Focus50
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First of all, "punishment" (IMO) comes when the girl does something to *anger* me and for that, she's denied any attention, esp anything remotely pleasurable (including erotic pain), and gets parked in the corner until I'm no longer angry.
Now, bending the rules is a matter of discipline and not something likely to anger me as long as it's not habitual or manipulative.
So a little story of mental bondage....
Several years back, I awoke one morning to find my girl masturbating. The rules were simple; when it's just her, she (as a mature adult) is free to run her life as she sees fit, including pleasuring herself etc. But when I'm there and/or staying over, her body belongs to *me* and she needs permission for any form of personal gratification.
Still half asleep, I was miffed at catching her breaking the rules so I rolled her over and padlocked her cuffs behind and went back to sleep. Not long after, and you wouldn't believe it - ole rubber limbs was at it again. I was both pissed at a repeat offence yet impressed at her flexibility.... lol But mostly I was pissed, esp after the night we had before, which included several hours worth of bondage, pain, pleasure and sub-space.... Not sure what to do about this transgression, I settled for simply tying her hands behind with rope while I contemplated further - over the next hour or so....
After some thought, I recalled a story I'd once read of a mental bondage technique and decided to give it a try. That afternoon I had her strip bare and got her to place her hands together (in front) so that only her 5 sets of fingertips were touching their matching opposite. I then placed a coin between each set for her to keep in place. She was then to rest her hands behind her head and I explained the rules.
Basically, since she couldn't seem to leave herself alone, I placed my finger against her clit and she was permitted all the sexual pleasure she desired, as long as she didn't drop any coins. She was to do all the "work" (naturally) and she could go at any pace she wanted, including taking a breather etc, but her clit was not to break contact with me. I also warned her to make the most of it because she wasn't getting ANY sexual pleasure over the next two days and would be sleeping with her wrists bound to the headboard.
My only regret all these years after is that I didn't check the clock before she began.... And she did better than I expected. Indeed, I had to modify the rules because (dammit) my arm got tired and I hadta switch hands. She "rested" maybe twice but in the end, there was that inevitable sound of metal (coin) striking polished hardwood floors and I immediately withdrew my hand. She didn't quite get off and I told her we'd fix that - in a coupla days - and that the only sex until then would involve her mouth....
I'd never really rated mental bondage but that was fun - for both of us. And "fun" means it was NOT punishment.
Focus.
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