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jeremias13 -> RE: Money... (5/1/2008 10:38:16 AM)
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ORIGINAL: peppermint
(sighs) This must be the 3rd or 4th complaint this week about those who want money. A professional serves an important role in all this. A professional is there for those who want a no strings attached scratching of their itch. Believe me, if there wasn't a market for a professional, there wouldn't be any.
You want a Mistress to scratch your itch, online if need be, just because she wants to scratch your itch for the joy of doing it for you. Please tell me...of what service is scratching your itch. What are you doing for the Mistress? Putting on a cam show? Heck...i can watch dozens of cam shows every day, and i'm not required to help you learn what you're looking for.
We're looking for a sub or slave, but we do expect something from the sub...as in help around the house, doing something we need done but can't do. That's what they call "service." Service is not watching you obey on cam when i tell you to stroke faster or slower or put clothes pins on your nipples.
Now....if you don't want to pay....don't pay. However, if you want noticed then you'll have to do something besides writing a whine as your very first post.
It makes such a poor argument resuming my first post to a whining post....
Oh well, that was to be expected. I understand it's really difficult for people to question their own values...
Still I didn't have noticed that this was the 3rd 4th post this week about the same subject. In fact this is my first post here on the forum, although I'm registered in this site for some time.
Second... I'm not questioning professionals (In fact how many are really professional??? ROTFL... I'm not even leading the conversation in that sense). Every person is free to make their choices... some of them quite questionable... Still, as I told, for me that no true BDSM. And your quite right when you refer the itch part and service and demand. Some centuries ago decapitation also was a "searched" service... fortunately today we became... more "civilized" in order to perceive that that was wrong.
Geez... it's so difficult to explain something on a spiritual level for people that cannot see beyond the material.... I believe that is enough to say that I go along much more with people that have a more spiritual vision from BDSM than the one that have a more materialistic vision from it. And for me BDSM makes sense when all the parties involve feel whole when they do it, before and after the process. It's not a mere itch. And that's the danger of generalization... judging that everyone is alike... Still I also understand how hard it is not to fall in that kind of pattern.
As for the rest of the post.... thank you for the input, but let me say it's an error to base on my profile in order to emit an opinion at this point since it's not updated.
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