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OmegaG -> on the other side of the whip (4/30/2008 10:06:47 AM)
a while ago there was a discussion on the "ask a sub" board about different pain sensations and what was preferred and why (stingy v thudy et al). I'm just wondering what makes a D-type prefer one impliment to another-- is it the sounds the s-type makes, the marks it leaves, the proximity that you and your partner are in while administering it (for example I prefer his hand or short objects because he usually puts me over his knee for those). Is there a feel with a certian tool that just gives you the warm fuzzies? Is it all of the above or other variebles that I haven't thought of?

antipode -> RE: on the other side of the whip (4/30/2008 11:39:49 AM)
Yes

OldBastardly1 -> RE: on the other side of the whip (4/30/2008 2:06:14 PM)
It depends on many things. I pick them for the sensations they allow. I pick them for the sounds they can make. I pick them for the reaction they can get from the sub, be it pleasure or pain...or both. I pick them for how they feel in my hands. I pick them for they make me feel. I pick them for the fun I can have with them. I prefer different items at different times, but generally, I like to use heavy twin floggers, twin dragontails, my snakewhip and my violet wand.

DesFIP -> RE: on the other side of the whip (4/30/2008 2:46:22 PM)
He likes sting because of my immediate reaction to it. He doesn't like me not to be responsive, he wants me there with him and not off floating.

daddysliloneds -> RE: on the other side of the whip (4/30/2008 3:03:56 PM)
my partner likes binding and beating me because he likes the way i respond to it, so therefore, he generally picks instruments that he knows i like... he even went as far as converting an old belt of his (my favorite) into a hand-held tawse, instead of just throwing it away... i just adore that man!

Estring -> RE: on the other side of the whip (4/30/2008 6:32:07 PM)
That is an interesting question. I guess for me it is like choosing what music to listen to. Sometimes I want to listen to The Beatles, sometimes some Blues, sometimes something harder. Sometimes a thuddy flogger seems to be right, and then a slapper will feel right as a follow up. It is a decision that I make at the moment. My slave screams with all the implements, so that isn't part of the equation.

LadyPact -> RE: on the other side of the whip (4/30/2008 7:48:27 PM)
For Me, it's sting. There is just something about inflicting that response from another that takes Me to another level. Excuse Me while I have happy thoughts for a while.

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: on the other side of the whip (4/30/2008 9:02:31 PM)
For me it's what is calling to me and will likely take them where I want us to go.

HeavansKeeper -> RE: on the other side of the whip (4/30/2008 9:25:02 PM)
The way she squirms from different pains. Edit: Maybe I am a sadist.

Skully7000 -> RE: on the other side of the whip (4/30/2008 11:22:18 PM)
I am a reaction junkie. so the toys are simply tools. using the right tools for the job at hand. besides mindfucks are so much fun the toys are almost secondary

MasterFireMaam -> RE: on the other side of the whip (5/1/2008 12:36:43 AM)
I like certain things based on the results desired. A singletail is an incredible spiritual tool, as is a flogger. piercing is ritualistic and decorative. Nothing beats a disposable scalpel for cutting, blood and feeding. I do have a few things I like for other reasons: wooden spoon 'cause most people hate it...a cedar paddle that's made from the siding of a 100 year old church. Stuff like that. Master Fire

OmegaG -> RE: on the other side of the whip (5/1/2008 5:50:26 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MasterFireMaam I do have a few things I like for other reasons: wooden spoon 'cause most people hate it...a cedar paddle that's made from the siding of a 100 year old church. Stuff like that. Master Fire oh, I like the symbolism in the paddle. When I was a kid my grandmother lived with us and after being on the recieving end of a yard stick several times with little results besides the yardstick getting broken and my laughter, my father produced this wicked paddle with holes in it. I've been thinking that I'd like to find that paddle.

MadameXTC -> RE: on the other side of the whip (5/1/2008 12:51:26 PM)
I am a switch and when I am on the giving end of the tools. I use whatever I want to. Yes there is consideration of what the sub will like and how they respond to it, what I can use within their limits etc. But it ultimatly boils down to whatever the hell I want to do at that given time. I find my preferred instrument is different for every submissive I have played with. I am fond of the riding crop though. The sound of the noises from the toy hitting flesh and the submissives response to that. The verbal and nonverbal cues I get from the person enduring the pain, and of course my ultimate pleasure in enjoying the scene unfold.

KnightofMists -> RE: on the other side of the whip (5/1/2008 1:06:45 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: OmegaG I'm just wondering what makes a D-type prefer one impliment to another-- is it the sounds the s-type makes, the marks it leaves, the proximity that you and your partner are in while administering it (for example I prefer his hand or short objects because he usually puts me over his knee for those). Is there a feel with a certian tool that just gives you the warm fuzzies? Is it all of the above or other variebles that I haven't thought of? It's all about getting the response I desire!... as a Sadist... usually it to cause them pain... you like stingy... I just might have a preference to thuddy. Of course... one of my favorite things is to take what you like... and make you dread it in the scene..... so that stingy think you like... you going be hating it when I am done.

OmegaG -> RE: on the other side of the whip (5/1/2008 1:20:25 PM)
hah! I kind of like you.

ResidentSadist -> RE: on the other side of the whip (5/1/2008 2:43:30 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: OmegaG Is there a feel with a certian tool that just gives you the warm fuzzies? Is it all of the above or other variebles that I haven't thought of? Cat-O-9 bedroom lenght (18 inches) with turkshead knots. It would become and erotic novel if I answered with anymore detail.

LadyLynx -> RE: on the other side of the whip (5/1/2008 2:58:27 PM)
Reaction mostly. and if it makes an interesting sound as it hits the skin, oh yeah! However, if it an implement that doesn't feel comfortable in my hand, well then it will not be used much, regardless of the reaction. example: my kevlar paddle, it looks like the bottom of a shoe, and has a wide handle. (obviously made for a much much bigger hand.)

SirJohnMandevill -> RE: on the other side of the whip (5/1/2008 5:01:45 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: OmegaG a while ago there was a discussion on the "ask a sub" board about different pain sensations and what was preferred and why (stingy v thudy et al). I'm just wondering what makes a D-type prefer one impliment to another-- is it the sounds the s-type makes, the marks it leaves, With my favorite toy, a handmade rope flogger, it's those two attributes plus the fact that I can whip my submissive across virtually any part of her body with it. I've used it on her back, bottom, thighs, pussy, breasts and feet. She loved all the sensations, and I loved giving them to her. One other thing: I can give her many, many strokes and still leave only a few marks and bruises. We also tried a 16-inch leather paddle lined with fur on one side. Very warm and fuzzy sensations also, albeit a bit sharper. I have a feeling we'll explore this one a bit more in three weeks when we're together again.... Les (Purveyor of Fine, Handcrafted Kink)

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