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AAkasha -> RE: Doling out a tribute? (5/4/2008 6:29:44 PM)


Supply and demand.  There must be an increase in men willing to pay women in this age group.  Perhaps investigate why this is so?
Where are the threads asking, demanding, wondering - WHY are so MANY sub men willing to part with cash, send gifts via wish lists, contribute to PayPal accounts -- just because a woman (?) is 18 - 25 and has a HOT picture?   That's the question.

No doubt a great many of these femdoms (?) are not who they say they are. In fact, one reason you may seem 100 "tribute" profiles age 18 - 25 could be that 5 - 10 of them are the SAME person. You can create as many profiles as you want here.  Troll the net, collect pics of cute, hot college aged women from MYSPACE, set up fake accounts in various parts of the world -- bingo.  Rolling in the dough.

Let's work on getting sub men to NOT fall for it.

Akasha




blackpearl81 -> RE: Doling out a tribute? (5/4/2008 6:33:24 PM)

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ORIGINAL: AAkasha


Supply and demand.  There must be an increase in men willing to pay women in this age group.  Perhaps investigate why this is so?
Where are the threads asking, demanding, wondering - WHY are so MANY sub men willing to part with cash, send gifts via wish lists, contribute to PayPal accounts -- just because a woman (?) is 18 - 25 and has a HOT picture?   That's the question.

No doubt a great many of these femdoms (?) are not who they say they are. In fact, one reason you may seem 100 "tribute" profiles age 18 - 25 could be that 5 - 10 of them are the SAME person. You can create as many profiles as you want here.  Troll the net, collect pics of cute, hot college aged women from MYSPACE, set up fake accounts in various parts of the world -- bingo.  Rolling in the dough.

Let's work on getting sub men to NOT fall for it.

Akasha



Touche'

I didn't even think about the multiple/alt accounts point of view.




azropedntied -> RE: Doling out a tribute? (5/4/2008 6:40:54 PM)

I have yet o expose all my Traits  wink wink nudge , nudge .[:D]

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ORIGINAL: MsStarlett

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ORIGINAL: azropedntied

thigh high boots maybe [:D]


Gees Az!  Do  you have a direct link to my computer or what?  I just finished 'processing' the pics of my new boots and haven't even loaded them up to my PhotoBucket yet!  You're either peeking or have ESP.





MsStarlett -> RE: Doling out a tribute? (5/4/2008 6:43:50 PM)

Hey Pearl - Wanna make some quick cash?  Set yourself up as a Domme and I'll supply you with pics for 1/2 the 'take'!  (Said pics won't be ME... but I know where to find lots of 'em!)

*evil giggles*




blackpearl81 -> RE: Doling out a tribute? (5/4/2008 6:45:03 PM)

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ORIGINAL: MsStarlett

Hey Pearl - Wanna make some quick cash?  Set yourself up as a Domme and I'll supply you with pics for 1/2 the 'take'!  (Said pics won't be ME... but I know where to find lots of 'em!)

*evil giggles*



Nah. I prefer to work for the paycheck that Uncle Sam rapes me on.




MsStarlett -> RE: Doling out a tribute? (5/4/2008 6:51:14 PM)

Can I watch?

You can just send me an audio file of your screams.  That would be cool! 




LadyHibiscus -> RE: Doling out a tribute? (5/4/2008 8:32:13 PM)

AZ!  You have SHOES???  Dang, your appeal just grows...well, I forgot the word.  Not "tangentially", and not "stratospherically", but you know the word, it's like "algebraically".

Damn menopausal aphasia!




steffie -> RE: Doling out a tribute? (5/4/2008 8:47:55 PM)

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ORIGINAL: blackpearl81

What is up with all these 20 something (note: insert irony here. I'm 27 lol) Dominants "requiring" tribute?



Simple math.  $300/hour.  It's more than they can earn anywhere else. 

It's similar in the transgender community.  A lot of young TSs succumb to the same temptation.  It's difficult to get a 'normal' job.  People won't hire a male that dresses like a female but is still legally male.  So they turn tricks.




azropedntied -> RE: Doling out a tribute? (5/4/2008 10:52:09 PM)

Aweee i thought you knew i had a lil ole fetish biz , nice to see my appeal grow , whooho i can feel it LOL

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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

AZ!  You have SHOES???  Dang, your appeal just grows...well, I forgot the word.  Not "tangentially", and not "stratospherically", but you know the word, it's like "algebraically".

Damn menopausal aphasia!




Lynnxz -> RE: Doling out a tribute? (5/4/2008 10:53:49 PM)

exponentially?




azropedntied -> RE: Doling out a tribute? (5/4/2008 11:00:50 PM)

steffie > sorry but i am going to have to call you on that last coment .They do Not have to turn tricks , it is their choice to do so .
If they can not find work , then they need to make  their own work .Be your own boss and wear what you wish to  at work .There is always a choice to make ,turning tricks just cuz your trans ,now now ,its all the need and greed hense making the choice at trick cash .Now i am not knocking  what they do i am  knocking the idea of  ohh  poor them they have nowhere else to turn nothing else they can do , they have to turn tricks . Come on now ,really ?




azropedntied -> RE: Doling out a tribute? (5/4/2008 11:01:56 PM)


That sounds like a keeper [:)] and flattering too .T/Y

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ORIGINAL: Lynnxz

exponentially?




MsStarlett -> RE: Doling out a tribute? (5/5/2008 3:17:20 AM)

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ORIGINAL: steffie
Simple math.  $300/hour.  It's more than they can earn anywhere else. 


Damn!   I'm in the wrong business... Now... If I lock a half a dozen slaves in my basement for a week... I bet they can get it all cleaned up and ready for my haunt crew to decorate, haul all my STUFF down there... I could be set up in less than a month!




thetammyjo -> RE: Doling out a tribute? (5/5/2008 5:31:38 AM)

This isn't a new thing and it can affect others who aren't interested.

While my first explorations in BDSM were online (many years ago) I soon tired of it and got into the local communities. I stayed there until there weren't any communities I wanted to be part of in my area and came back to online. So I did nothing bdsm other than munch announcements and such for over 5 years and very little for 10 years. Things have changed.

My first hint was when Fox asked me what tribute he should bring to our first meeting. I'm so old, I didn't even know what he was talking about. He explained and frankly I was doubtful because not being involved in most of the online community, I had never seen such a thing. Now I see it all the time.

Thank goodness I didn't know back then because I probably would have been insulted and not given Fox a chance. Now... well, now I try to curb my immediate insulted reaction when someone asks me about tribute because I see how much it can appear in the online community.

So, blackpearl81, it isn't just subs/bottoms who feel a negative reaction to this request. Sadly I see nothing that can be done except to ignore those you do not wish to deal with allowing them the freedom to attempt to get tribute or to give tribute with those who are interested.




steffie -> RE: Doling out a tribute? (5/5/2008 6:44:36 AM)

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ORIGINAL: azropedntied

steffie > sorry but i am going to have to call you on that last coment .They do Not have to turn tricks , it is their choice to do so .
If they can not find work , then they need to make  their own work .Be your own boss and wear what you wish to  at work .There is always a choice to make ,turning tricks just cuz your trans ,now now ,its all the need and greed hense making the choice at trick cash .Now i am not knocking  what they do i am  knocking the idea of  ohh  poor them they have nowhere else to turn nothing else they can do , they have to turn tricks . Come on now ,really ?



az, of course, i agree.  They don't "have" to do anything.  Yes, it is their choice.  But it's also an economic one.  It's just so  easy, particularly when you're young, beautiful, and men are offering you $300 an hour for sex.  Plus, it's easier than trying to find work in the straight world where you may be ostracized due to your gender or clothes.  In the straight world you're looked at as odd.  In the sex trade - you're a commodity people are willing to pay extra to possess for an hour.

Also helps if have a hormone habit and no health benefits, or a drug habit, or surgery you want. 

Saw it in NYC many times. 

Had men offer me $$$ many times when i was younger - when i was not even looking for it.  Some men are so ignorant, just because you are young and a TS, they think you must be a working girl.  Or you're a "shemale" that does porno. 

Not trying to say "all" young TS's go that route.  Of course not.  But for some, it's extremely tempting.




BoiJen -> RE: Doling out a tribute? (5/5/2008 7:56:24 AM)

I'm not coming out of my ass here...don't call them hookers or whores or prostitutes...these females have no intention at all of having sex with anyone they talk to.

Besides some women are doing it becuase they're tired of people (specifically low life cheating I want a free ride to my kink mother fuckers) doing no shows.

And yes others are scams. Whatever...use your best judgement and stop complaining about it. And for christ sake stop calling names like children.

boi




LadyHibiscus -> RE: Doling out a tribute? (5/5/2008 8:23:39 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Lynnxz

exponentially?


THANK YOU, Lynx!!  Ya whippersnapper![:D]




faerytattoodgirl -> RE: Doling out a tribute? (5/5/2008 10:46:21 AM)

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and men are offering you $300 an hour for sex.


but when a t goes on hormones it isnt long before IT will not work.  1-2 years on hormones and thats it. thus making it tough for them to make money since they cant have sex anymore.




Kirren -> RE: Doling out a tribute? (5/5/2008 11:26:02 AM)

When I first started in this life style, I felt that My time and My energy were worth something. At first I didnt see it, didnt think about it...didnt realize that it was in essence a kind of scam...

But as time went on, and I grew with in the life style, I realized, hey....hold up a second. Why...?

I put on My profile, Professional Sadist. That says a great many things to a great many people. It says...she wants money...she wants things...blah blah blah...so I wont talk to her. Thats WHY it is there. I dont want to filter thru the non sense of one line bull shit emails....I get them all day long. It occured to Me...its like a theft deterrent...If I throw that up there, the ones that have no real intrest, and have no real comitment ideals...will just not reply. Its worked like a charm.

Ive had several contact Me and ask Me, what I charge, these emails of course come with decent information on the person, and I reply to them, nothing. And I explain My reasoning. Maybe its a round about way of block delete move on....but it works and saves Me the effort.  Generally, the people that have contacted Me, think its funny when I tell them why I do it, and we have a great conversation starter and something to laugh about.

The fact is, these 20 somethings, are either insta domme's...just add water...or they are yes, Nigerian scammers...What is sad...what I think is worse...is that I know of a few domme's on here that have profiles, they meet these boys...and then they lay on them after a weekend spent at their home, or what have you..."Hey...Ive been feeding you while you were at My house all weekend...Ive been paying for the extra water and electricity...you owe Me 1/2 of this months rent..." THAT is sad. Pathetic in fact. But its been done.

Just realize, what you see is what you get. A fake plastic barbie doll image, with no real content or thoughts.




steffie -> RE: Doling out a tribute? (5/5/2008 9:03:01 PM)

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ORIGINAL: faerytattoodgirl

but when a t goes on hormones it isnt long before IT will not work.  1-2 years on hormones and thats it. thus making it tough for them to make money since they cant have sex anymore.


Since when does a TS need an erection to have sex?  :-)  The vast majority of men that chased me were tops. 

When i met men that wanted me to top them, i wanted to laugh in their face.  I mean, why would i take hormones and live as a woman, if i wanted to have sex like a male?  Made no sense to me. 

When i was on hormones (i'm not any longer) and lost functionality, i considered it a blessing.  In my mind, i was a woman.  And submissive women do not pop boners.  And hon, i sitll had plenty of sex.

Can't speak for all the working girls in the world.  I'm sure there are a mix of those who are and aren't functional, and there is plenty of business for both.  Maybe they take viagra.  Years ago i was friendly with a big black working girl in Philly.  She was a definite top and stopped taking hormones and got huge implants so she looked like a woman but could still function.  

If you manipulate your hormone doses, stay away from potent anti-testosterones like androcur and just take low doses of spiro, you could probably retain some functionality. 

But there's always a tradeoff.  If you want to keep your functionality - you don't get all the feminizing aspects.




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