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online domme - 5/4/2008 10:03:56 AM   
irishdan


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is there any dommes that actually get anything out of on-line slaves and enjoy it?
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RE: online domme - 5/4/2008 10:26:08 AM   
MsStarlett


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Don't get much out of slaves.  Get a lot of jollies from my doormat & my pain slut.  Very good 'wanking' matterial.  That's why I look for MEN WHO CAN TYPE!

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RE: online domme - 5/4/2008 12:36:41 PM   
azropedntied


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I as god tiper Mystrers yer vary preatty can eye wit to U sumtyme?

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RE: online domme - 5/4/2008 12:57:25 PM   
MsStarlett


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I think AZ has been reading my PMs.

*sigh*  Would you like me to C&P some of them?  You might laugh your ass off.


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It is by the beans of Java that thoughts acquire speed,
the hands acquire shakes, the shakes become a warning,
It is by caffeine alone I set my mind in motion.

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RE: online domme - 5/4/2008 1:43:04 PM   
submale4u2spank


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They tend to get your $.  Don't waste your time.

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RE: online domme - 5/4/2008 2:45:09 PM   
azropedntied


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    Ma'am , i think all the Dommes on here should get together and  make a book of all of those type  contacts put it with a cookbook and make millions .

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ORIGINAL: MsStarlett

I think AZ has been reading my PMs.

*sigh*  Would you like me to C&P some of them?  You might laugh your ass off.


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RE: online domme - 5/4/2008 3:11:32 PM   
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sometimes it's like getting flowers.  if you're interested in a person but this is all they can give, someone might be more than happy to have whatever they can get.  it depends what a person is looking for and what they'll be satisfied with, but think of how many cases people are happy to see, hear, talk, and otherwise interact in all ways aside from touch.  think of how many pictures you enjoy looking at.  how many videos you watch.  the times you talk but don't have the presense. 

online can be good for initial things, as well as when you are apart, it allows you to make a connection with people similarly as you would in person.  imagine if no one had pictures in their profiles.  most people like to see another, and speak with them before they arrange to meet.  some people like to see a lot before they meet or are part of it.  some however can't meet without turning their whole life into upheaval.

but yeah, i still see it like giving flowers in most cases.  it might not be exactly what you want, or the full extent of it, but most people can still be happy to have it.

would you be happy to see someone else on cam?  i'm going to assume yes, regardless of what being on camera includes, it's nice to see someone you like.  so it's only natural that others would as well, whether that will be enough however is going to be a difference among individuals. 

there are many reasons why someone might not be able to meet in person, or at least at all times.  think of being able to see a video of a family member, or friend you couldn't otherwise meet or you've become separated from; to hear their voice, and still be able to talk to them, ask them things, see them smile, it's pretty hard to argue that they won't wish they could be there, but it's also pretty hard to argue it would be better to not have this contact or connection with them at all, or that it's insignificant.  imagine being in the military or on a business trip, and you can still see and talk to the people you love and normally are with back home in such manner.  pictures, letters, and phone calls can mean so much, it can be so good to hear and to see them, i think this is of the same nature, but with more capability.

will a person have no desires for more or to be together in the flesh, that's unlikely.  but will they get anything out of it, i have no doubts.

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RE: online domme - 5/4/2008 4:52:23 PM   
MsStarlett


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Actually, all joking aside, I carried on a very rich relationship with a man in NY for over 15 years... all on line.

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It is by the beans of Java that thoughts acquire speed,
the hands acquire shakes, the shakes become a warning,
It is by caffeine alone I set my mind in motion.

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RE: online domme - 5/4/2008 4:56:19 PM   
Usako


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It's rather boring and empty and frankly just a waste of time.

Nothing wrong with online chatting and bonding but "online domme" is boring. Not even a webcam would make it anymore interesting. Giving orders to someone a gazillion miles away is a rather empty and dull feeling.

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RE: online domme - 5/4/2008 5:49:41 PM   
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Do not underestimate the power of words.


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RE: online domme - 5/4/2008 6:07:57 PM   
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quote:

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Do not underestimate the power of words.



Whats there to underestimate?

Don't get me wrong, I'm not saying its good or bad.

The ability for someone to up and leave is 10x easier on the net. Cancel/change your email account. Cancel/Change your messenger account. Cancel/Change your CM account/profile, and you've effectively dissapeared.

Not to mention, how do you filter out all the bullshit? How do you know whos real and whos not? Do you feel its neccessary to give a "online sub" closure when you or said domme just up and dissapears, without even a phone call or email?

You have an online relationship. Something goes sour. You up & leave, change/cancel your email, messenger & CM profile (and any other method of contact you chose to disclose to the sub your talking about) how does anyone get closure with that?

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RE: online domme - 5/4/2008 6:26:27 PM   
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Strictly online -- well, if the guy can write INCREDIBLY well and also seems to know all of my hot buttons..and can turn me into a puddle with his words - sure, it might work.  But I thoroughl enjoy "non-in-the-flesh" type arrangements if they are heavy on the phone/audio side, include PICTURES (good ones, nice quality camera work) and/or a good webcam. I am a very visual femdom - I get off on looking at bdsm porn, so it is not surprising that I enjoy dominating a man that I can see - either via pictures or film somehow. 

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RE: online domme - 5/4/2008 11:57:19 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: MistressDolly
Do not underestimate the power of words.


Indeed. Much of BDSM is mental, and words are one vehicle for things mental.

Cheers,

Sea

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RE: online domme - 5/5/2008 2:20:03 AM   
HardToTame


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I've noticed alot of people here are budding writers.  I don't know.  I think it can be effective and, different, but I think with a webcam would just, make me sad.  Ah well. .ljefwqljqlhjvlkhevf <--- sorry my keyboards sticky :D jk

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RE: online domme - 5/5/2008 4:05:42 PM   
AMADF


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I dont do cyber, nor spend much time in the chats.

The reason is simple: as many other modern womans, my free time is limited since i work, so and ill rather spend my free time  on the cinema, playing in REAL or taking a cofee with a friend than infront of the laptop. :D

Maybe on line mistress have a bit more of free time :)

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RE: online domme - 5/6/2008 6:42:17 AM   
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I have an online sub hes my AB and has been for 5 years hes in ny Im in ohio its been great

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