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24/7 weekend ideas - 10/16/2005 8:39:40 PM   
MistressJenna


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Status: offline 		I've read some wonderful ideas on these message boards and even included some in my own play. I feel these message boards are great for sharing ideas with others. I would like to pose a new question to all Master's/Mistress's and subs.

You have a sub that you only see occasionally and for a weekend he/she is coming to visit you to serve 24/7 for three days only. Your subs limits are no heavy pain and both of you enjoy lots of bondage play.What type of scening would you like to do & what type of rules would you lay out for the weekend?

From the submissive point of view, what would you be looking for?

I'm just asking this question because I feel a lot us enjoy weekends like this from time to time. It's always nice to get some new ideas from others that some of us may not have thought of. Looking forward to seeing every one's ideas!
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RE: 24/7 weekend ideas - 10/16/2005 8:58:43 PM   
OscarHargraves


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Status: offline 		Communicate ahead of time and toss out some ideas. What have you done in the past that you both really liked?

Also, is this going to be at home or in a motel somewhere? What about meeting somewhere and having the Sub act as your chauffeur? Maybe wearing something very special while driving.......... Then there's the 'on-call massage specialist' when you get to your destination.

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RE: 24/7 weekend ideas - 10/16/2005 9:09:04 PM   
MistressJenna


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Status: offline 		This would be a weekend at home.

For myself, I've been seeing this sub for over 5yrs. She lives out of state and comes to visit me for a weekend every couple of months. We have communicated as you mentioned and it does help. I feel though after 5yrs that sometimes I tend to repeat a lot of the same things over and over again. Not that we don't mind it but I feel it's nice to have some fresh ideas sometimes.

Thankyou for your reply!

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RE: 24/7 weekend ideas - 10/16/2005 9:11:10 PM   
foxglove716


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Status: offline 		If its only a once in a while thing you should make it special. One idea would be to fix your room up beforehand to really sweep them off their feet when they walk in. I think flowers and whips on the bed is a really nice compliment. (If roses then feel free to leave the thorns on!) A red silk scarf around a lamp sets a wonderful glow. Speaking of silk scarves, if its bondage youre into, these are ideal. Like I said, if you want to make it special and leave a lasting impression, this should be a very tactile experience. Use feathers, ice cubes, and whatever else to tease your partner. Just some ideas, have fun!

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RE: 24/7 weekend ideas - 10/17/2005 12:27:47 AM   
sinbetweens


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Status: offline 		I have a friend, M, who had a similar experience recently, and he called me to brag about the idea he'd come up with. I thought it was absolutely fantastic.

His slave was allowed to have exactly one orgasm that weekend, presumably on Sunday before she left. He could bring her to the brink as many times as desired, and she was not allowed to masturbate to orgasm in the meantime. After the one orgasm, M refused to touch her at all and she was not allowed to touch herself while still in his household.

I was quite impressed with M's creativity!

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RE: 24/7 weekend ideas - 10/17/2005 2:21:14 PM   
Soulhuntre


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MistressJenna
You have a sub that you only see occasionally and for a weekend he/she is coming to visit you to serve 24/7 for three days only. Your subs limits are no heavy pain and both of you enjoy lots of bondage play.What type of scening would you like to do & what type of rules would you lay out for the weekend?


I would absolutely go for a serious objectification or possibly an interrogation weekend.I knwo it can be hard when you don;t get much time with someone to deliberately use that time to not be close to them, but tossing it in every now and then will work wonders.

Objectification Ideas:


  • Sleep in the closet / on the floor - with minimal, absolutely minimal padding
  • Eat from the floor only with only water to drink. Preferably food and water from bowls.
  • No speaking.
  • Absolutely no orgasms, best if you don't even touch their genitals. Use their mouth.
  • What we call position work - get them used to holding positionf or longer and longer (kneeling for more than an 3 hours is a easy and achievable goal in most cases with a 2 minute stretch every 15 or so)
  • Endurance bondage - you can keep someoen bound for 98* of a weekend if you are attentive and careful


If you go for intrrogation, things get somewhat more strict...


  • No food. Only water (unless health issues intervene this is easily doable for 2-3 days or someone who is healthy)
  • Sleep depravation
  • No bedding at all, let them sleep in the tub
  • Keep them in a closet, interrupt them at all times during the weekend for punishment and / or use.
  • Break their cycles, don't let them know what time it is.


Do it once or twice a year, you'll reap the benefits all the rest of the time :)

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RE: 24/7 weekend ideas - 10/17/2005 2:28:43 PM   
ownedjulia


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Break their cycles, don't let them know what time it is.


Psychologically, thats a bad idea.

Its a technique used to interrogate prisoners and used by both British and US forces.
Be careful.





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RE: 24/7 weekend ideas - 10/17/2005 2:38:32 PM   
realsumissive


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Status: offline 		I've had this done to me for a week, so a weekend is easy. If you have some restraints or other toys use your imagination. I was made to completely strip, but you can begin where you choose. It's simple, it's cheap to do, and it's fun for the domme. Just disable her thumbs. You can wrap her hands in gause, ace bandages, tape, or just about anything else you choose. Have her make a fist with her thumbs inside over her palms. Then wrap the hand tightly enough so she can't open them. Sine she can't use her hands, she has no way of getting out of this simple bondage.
it seems pretty mild, and is until she needs to do something, such as wipe herself, feed herself, or any other thing that requires the use of the thumb. Think about it. If we can't use our thumbs, we're pretty much at the mercy of others. Offer to help her, but it's going to cost her.
I'm sure you can be creative in what she'll have to do or submit to in order to get your help, and believe me she'll beg you to help her.

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RE: 24/7 weekend ideas - 10/17/2005 9:22:29 PM   
Soulhuntre


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ORIGINAL: ownedjulia
Psychologically, thats a bad idea.


Well, it certainly is a somewhat upsetting one for a short while... but I don't know about "bad" especially for only a day or two (a weekend) unless peopel are playing with folks who are very, very fragile.

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ORIGINAL: ownedjulia
Its a technique used to interrogate prisoners and used by both British and US forces.
Be careful.


Careful is always good :)

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RE: 24/7 weekend ideas - 10/17/2005 9:42:12 PM   
caitlyn


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Status: offline 		I get the idea that you are looking for a unique "story" for the play, rather than specific acts.

I always thought it would be really cool to be the spy captured by the big bad CIA agent, and "forced" to give up information vital to national security ... which by the way could serve as a handy safe word.

Now, you know what sex fiends those CIA people are ... all that sloothing around with secret decoder rings and x-ray vision glasses. Also, what spy could be complete without all that cool spy clothing ... long leather coats, black leather pants and tight black gloves. Give me a break, a weekend of hot play ANY an excuse to shop. Hell, if your sub doesn't show, call me.

Oh, by the way ... I think you have invented a new term ... 24/2.

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RE: 24/7 weekend ideas - 10/18/2005 3:31:45 PM   
MistressJenna


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quote:



Hell, if your sub doesn't show, call me.

quote:




Thanks for the great idea and I'll keep your offer in mind ;)

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RE: 24/7 weekend ideas - 10/18/2005 5:11:00 PM   
darkinshadows


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Soulhuntre


quote:

ORIGINAL: MistressJenna
You have a sub that you only see occasionally and for a weekend he/she is coming to visit you to serve 24/7 for three days only. Your subs limits are no heavy pain and both of you enjoy lots of bondage play.What type of scening would you like to do & what type of rules would you lay out for the weekend?


I would absolutely go for a serious objectification or possibly an interrogation weekend.I knwo it can be hard when you don;t get much time with someone to deliberately use that time to not be close to them, but tossing it in every now and then will work wonders.

Objectification Ideas:


  • Sleep in the closet / on the floor - with minimal, absolutely minimal padding
  • Eat from the floor only with only water to drink. Preferably food and water from bowls.
  • No speaking.
  • Absolutely no orgasms, best if you don't even touch their genitals. Use their mouth.
  • What we call position work - get them used to holding positionf or longer and longer (kneeling for more than an 3 hours is a easy and achievable goal in most cases with a 2 minute stretch every 15 or so)
  • Endurance bondage - you can keep someoen bound for 98* of a weekend if you are attentive and careful


If you go for intrrogation, things get somewhat more strict...


  • No food. Only water (unless health issues intervene this is easily doable for 2-3 days or someone who is healthy)
  • Sleep depravation
  • No bedding at all, let them sleep in the tub
  • Keep them in a closet, interrupt them at all times during the weekend for punishment and / or use.
  • Break their cycles, don't let them know what time it is.


Do it once or twice a year, you'll reap the benefits all the rest of the time :)


Whilst these may be 'doable' They certainly are not responsible to do on someone who you will not have contact with for a length of time afterwards. What You are speaking of works on a long period - but to starve someone then let them go without supervision is INCREDIBLY stupid. Breaking cycles and sleep deprevation, then letting them go without supervision is incredibly STUPID. Unless You are 100% sure that the person is going home to someone who is aware of what has occured, or You have the ability of checking up on them personally(not just on the phone) then thats stupid. M'Lady was talking about a three day visit - not a long term situation. Geez...

BTW- did I mention this was stupid?

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RE: 24/7 weekend ideas - 10/18/2005 5:14:28 PM   
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Status: offline 		stand behind the door when she comes in grab her by the hair, toss her to the floor.........do what comes naturally.........tie her up and throw a blanket over her after.........then start thinking about what you should do next..............

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RE: 24/7 weekend ideas - 10/18/2005 6:40:19 PM   
wolfinside


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When she shows up, take her out to a nice fancy dinner.

Act as if you have decided to spend a vanilla weekend with her. When she is about convinced and disapointed, pull out a blindfold. Blindfold her, and put her in your car. drive her way out somewhere to a house in the country. There, strip her, and along with several other men, fuck her, flog her, tie her up and repeatedly use her all weekend long.

Activities would include: Play rape, rituals, tying her up after she has been very well used on the floor. Have men cum on her, piss on her and make comments about what a hot piece of ass she is and how they are going to continue to use her.

Keep the blindfold on her the whole time. Do all those things to her that she/you love. (the list is endless)

When the weekend is over, take her back to where you started. Remove the blindfold and bid her a fond fairwell.


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RE: 24/7 weekend ideas - 10/18/2005 7:29:05 PM   
MistressJenna


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quote:

ORIGINAL: wolfinside

along with several other men, fuck her, flog her, tie her up and repeatedly use her all weekend long.




This was not the type of weekend I was looking for. Just something intimate between the two of us.

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RE: 24/7 weekend ideas - 11/15/2005 5:51:05 PM   
slavedesires


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MistressJenna


quote:

ORIGINAL: wolfinside

along with several other men, fuck her, flog her, tie her up and repeatedly use her all weekend long.




This was not the type of weekend I was looking for. Just something intimate between the two of us.



Me wonders if Wolf noticed you were NOT into the male persausion Jenna??

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RE: 24/7 weekend ideas - 11/15/2005 7:25:04 PM   
slavejali


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Status: offline 		Ideas for a weekend:

1. Ankle cuffs and hobbled all weekend. she then gets her bondage fix but it also allows her to move around but with every step she takes and everything she does she will feel your restraint on her.

2. i saw a suggestion for silk scarf bondage...i myself dont like scarves as bondage, they tighten a lot and are hard to untie. Kewl for a blindfold tho.

3. i liked the interrogation idea..and this might work well in your case considering you have large periods where you dont see each other. You could have her kneeling in the center of the floor (with the ankle cuffs still on of course)..blindfolded..you pacing circles around her so she can hear your footsteps...you asking her things about the time you have spent away from each other...you can reward or punish her for each of her answers.... also stopping and not saying anything at all for a period of time..can be...intense.

4. ummm..still thinking..gonna post this while i am.

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RE: 24/7 weekend ideas - 11/15/2005 10:13:03 PM   
BalletBob


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Status: offline 		What a lucky Slave...and whole week end with her Mistress. Now I am very Jelious. Here is something I LOVED to do. Wrap her in Plastic Wrap, from Toes to neck. I also had a Penis Gag, Hood and Blindfold put on me too. Cut the Plastic over her Crotch area, and around the Nipples. Insert an Ice Cub into the hole, and let it met while you rub another Ice Cube over her Nipples. Now i read in another post that this caused pain, but for me it was really COOL...with the ice melting and the water runing under my bady..warm in the Plastic Wrap. Just make sure your slave uses the POTTY first, or it can cut it short, like I had too.

Still Dreaming of it, BalletBob

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RE: 24/7 weekend ideas - 11/16/2005 6:56:11 AM   
slavedesires


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quote:

i liked the interrogation idea..and this might work well in your case considering you have large periods where you dont see each other. You could have her kneeling in the center of the floor (with the ankle cuffs still on of course)..blindfolded..you pacing circles around her so she can hear your footsteps...you asking her things about the time you have spent away from each other...you can reward or punish her for each of her answers.... also stopping and not saying anything at all for a period of time..can be...intense.


Very nice idea jali....

Add to it...some hair pulling and intense long kissing... postion changes like suspension from a hook ... erotic clothing... standing with wrist restraints and legs spread apart pacing around her and touching/caressing body parts ocasionally ...back to kneeling and hoping she begs to be of service

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RE: 24/7 weekend ideas - 11/16/2005 8:12:12 PM   
sanita


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ORIGINAL: sinbetweens

I have a friend, M, who had a similar experience recently, and he called me to brag about the idea he'd come up with. I thought it was absolutely fantastic.

His slave was allowed to have exactly one orgasm that weekend, presumably on Sunday before she left. He could bring her to the brink as many times as desired, and she was not allowed to masturbate to orgasm in the meantime. After the one orgasm, M refused to touch her at all and she was not allowed to touch herself while still in his household.

I was quite impressed with M's creativity!


i had a similar experience in reverse:

i was visiting a Dominant friend that i played with on occasion for a short weekend, and we had decided to have a goal. Since i am very responsive, He was going to see if He could get me to come at least 25 times in one day. i was still a virgin at the time, so all He used was His hands. Well, He used my mouth alot, too. i had to give Him a certain number of orgasms, as well.

So anyway, Mistress Jenna, it might be fun to set a goal for the pleasure. If your sub gives you a certain amount of orgasms, or does a certain number of tasks, then one favorite reward. There might be achivement levels and more rewards. *grin* And if You just want her to be a puddle of goo, see if You can reach a personal goal related to her responses.

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