub

Scenario #1
Dominant man:  Hey chica.  I want to fuck you.
Me (chica): Thank you, but no thank you.
Dominant man:  Fuck off you fat cunt.

Scenario #2
Dominant man:  Hey chica.  I want to fuck you.
Me (chica)...no answer
end of conversation




Lynnxz -> RE: Respect and ? (4/28/2008 1:33:31 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Aileen1968

Scenario #1
Dominant man:  Hey chica.  I want to fuck you.
Me (chica): Thank you, but no thank you.
Dominant man:  Fuck off you fat cunt.

Scenario #2
Dominant man:  Hey chica.  I want to fuck you.
Me (chica)...no answer
end of conversation


Very true. [>:]



OmegaG -> RE: Respect and ? (4/28/2008 1:50:51 PM)

FR

First-- collar me isn't just a hook up site-- there are many people here who've already hooked up and they have other reasons for being here.  I have a profile because I like it, because others like to see who's posting and because once in a blue moon I like making a journal entry.  The owners of this site haven't told me to cease and desist, so why are you (can you see me stomping my foot and telling him that he's not the boss of me?)

Second-- you may not feel you are whining, but telling people how they should conuct themselves to meet your paradigm right smack in the body of your profile reeks of a spoiled little brat that is going to demand that he gets his way.  Certianly not someone that I could imagine deferring to.

Third and Fouth  and Fifth would cover the no response is a response, that females are duluged with e-mails and that often times when you open a door with civility some jerk likes to stick his foot in and force his way in without thought or care to what is being said, but that's been covered already.

Sixth is that collarme offers filters so that unwanted e-mails go into a bulk folder and there is a good chance that some that don't respond do so because they don't even see your thoughtful prose.



DragonLady5 -> RE: Respect and ? (4/28/2008 1:52:23 PM)

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ORIGINAL: DesFIP

You are paying for other people's rudeness. I would estimate that ten to twenty percent of those whom I turned down, sent back unpleasant emails. I include in those the whining ones, but I can so be compatible with you, I can do anything you want. As well as the plain rude ones, well you're too fat to fuck anyway. And then the small percentage wishing that I would meet someone who would cut me up.

Although I wouldn't wish those emails on anyone, there is a part of me that's happy that it isn't just me. I'm fairly new here, read posts from subs complaining about not getting responses one way or the other. So I actually wrote back 2 of them one day. From their emails, neither one had read my profile, looked like "form" letters. I wrote back (maybe a little snippy) read my profile first (not word for word quote). I got one back: the "you're too fat to fuck", etc, etc email. I'm not writing another one back unless it's very interesting.



littlewonder -> RE: Respect and ? (4/28/2008 2:12:18 PM)

No response IS your response.

I personally only respond to a handful of emails because to be honest if I responded to every single email I get, that's all I would be doing on here so I delete those I have no interest in.

Why not just figure they're not interested if they don't respond? What is this need for someone to write back to you? Just shrug it off and move on to the next one.



colouredin -> RE: Respect and ? (4/28/2008 2:13:58 PM)

fr

just a thought, maybe if people stopped writing loads and loads of messages to (copy and paste and the like to whatever 20 girls a session) then girls wouldnt be so inundated and you would get a nicer response? Why not try writing to the ones who actually match what you need and the things that they want describe you?



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