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what is more intimate?


performing oral sex
  29% (23)
having intercourse
  54% (42)
anal sex
  15% (12)


Total Votes : 77
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what is more intimate? - 4/28/2008 1:38:45 PM   
BBWnNC72


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Status: offline 		ok, i was driving and i was thinking about what a friend at work said to me, he said "if my girl was to cheat, i would rather her perform oral then to fuck the guy, intercourse is more intimate".

So, i was wondering what the fabulous people of the CM forums thought.



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RE: what is more intimate? - 4/28/2008 1:42:57 PM   
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RE: what is more intimate? - 4/28/2008 1:49:37 PM   
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Status: offline 		For me it has to be intercourse.. There's something about it which is more deep, touching & personal than either of the alternatives.

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RE: what is more intimate? - 4/28/2008 1:54:23 PM   
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Status: offline 		for me it's oral... i don't have to open my eyes, he doesn't have to see anything but my ass honestly...
but to want to taste someone... to want to feel them in your mouth... maybe it's just me

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RE: what is more intimate? - 4/28/2008 1:54:32 PM   
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Status: offline 		i have found that some people i have talked to personally, especially the married ones who are allowed to play, don't have intercourse during play, but all else goes.



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RE: what is more intimate? - 4/28/2008 1:59:52 PM   
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Status: offline 		for me the most intimate act is to take someone's genitals into my mouth, whether male or female...to taste & swallow...to make love with my tongue...to be fucked in the throat...all extremely intimate to me......

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RE: what is more intimate? - 4/28/2008 2:04:50 PM   
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RE: what is more intimate? - 4/28/2008 2:07:26 PM   
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Status: offline 		I put oral, not me giving it (i can be really passive) but if i ever get it, thats really intimate to me

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RE: what is more intimate? - 4/28/2008 2:15:18 PM   
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quote:

performing oral sex
having intercourse
anal sex


eh..wtf are these things????


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RE: what is more intimate? - 4/28/2008 2:16:41 PM   
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RE: what is more intimate? - 4/28/2008 2:37:22 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: colouredin

I put oral, not me giving it (i can be really passive) but if i ever get it, thats really intimate to me


i think i understand what you mean.. i HATE recieving oral, to the point that i am glad my Master isn't really into that.. maybe thats the reasons why.. more intimate than i am comfortable with i guess.


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RE: what is more intimate? - 4/28/2008 2:50:19 PM   
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Status: offline 		None and all of the above. It's not the act, it's the context.

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RE: what is more intimate? - 4/28/2008 3:25:00 PM   
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Status: offline 		Sometimes, deeply passionate, soulful kissing is more intimate than any of the above.

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RE: what is more intimate? - 4/28/2008 3:27:20 PM   
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RE: what is more intimate? - 4/28/2008 4:32:18 PM   
Phin


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quote:

ORIGINAL: littlewonder

It's not the act, it's the context.


that is an excellent thought, that to me it goes much futher than this topic.

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RE: what is more intimate? - 4/28/2008 4:41:33 PM   
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for me being intimate can be simple as snuggling under a warm blanket


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RE: what is more intimate? - 4/28/2008 4:43:01 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: CalifChick

Sometimes, deeply passionate, soulful kissing is more intimate than any of the above.

Cali



I find intimacy in letting my sack rest on her forehead.
 
Oh, okay, Cali, your answer was pretty good, too.

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RE: what is more intimate? - 4/28/2008 4:47:36 PM   
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RE: what is more intimate? - 4/28/2008 4:49:17 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: littlewonder

None and all of the above. It's not the act, it's the context.


I totally agree

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RE: what is more intimate? - 4/28/2008 5:02:30 PM   
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