MadRabbit
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You guys should read "The Game" by Neil Strauss if you want to see what lengths men will go to to bring woman into the bedroom.... Yes!! When I came accross that stuff, I was like, why does it have to be so hard? If they'd spend as much time working on themselves as they did working on their game, they'd all be catches. I've come accross gamers, and they usually have a lot going for them, but jeesh, they're always working an angle or a line or something. It's like they can't just be themselves and have to have a gimmick for security. I don't understand it. Well, actually I do but I'm avoiding some really deep issues right now, so I ain't going there. I think that was the ultimate lesson the book was getting at. A lot of Neil's success was do to the fact that he simply didn't strive to learn precanned lines and angles, but the self improvements he made to himself. His style of dress, his confidence, his self image and self respect, his health and body figure. "Style" was an altar ego of his own creation, a person he changed himself into, but still somebody that was based off his own natural personality. It was that and the growth and change of himself that got him the girl of his dreams at the end, not the precanned lines and social tactics.
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