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MasterJaysslave -> RE: What is painful to you? (5/2/2008 4:14:29 PM)

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ORIGINAL: ILsexyOne69

natural childbirth of twins - one being breech .... does that count?!?!?! --- personal experience, I wanted to DIE ... was scheduled for a c-sec 2 days later, but NOOOOO they wanted out NOW ... 3 years ago, and thus far in my life THE most painful thing I have ever experienced physically


Hell yes that counts.   I had natural childbirth and I can honestly say it was one of the most painful experiences I have ever had in my life.

Outside of natural childbirth though one of the most physically painful experiences I have ever had was with a bullcastrator.   For all of you who think cloverclamps are nasty; trust me clover clamps are a cake walk.   I have relatively large nipples so it is worse than most would probably be.

I find the unexpected pains are also more intense.  I am not what I would consider a masochist.  I tolerate pain because it brings him happiness.




stella41b -> RE: What is painful to you? (5/2/2008 4:57:55 PM)

Hmm things which are painful for me...

Physical pain I can handle.. I can take whips, floggers, riding crops, I've just about mastered the cane.. but.. not the wooden paddle. You don't even have to hit me with it, just wave it around a bit and I'll do whatever you want. I've even had a dentist drill my tooth without any anaesthetic and got through, but a wooden paddle?

Emotional pain is much harder, but here too I've coped with a lot of emotional pain.. Being rejected doesn't really touch me now, I've got so used to it it's just a disappointment.. Nothing can beat however the emotional pain of having to let go of a promising, developing relationship and in not having any other option but to say goodbye and walk away. Bereavement is painful, bereavement through suicide is especially painful.

Witnessing the suffering of someone close to me is very painful, even if it's just a headache.

Mariah Carey singing for me is too painful, in fact it's a definite hard limit.

Me dancing is painful, but for other people. I tried to learn dancing but was asked to leave on the second meeting. I dance like a cow on a trampoline with a violent wand stuck up its butt. Trust me, it's painful to watch.



GreedyTop -> RE: What is painful to you? (5/2/2008 5:05:14 PM)

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ORIGINAL: stella41b

Mariah Carey singing for me is too painful, in fact it's a definite hard limit.

Me dancing is painful, but for other people. I tried to learn dancing but was asked to leave on the second meeting. I dance like a cow on a trampoline with a violent wand stuck up its butt. Trust me, it's painful to watch.


*snicker* 

ok, that cow visual got me..LOL



christine1 -> RE: What is painful to you? (5/2/2008 5:13:39 PM)

sharp pain i can't take very well, it terrifies me so i think that makes it more painful for me.  severe pain tends to make me withdraw or get angry.

spread out pain like a paddle or abrasion (have i mentioned before that i LOVE abrasion? lol), just melt me, they get my attention but in a very good way.



kiwisub12 -> RE: What is painful to you? (5/2/2008 5:20:38 PM)

hate clover clamps - literally can't breath when they are on.   Not keen on Sirs single tail whip either.

Now canes - love 'em



KCherry -> RE: What is painful to you? (5/2/2008 5:24:07 PM)

Anything with an even non stinging pain I enjoy. Crops, Nipple clamps. When it gets into stinging pain, like a paddle it starts to get to me but I still havent reached an unexceptable level yet. Natural childbirth, I was begging for mercy. lol.



lusciouslips19 -> RE: What is painful to you? (5/2/2008 5:25:14 PM)

Sir has a wooden spoon with a whole in the middle that just hurts like hell. It does get me to subspace though.[:D]



laura2161 -> RE: What is painful to you? (5/2/2008 5:42:21 PM)

A rubber flogger. Love almost all floggers but the rubber one had to be put away. Just the first strike made me feel like my skin was being ripped off. Bad Pain.

And I agree about clamps. Very rare that I can process it into pleasure/pain .



BBWnNC72 -> RE: What is painful to you? (5/2/2008 5:48:48 PM)

Physically, most of it hurts, but it all makes my pussy wet and i giggle and squirm.  But i would have to say that the evil stick gets to me a lot sooner then anything else.  Emotionally, the words "i am disappointed in you kat" are the most painful thing i have ever felt, it even made me hurt physically. [:(] 



Poetryinpain -> RE: What is painful to you? (5/2/2008 9:45:34 PM)

I just thought of another - burns.  Can't stand burns. Even a tiny pinpoint spark-burn will throb for hours. That's one reason I have fire play as a hard limit. (That, and the bit about diabetics and wound care.)

pip, quivering at the thought of burns



LuckyAlbatross -> RE: What is painful to you? (5/2/2008 9:46:36 PM)

Are you asking masochists or non masochists?

I'm not a masochist, so pretty much the standard responses of pain are pain and standard responses of pleasure are pleasure- when it comes to direct physical stimulus at least.



Maya2001 -> RE: What is painful to you? (5/3/2008 7:38:17 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Missokyst

Umm... that wouldn't be a damaged rhomboidues muscle would it?  Mine lifted off my shoulderblade due to a work accident 8 yrs ago and it is enough pain now and then to make me seek out cliffs.
I am glad cold weather season is mostly over.
Kyst

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ORIGINAL: Maya2001


As far as worst pain that I have felt ..was an upper back/neck  injury to my spine with enduring 6 years of chronic pain from






In  part,  I know what you mean feels like someone is trying to grind their fist under your shoulder blade ..  also  the trapezius, smaller bands of muscles  running across also were effected  and also in neck muscles which had resulted  in severe spine instability from my neck to just below the shoulder blades  so went thru  3 years of chiro and physio  inorder to avoid surgical spinal fusion.

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Maya,
I've often wondered if I have some short circuity in the nerve pathway department

that could be an explanation ... after I had physically recovered from my upper back injuries, I was still complaining of pain then , had already undergone some neurological tests..there was nerve damage from but it should not have been resulting in the degree of continued pain I was in, so they then assumed it caused by the pain receptors in the brain had been turned on for such a long period of time(several years)  as a result of the chronic pain from the  injuries that they no longer knew how to turn off on their own, so I was put on a low dose of amitriptylene(an anti depressant med) for a period of time to try and  encourage the pain receptors to turn off..which did work
( I guess it would be much like the phantom pain some amputees experience) . ... I imagine the opposite can occur..where not all the pain receptors are functioning nornally  and will turn on when pain occurs. 





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