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pinkwind -> RE: have i thought wrong? (4/28/2008 6:43:33 PM)
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The only people i had a responsibility to were the ones i deliberately brought into the world, and that was to equip them with the basic tools they would need once out in the world, and to be here for them if they needed me.
To others, whose enquiries on sites like these spark an interest, i have the responsibility to answer their questions as honestly and frankly as is necessary and as far as possible from personal experience, even if the answers i give are not exactly what the questioner thought they would get by way of reply.
Nobody is responsible for anything in the great scheme of life of an anonymous individual, all you can hope is that those who notice your existence treat you fairly and honestly, with a modicum of respect.
There are a lot of folk who seem to want validation for their particular ideas or impressions of what kink or BDSM, or whatever you want to call it, is all about, and sometimes it is better that a person be disavowed of their take on things and be brought back into the real world with what could be seen as less than gentle treatment. It does not make what is said in reply any less valid, just that life has taught some that being to-the-point gets a message across.
You will find people answer your questions in differing ways, some whose approach you take to, others you don't, but most people only answer to help, even if the style does not suit you. The only responsibility here is that if you ask a question you take the answers you get with the good grace with which they were offered, for the most part.
You are responsible for yourself, we are responsible for the answers we give, and some take their answers more seriously than others, no matter how you feel about the way they phrase things.
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