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Pain to pleasure - 5/1/2008 11:53:27 AM   
littleone35


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Status: offline 		I never understood this before, i used to think if it is pain how can there be pleasure?  I am not into pain at all.  Yesterday Master did something and what he did hurt a little but also gave me a explosive O.  I will not go into details but it was wild.


This is basically for those of you who are not that much into pain.  Did your Master ever bring you from pain into pleasure?

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RE: Pain to pleasure - 5/1/2008 12:13:54 PM   
subdevra


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Status: offline 		on a scale of 1 to 10 i probably handle pain at about 4 1/2 and Master is usually flogging me at about a level 7 or so it seems.  but what i do find is that i will orgasm repeatedly during a flogging and go pretty deep into sub space.  at that intensity, for me at least pain and pleasure kinda get all mixed up.  the other is when pleasure becomes pain.  for when the pleasure is intense but i am not allowed to come down after cumming again and again and he keeps at it even when i am begging him to stop then it once again becomes a mingling of pain and pleasure that i find kinda overwhelming and i am once again into subspace.

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RE: Pain to pleasure - 5/1/2008 12:16:40 PM   
KatyLied


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Status: offline 		The pleasure/pain connection has a lot to do with the structure of the brain and the chemical dopamine.

In answer to your question, I feel pain as pain.  I've never had it torn to pleasure.  The only pleasure I get is in submitting to something that I don't enjoy, it's like a challenge for me.


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RE: Pain to pleasure - 5/1/2008 12:23:13 PM   
abcbsex


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Status: offline 		having had an orgasm before from hot wax dripping on me, I'd say somewhere along the way my wires got tangled and I now feel pain he gives me as pleasure. Any other pain is still just ow.

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RE: Pain to pleasure - 5/1/2008 1:34:16 PM   
daddysliloneds


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Status: offline 		hey now, just because i'm a masochist doesn't mean i can't still feel pain as pain

many, many, many years ago,i was getting punished and having my ass beat pretty damn hard; it hurt, i was crying, and i was mentally/emotionally a mess as well and from out of no where i orgasmed, big flooding puddles of cum everywhere...

i cried harder thinking that i was going to get in trouble for that happening while i was being punished; instead he gave me more because i liked it and he promised to find another way to punish me instead.

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RE: Pain to pleasure - 5/1/2008 7:00:02 PM   
LuckyAlbatross


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Status: offline 		Nope.  But I'm not a masochist, and at this point with as much experience in it, it's really pretty darn slim chance that I'll experience it as such.

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RE: Pain to pleasure - 5/1/2008 7:57:02 PM   
slavegirljoy


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quote:

ORIGINAL: littleone35
Did your Master ever bring you from pain into pleasure?

Not only does He take me through pain into pleasure, He also takes me through pleasure into pain.  He will tickle me, which makes me laugh and feels good, and He keeps tickling me until it hurts.
 
joy
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RE: Pain to pleasure - 5/1/2008 8:04:57 PM   
FlamingRedhead


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Status: offline 		I have never had an orgasm from pain alone.  Pain is pain.  The only time I have ever cum from pain was alternating spanking with fucking for almost 2 hours.  The spanking put me in sub space, so I guess I was relaxed enough to just cum without clitoral stimulation.  *shrugs*

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RE: Pain to pleasure - 5/1/2008 11:27:27 PM   
SubJordanTyler


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Status: offline 		About the only way I can cum from pain is from getting it as hard as possible from a strap-on.  It's usually not too bad until my ass tears - then the pain hits like my asshole is on fire.  I'll be in tears and then I'll have an orgasm.

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RE: Pain to pleasure - 5/2/2008 1:44:16 AM   
eyesopened


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Status: offline 		i have absolutely no idea how it works and i have stopped trying to figure it out and i just go with it but i have discovered that my mind and body are not in agreement on this issue.  i feel pain as pain and really don't associate pain with pleasure.  This seems to work well for my Master, who is a Sadist.  However, it pleases both of us that i become sexually aroused, often without my being consciously aware of it.  i will be in agony and not feeling horny at all, but i am gushing wet.  i can't explain it.  i just accept it.

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RE: Pain to pleasure - 5/2/2008 12:11:45 PM   
Bound2One


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Status: offline 		I'm finding I'm very similar to you, eyesopened.  I'm turned on by the pain, even though I'm not experiencing any pleasure from it.  Maybe it's deep down on the subconsious level that it turns erotic for me.  I try not to think too much about it and just go with the feelings. 

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RE: Pain to pleasure - 5/2/2008 1:43:40 PM   
Wheldrake


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Status: offline 		For me, pain is just pain, and I find it thoroughly unpleasant. Nevertheless, I do get sexually aroused and mentally excited while being tormented by my Mistress. I think that what's turning me on is my awareness of my own situation - that I'm basically helpless in the hands of a sadist who takes a fiendish pleasure in making me suffer. I find the very idea of that thrilling, on an almost aesthetic level, so facing the reality is incredibly hot.

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RE: Pain to pleasure - 5/2/2008 6:38:50 PM   
MistressDollys


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Status: offline 		Pain is good because through pain we learn about pleasure. Life can be pain and so can a flogging or whipping, etc. In life we learn to understand that after pain there is pleasure; life gets better and we have grown.

In pain caused by penance, we learn what we did wrong (unless bull headed and stupid) and find a path to redemption. At the end of the path you are be back in the graces of your Mistress and can find pleasure once again.

Make no mistake! Just because you suffer pain from an extension of Goddess's hand it is not over. There is always the path you must take to salvation.

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RE: Pain to pleasure - 5/3/2008 6:18:20 AM   
blueskyboy


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Status: offline 		i don't like the pain as much as i like that she knows she can do that...and that i am willing to suffer to be hers...it is the message that the strap sings that makes me kneel

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RE: Pain to pleasure - 5/3/2008 9:19:45 AM   
Maya2001


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Status: offline 		I have but only on a rare occasion,  and   the result is each time you find yourself wanting hoping to get to that point again and feels like a let down when you don't

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RE: Pain to pleasure - 5/3/2008 8:29:31 PM   
proudsub


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Status: offline 		I have gotten to the point where it is hard for me to orgasm without some pain.  Nipple pain works best for me.

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RE: Pain to pleasure - 5/3/2008 11:24:51 PM   
sleazybutterfly


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Status: offline 		I will say I don't know if it's pain that goes to pleasure for me at all.  I think I get my pleasure from enduring things I didn't think I could, or pushing myself past my body's normal limits.  There is perhaps a point there where pain turns into pleasure, but the line is so very fine that I don't even realize I have crossed it. 

Learning to endure, to do things solely because he enjoys it is something I am in the process of learning now.  I am opening myself back up to being under his thumb, not crushed, but protected and opened up like never before. 

Pain is relative, and is in the eye of the beholder.   I am not sure anything that I see gives him pleasure can ever be true pain to me.  The pleasure would always be behind the suffering, and the pain would cease to exist.

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RE: Pain to pleasure - 5/5/2008 9:23:28 PM   
bornsynner


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Status: offline 		this is an odd one to explain for me.. i do experience pain as pain but at the same time when pain is controlled (either by Him or by myself) then pleasure comes from the pain.. earlier on, i thought this was b/c the pain was always intermingled with sexual pleasure... since then, ive come to understand that i enjoy pain thoroughly even without sex.. even the soreness that lasts for days later, brings pleasure with it.. ive yet to understand  why this happens for me and ive stopped trying.. i just accept it for the joy that it brings..

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RE: Pain to pleasure - 5/5/2008 11:45:58 PM   
deliteme


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quote:

ORIGINAL: proudsub

I have gotten to the point where it is hard for me to orgasm without some pain.  Nipple pain works best for me.

This makes two of us.... it doesn't have to be much..just a little nip, bite, pull, pinch...mmmm off I go.

Sometimes just having my hair pulled and my neck bitten and I start heading into subspace...keep going and I cum..

Now since I don't have a partner at the moment..need to figure out how to do it to myself.....


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RE: Pain to pleasure - 5/5/2008 11:53:41 PM   
euphr0syne


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Status: offline 		The way i've always looked at it is that there is good pain and bad pain.  Good pain helps me cum -- things like nipple clamps, needles, floggers, and such.  Bad pain, on the other hand is everything else.  It might be nothing to do with a scene, like slamming my finger in a drawer accidentally, or it might be just too high a level of pain during a scene.  i have never been able to figure out where the difference lies.  i just know which is which by my reaction  -- or lack thereof -- to it.

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