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Noah -> RE: Dominating a Tgirl (5/6/2008 9:36:36 PM)
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ORIGINAL: JohnWarren
How would you make use of anyone online?
How would you make use of someone in the next room? Or standing at just past arm's reach in the same room?
In each of these conditions, just as online, you can have complete access to your partner's psyche, her will, and her largest erogenous zone, her mind. With various proxy options you can have a tremendous degree of physical access to her well.
There are uncountable things you can't do together without being physically present and in touch, of course. Wonderful, delicious, potentially miraculous things. Just as well there are a wide range of things, including very powerful things, which can be done only at a distance.
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First, all you can do online is type. I'm not sure how that can be a use except as fantasy fodder.
All you can do online is type?
Been away long, John?
Notwithstanding an easily remedied ignorance of a wide range of online telecommunication options, including telehaptics ... for some people, BDSM is more than rubbing, not to disparage those who find complete fulfillment in friction.
But even if all you could do online was type, typing allows communication. There are worlds of psychological, emotional and spiritual territory which can be explored together through communication via any medium.
If you believe that "typing" and its equivalents are useless for anything but fantasy facilitation, you might reconsider after reading Thomas Paine's "Common Sense" or Dr. King's "Letter from a Birmingham jail" and considering the the powerful effects they had on flesh-and-blood individual human beings, world-shaking effects on both personal and societal levels.
If history isn't your thing, try Shakespeare, Rilke, or Neruda if you're still convinced that verbal interaction is powerless to give one person a measure of control over the heart, mind and will of another.
One musician may restrict himself to live performances. Another may take advantage of all that recording studios and broadcasting (and webcasting) have to offer. Either musician can move a listener to tears, engender epiphanies, bring healing--or chase away anyone with a shred of musical taste. Distance needn't be a barrier to deep communion for music or BDSM.
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