hizgeorgiapeach
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I've got a "bucket list" so to speak - but it's things that I don't necessarily put off doing until "later". Over the past 2 years since dad's stroke, he and I have spent a lot of time talking - which is one of the few things left that he's still capable of doing that he enjoyed prior to becoming ill. What we've talked about most is what he wishes he could do prior to dying - even knowing that with the paralysis, brain damage, and heart problems - he's not ever going to Be healthy enough. Some of it is things that he and mom talked about doing before she died - which they put off doing because of her health, or because he was busy working. Some of it is things he's thought about doing since she died. A lot of my own List - comes from talking to dad, and hearing his regret about not being physically capable of doing any of the things he so much Wants to do. So I'm doing them now - while I'm able - while I'm healthy - while I'm still young enough to Enjoy them. Partially because they're things I want to do - and partially to honor him, and the comment he made to me a while back about not letting things pass me by for the sake of working or worrying.
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