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DominantJenny -> RE: Thank you Mistress!?!? (5/2/2008 7:07:27 AM)
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ORIGINAL: WalterRego
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ORIGINAL: DominantJenny
I order thank yous quite frequently, and, yes, particularly often for things he didn't enjoy per se.
Could you explain? Thank Me for something you didn't enjoy because......?
I thank (I think) my Mistress frequently: for the many things She does for me; for allowing me to be Her submissive; for the time She devotes to me and all that I get from it and Her. I want Her to know that I realize that She is thinking about me in many of the things She does, even if they may be small and also that I think about Her in ways unrelated to physical pleasure. Anything She does denotes that She considers Herself my Dominant/Mistress/Enchantress, and for that alone, I am thankful.
Perhaps I don't understand what you are saying in that She has never (yet) done something I didn't enjoy. What kinds of things are you talking about?
BTW, She has never required or even asked that I thank Her, I do it on my own. Are "thank yous" that come unbidden different than ones which You require at certain mandated times or ones you demand the spot?
Does it or would it, do you think, change the effect or meaning, when you require it of your submissives? If She were to have me thank Her for things I presently don't, would or does that have an effect?
Because it's a mindfuck, because it reinforces the Mistress/slave role we are in.
While, in an ultimate sense, my slave may enjoy everything I do to him, there are moments where he is most certainly NOT enjoying what is happening at that moment. Pain, something I've required him to do that doesn't turn him on but turns me on, etc.
Spontaneous thank yous are spiffy, but usually come when one is feeling happy...required thank yous are in spite of not feeling happy, generally.
Again, it's all about the dynamic...which may be totally different in your case than it is in mine.
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