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onlinesub1 -> Should I take a past Mistress back? (5/2/2008 11:19:47 AM)

So a few months-years ago, the Mistress that owned me had to leave due to personal/family issues. The leave was sudden so there wasn't really any time to say goodbyes or anything. She finally comes back and since I never really had any issues with her, so I want her to take me back. She is also willing to take me back. Do you think it would be a good idea to get owned by this same person? She did leave once without a warning so it could happen again.


The topic is should I take a past Mistress back with the chance that she could leave again without warning. Try not going off topic >_>



tahlly -> RE: Should I take a past Mistress back? (5/2/2008 11:21:25 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: onlinesub1

So a few months-years ago, the Mistress that owned me had to leave due to personal/family issues. The leave was sudden so there wasn't really any time to say goodbyes or anything. She finally comes back and since I never really had any issues with her, so I want her to take me back. She is also willing to take me back. Do you think it would be a good idea to get owned by this same person? She did leave once without a warning so it could happen again.


The topic is should I take a past Mistress back with the chance that she could leave again without warning. Try not going off topic >_>

since you know up front that it could happen again; only you can answer this question. Can YOU handle it if it SHOULD happen again?



Dnomyar -> RE: Should I take a past Mistress back? (5/2/2008 11:23:23 AM)

You said she had family isues then you said that she left without warning. Make up your mind. Seeing that no one else wanted you I think the question is a no brainer.



onlinesub1 -> RE: Should I take a past Mistress back? (5/2/2008 11:23:30 AM)

I can handle it but should I invest my time again to someone that can leave without warning?

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ORIGINAL: Dnomyar

You said she had family isues then you said that she left without warning. Make up your mind. Seeing that no one else wanted you I think the question is a no brainer.


She told me when she came back



tahlly -> RE: Should I take a past Mistress back? (5/2/2008 11:24:17 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: onlinesub1

I can handle it but should I invest my time again to someone that can leave without warning?

And I will repeat myself. Only you can answer that.



OldBastardly1 -> RE: Should I take a past Mistress back? (5/2/2008 11:32:39 AM)

NO! I think you should stay lonely. Wait....if she puts up with your whining, will that keep you from whining on here?

What color is her hair? How long was she gone? I wonder what I will have for dinner tomight....... So..she really likes you? Wow. It is a beautiful day.



chamberqueen -> RE: Should I take a past Mistress back? (5/2/2008 11:34:19 AM)

Anyone can have family commitments come up suddenly, or financial commitments.  I was a Mistress down in Texas when I found out that I had two days to move to Michigan because of unforeseen commitments. 

It's not like she just bailed on you for no good cause.  If both of you were happy in the relationship, and if you understand that absolutely anyone can have their life altered overnight, then I think that you have a great shot at it.  Just be prepared that it could happen again.



CalifChick -> RE: Should I take a past Mistress back? (5/2/2008 11:42:57 AM)

I don't think this should be news or anything... but anyone can leave without warning.

Cali



subtee -> RE: Should I take a past Mistress back? (5/2/2008 12:11:32 PM)

How long did she "own" you before?

Do you believe she couldn't even let you know with a phone call that she was leaving?

How does she feel about disrespect?

Ray and OB, may I go coffin shopping with you?



MistressOfGa -> RE: Should I take a past Mistress back? (5/2/2008 12:14:12 PM)

Onlinesub,
I don't mean to be rude, but your behavior on these forums have basically ruled out anyone who may have been interested in you. I think you should take what you can get. Don't tell your Mistress that the only reason you took her back is because you couldn't get anyone else.

Good luck to you...and seriously good luck to Her.

MoGa



Lynnxz -> RE: Should I take a past Mistress back? (5/2/2008 12:21:51 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: onlinesub1

i'm pretty sure being worth something on a website's message board isn't much.


Unlike you, not everyones worth revolves around their computer. Some of us enjoy putting some pants on and going outside every once in a while.... I'm pretty sure I've met OldBastardly actually... OMGWTF REAL LIFE



MistressOfGa -> RE: Should I take a past Mistress back? (5/2/2008 12:22:48 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: OldBastardly1

I would really love to stick around and watch this trainwreck, but I have to get ready for a Hank Jr. and Lynyrd Skynyrd concert. And I don't care if you don't know who they are, LOL.

And...........You didn't invite me? Oh My Gawwwd take me back to Sweet Home Alabama!

MoGa



CalifChick -> RE: Should I take a past Mistress back? (5/2/2008 12:23:44 PM)

Hey... why haven't we asked if it was a real Mistress, or an onlinemistress?

Cali
(just the facts, ma'am)



AAkasha -> RE: Should I take a past Mistress back? (5/2/2008 12:31:01 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: onlinesub1

So a few months-years ago, the Mistress that owned me had to leave due to personal/family issues. The leave was sudden so there wasn't really any time to say goodbyes or anything. She finally comes back and since I never really had any issues with her, so I want her to take me back. She is also willing to take me back. Do you think it would be a good idea to get owned by this same person? She did leave once without a warning so it could happen again.


The topic is should I take a past Mistress back with the chance that she could leave again without warning. Try not going off topic >_>


Have you verified that this person is legimately a woman, first and foremost, and is who she says she is?

Akasha



Phin -> RE: Should I take a past Mistress back? (5/2/2008 12:31:25 PM)

you were offered good advice. you are the only one that can answer weither or not you should go back to this mistress. But that is not what you wanted to hear. this thread became a joke when you wined that we did not answer "Yes!!! go back to her and beg her forgiveness, because you are worthy of her and only she is worthy of you."



ModeratorEleven -> RE: Should I take a past Mistress back? (5/2/2008 1:24:34 PM)

Another fun thread cleanup.

Ok kids, that's about enough of that nonsense.  Play nice or be sent to your rooms alone without any dinner.

XI



windchymes -> RE: Should I take a past Mistress back? (5/2/2008 2:00:14 PM)

Sorry, but I never have and never will buy that "having to leave suddenly because of whatever kind of commitments"excuse, and then not contacting the person they're in whatever kind of relationship with either at all or until they come back.  It only takes a minute or two to drop a couple lines in an email to say "Sorry, got a family emergency, will be out of touch for a time but will keep in touch."  And then sending a "Mom's not doing so well, will be gone another week", "Thinking about you, I'll be home next week", etc.  And I see enough people driving around or walking around or sitting around with cell phones attached to their faces or ears to not believe that there was no chance whatsoever for a short phone call. 

My experience has always been that once they find out they can do this with you, they'll continue to do so again and again, keeping you on the back burner while they dally around.  And if they really wanted to contact you, they would find the time. 



MistressOfGa -> RE: Should I take a past Mistress back? (5/2/2008 2:01:30 PM)

lol oh you! You have a wicked sense of humor :)

MoGa



YourhandMyAss -> RE: Should I take a past Mistress back? (5/2/2008 2:03:47 PM)

EXACTLY! I wanted to talk to my partner so bad once I put the call on my credit card cause I was out of state, and I didn't have a calling card, and hat can be kind of pricey. I've also used my cell phone, when I was worried about roaming charges cause I cared more about talking to him than a few roaming charges.
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ORIGINAL: windchymes

And if they really wanted to contact you, they would find the time. 



MamaDomme1 -> RE: Should I take a past Mistress back? (5/2/2008 2:20:09 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: onlinesub1

So a few months-years ago, the Mistress that owned me had to leave due to personal/family issues. The leave was sudden so there wasn't really any time to say goodbyes or anything. She finally comes back and since I never really had any issues with her, so I want her to take me back. She is also willing to take me back. Do you think it would be a good idea to get owned by this same person? She did leave once without a warning so it could happen again.


The topic is should I take a past Mistress back with the chance that she could leave again without warning. Try not going off topic >_>


No.  Don't do it.  She will pull the same stunt over and over again, as many times as you sit and allow it.  Being a submissive does not equate with doormat.



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