burningdesires47
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Joined: 2/22/2007 Status: offline
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I wear a collar pretty frequently, and enjoyed them before I wore them FOR anyone, besides just as a fashion statement. I still wear it as a fashion statement, and am rarely afraid to wear them in public. Actually I'm LESS likely to wear a collar-y looking collar at fetish events because I don't want to imply I'm anyone's property. But when I do and I am asked whose property I am, it's great fun to be able to say my own.... When I was actually collared, I wore it all the time. But it's easy for a teenager to get away with it when she's usually pretty wacky in everyone's eyes anyway.... now I'll still wear my 1/3 inch wide leather collar that has smooth studs in it even to work (but the 1.5 inch wide with spikes, chains, and rings is a little much), but then I work in a coffee shop with a girl who has purple hair and is the bass guitar in a metal band, a 40-something geek guy, and the catholic girl who goes to mass 5 days a week. Really, it's not any kind of job where I'm TOO worried about reputation--I only worry as much as I do because I'm opening a restaurant in town in a few years, and it gives me the chance to network, but it's not exactly conservative-ville here. Let's put it this way: I worry less about wearing my collar than I worry about the hickeys lol The other time I was collared, it was a necklace. Pretty hard for people to complain about a silver link chain and a pendant with my Mistress' birthstone.
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