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What humiliation tasks would you enjoy - 5/4/2008 8:24:21 AM   
CruelnycMistress


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Status: offline 		Hey there Subs in the Collar me Community,
One of my slaves needs to be humiliated and I am looking for new ideas to really embarrass him severely. Either in public or private…last time I made him bring a banana and act like a monkey, before that we went to a Victoria’s Secret store and got him measured for a bra and then purchase some matching panties. So let me know what you would enjoy as a humiliation task either here or in a private message,
Thanks :)

Looking forward to your responses
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RE: What humiliation tasks would you enjoy - 5/4/2008 10:13:41 AM   
kiwisub12


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Status: offline 		one of the most humiliating things i ever had to do was when my Sir denied me access to the toilet, and made me stand in the kitchen (linoleum) until i peed.   Then i had to clean it up.

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RE: What humiliation tasks would you enjoy - 5/4/2008 4:00:21 PM   
DesFIP


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Status: offline 		I don't enjoy humiliation. And I have to admit to not understanding if you want to do stuff he'll enjoy or stuff to bring him down a peg because you think he needs that.

BTW, did the salesclerk enjoy having to measure him for underwear? Did she also need to be humiliated in that manner? Are you her mistress also?

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RE: What humiliation tasks would you enjoy - 5/4/2008 4:08:50 PM   
SubJordanTyler


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Status: offline 		Make him clean off everything and anything that goes in his asshole with his mouth.............and always make him lick up all of his cum.  Those should work nicely!!

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RE: What humiliation tasks would you enjoy - 5/4/2008 8:00:55 PM   
CoasttoCoast


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BTW, did the salesclerk enjoy having to measure him for underwear? Did she also need to be humiliated in that manner? Are you her mistress also?


while i think this is kind of a silly op, and there are some imporant considerations to take into account with public play, insinuating that it is inherently degrading for a man to shop for lingerie is somewhat bigoted. Are transvestites not allowed to buy the clothing that they wish to purchase?

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RE: What humiliation tasks would you enjoy - 5/5/2008 3:32:42 AM   
bootw0rshipJT


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Status: offline 		I love humiliation in any shape or form, but i must admit one of my favourite tasks, is to be forced to sniff mistress' boots & shoes. She will wear them all day and make me lick them clean, and sniff the smell of her feet out of them.

Love the way she grabs my hair and shouts at me to lick them.......

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RE: What humiliation tasks would you enjoy - 5/5/2008 4:29:31 AM   
rulemylife


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ORIGINAL: DesFIP

I don't enjoy humiliation. And I have to admit to not understanding if you want to do stuff he'll enjoy or stuff to bring him down a peg because you think he needs that.

BTW, did the salesclerk enjoy having to measure him for underwear? Did she also need to be humiliated in that manner? Are you her mistress also?




Why do you assume the salesclerk didn't enjoy it?  Just because it is not something you would have enjoyed?




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RE: What humiliation tasks would you enjoy - 5/5/2008 8:34:39 AM   
DesFIP


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Status: offline 		rml, because she didn't say that she asked for consent from the clerk. My experience is that the young girls who tend to clerk at a Victoria's Secret feel very uncomfortable in these situations. Whereas an older woman with years of experience in a department store lingerie section is much calmer and more willing to help a transvestite.

However being as the point of this was to humiliate him, I doubt he was able to ask the clerk sincerely to help him. I'm assuming his discomfort showed and some poor 17 year old was left to deal with it. Having an adolescent daughter myself, I would not enjoy someone else shoving their kink down her throat.

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RE: What humiliation tasks would you enjoy - 5/5/2008 8:47:08 AM   
BRNaughtyAngel


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Status: offline 		Humiliation is a very personal thing, so I would think that a dominant would need to get inside the head of their submissive and really get to know how they tick in order to push their various and assorted buttons.


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RE: What humiliation tasks would you enjoy - 5/5/2008 8:56:01 AM   
ownedgirlie


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Humiliation is a very personal thing, so I would think that a dominant would need to get inside the head of their submissive and really get to know how they tick in order to push their various and assorted buttons.




Bingo.  I read things that some people find humiliating and think, "Eh, no biggy" and I read other things and think "Wow!"  If you want to manage your submissive's experiences, no your submissive's mind.

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RE: What humiliation tasks would you enjoy - 5/6/2008 8:03:14 AM   
OsideGirl


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ORIGINAL: CoasttoCoast


quote:

ORIGINAL: DesFIP

BTW, did the salesclerk enjoy having to measure him for underwear? Did she also need to be humiliated in that manner? Are you her mistress also?


while i think this is kind of a silly op, and there are some imporant considerations to take into account with public play, insinuating that it is inherently degrading for a man to shop for lingerie is somewhat bigoted. Are transvestites not allowed to buy the clothing that they wish to purchase?
I think there's a large difference between man being forced to try on lingerie in a public store for humiliation and a guy trying on clothes to purchase. Intent counts.

It's been my experience that TVs are aware that they make salespeople uncomfortable sometimes. A friend of mine goes as far as to speak to manager to request a salesperson that will be okay with what he is doing.

I get the feeling that the OP didn't give a crap if the salesperson was uncomfortable being part of the submissive's humiliation scene.



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RE: What humiliation tasks would you enjoy - 5/6/2008 8:07:35 AM   
Aynne


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Status: offline 		No kidding, that is ridiculous. I used to work at a Vic. Secret at the mall many years ago and I would have been pissed. If a guy came in and wanted to buy himself lingerie? No problem. But to assist in this kind of scene? No way.  



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ORIGINAL: DesFIP

rml, because she didn't say that she asked for consent from the clerk. My experience is that the young girls who tend to clerk at a Victoria's Secret feel very uncomfortable in these situations. Whereas an older woman with years of experience in a department store lingerie section is much calmer and more willing to help a transvestite.

However being as the point of this was to humiliate him, I doubt he was able to ask the clerk sincerely to help him. I'm assuming his discomfort showed and some poor 17 year old was left to deal with it. Having an adolescent daughter myself, I would not enjoy someone else shoving their kink down her throat.


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RE: What humiliation tasks would you enjoy - 5/6/2008 8:30:00 AM   
MadameMarque


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ORIGINAL: DesFIP

rml, because she didn't say that she asked for consent from the clerk. [clip]


Yes, as DesFIP points out, 
it's not okay to involve other people in your scene, in an inappropriate context.  It's pretty much like other forms of exhibitionism, such as exposing yourself, in public - most disinterested parties are somewhere between irritated, creeped out, and disgusted, to find themselves the unwilling participants in your little fantasy. 
 
In a humiliation scene, you've made the witness to the humiliation a key participant, and have become the voyeur to their reactions to your scene. 
 
The question isn't, 'what makes you assume the sales clerk didn't like [being the captive audience to your perversions],' but, how dare you presume to impose upon her, in that way?


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RE: What humiliation tasks would you enjoy - 5/6/2008 8:43:52 AM   
Trashbagboy74


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Status: offline 		I had a Mistress/Domme that she knew that i would be humiliated and she loved it. She was getting off work, She told me to bring some thing with me when i come pick her up at work. I did what she told me and when she got off she called me on my cell phone to be prepaired when she comes to the car. Well the things she told me to bring were Duck Tape, Trash Bag, and some Lub. She told me to open the Trash Bag and get in it. It was dark outside so no one could see me Naked plus i was in a black Trash Bag. She got in the car and she asked me where the Tape was and i gave her the tape. She Tape up the Trash Bag and she said that she was hungry so instead of her going Home to get something to eat she went to BK. She ordered something to eat. When she got to the window she gave them the money and she asked where could she dump this Bag of Trash that was sitting in the front seat. They were going to help her take it to the Dumpster. Then she told them that is ok she will put it out at the curb for trash. She told me to say hello to them to freak them out. and i did what she told me to do. She asked me if i did  anything in the Bag. I told her no because i did not have permission to. she told me good and she told me bye the time we get home i better do some thing or else that i will not get it for 3 month.

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RE: What humiliation tasks would you enjoy - 5/6/2008 9:58:52 AM   
sunshinemiss


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Status: offline 		Hello Cruel NYC Mistress,

There is a handy dandy search button up in the upper right hand corner. You might want to familiarize yourself with it. I typed in the word "Humiliation" and lo and behold there were 300 hits. Imagine that! Also, there's this thing called Google. It is a search engine. I typed in "BDSM Humiliation" and 248,000 hits came up. Shocking that.

Now, this may seem sassy to you, and perhaps I am in fact sassy (another shocking revelation), but as was pointed out earlier what is humiliating for me is not humiliating for another. If you don't know your s-type well enough to figure out how to humiliate him, then perhaps you might want to go back to Domme School.

Not only are you rude to others who did not ask to be involved in your scenes, but you are lazy.

good luck,
sunshine

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RE: What humiliation tasks would you enjoy - 5/6/2008 11:36:02 AM   
DesFIP


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Status: offline 		It's especially inappropriate because the odds are she was involving minors in her scene. Having a teen daughter, most of her friends got jobs at 16 working in the mall; anime shops, teen clothing shops, Victoria's Secret.

You don't do this to children.

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RE: What humiliation tasks would you enjoy - 5/7/2008 6:59:47 AM   
SlaveRayleene


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Status: offline 		If you enjoy it, its not humiliating, surely.

quote:

ORIGINAL: CruelnycMistress

Hey there Subs in the Collar me Community,
One of my slaves needs to be humiliated and I am looking for new ideas to really embarrass him severely. Either in public or private…last time I made him bring a banana and act like a monkey, before that we went to a Victoria’s Secret store and got him measured for a bra and then purchase some matching panties. So let me know what you would enjoy as a humiliation task either here or in a private message,
Thanks :)

Looking forward to your responses



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RE: What humiliation tasks would you enjoy - 5/7/2008 11:31:56 AM   
CruelnycMistress


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Status: offline 		    Well, having worked at Victoria Secrets Myself when I was younger I can actually tell you that the minimum age requirement is 18. But I don’t think that is the point.  
The negative responses to this post are probably rooted in the fact that I offer Professional sessions. Why I ventured in this direction at one point is not topic of this discussion either.  It is clear that it can be quite easy to insult someone in a public forum like this. Also it does not take a whole lot of thought and courage to act all hardcore with your keyboard. 
Obviously you don’t know Me and could therefore assume that I would just force other people into My scenes. Well surprise, even so I am a cruel, evil sadistic human being most of the time, I don’t. Unless specifically requested (by a slave/ sub/ sissy/ pet/ toy or whatever) I am most gracious with other people. It was years ago that I realized that Domination is not about forcing another to submit.
Before doing any kind of public humiliation I usually find an associate. If not I make sure no one gets hurt (including Psychologically…since apparently your notions assumes that measuring a man for a bar would cause a life long trauma in a young female).   
One scene I did last week involved going to a restaurant for dinner. The slave was only allowed to drink tap water. The waitress was an insider whom I know in My personal live, and before any other questions arise she was well compensated for going along. 
So anyhow, I did not post this to inquire about research tools or what the general public thinks is humiliating, I was looking for personal experiences. And maybe I will find a few ideas that I like to try myself, I thought the trash bag scene was quite fabulous and creative.



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RE: What humiliation tasks would you enjoy - 5/7/2008 11:37:35 AM   
CalifChick


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ORIGINAL: CruelnycMistress
The negative responses to this post are probably rooted in the fact that I offer Professional sessions.

Before doing any kind of public humiliation I usually find an associate. If not I make sure no one gets hurt (including Psychologically…since apparently your notions assumes that measuring a man for a bar would cause a life long trauma in a young female).   


No, the negative responses were due to the fact that you described involving innocent bystanders in your kink, and you didn't say anything about precautions until now.

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RE: What humiliation tasks would you enjoy - 5/7/2008 12:08:37 PM   
CruelnycMistress


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Status: offline 		You are right, when I first posted this, I was not really concerned about explaining the methodology or precautions I use when doing public play. I assume that plays are always SSC. As a matter of fact when reading the replies I was shocked that some of you actually think that Dommes just go out there forcing themselves onto independent bystanders and continue to do so even if there is great amount of discomfort.   Obviously this is just going to keep going off on the wrong tangent, I could care less about what you think in regards to other topics, what I am interested in is what type of humiliation subs have personally enjoyed in the past. Or what you would enjoy or think about...
Thanks for the answers that were posted and send to Me covering that topic.

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