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angelwithhonor -> RE: Picture (5/6/2008 7:44:12 PM)

you know honestly though, that was the chance i took. and would i do this all over agian. yes of course, i have met so many nice ppl here. learned truly who i am and proud. smiles! now if i could just figure who the heck it is. they are playing a game with the wrong person, cus i could care less!! so now they are blocked, friend or family dont matter. you know at first they said they couldnt believe how brave i was. i dont call this brave, just not ashamed. now do i want my parents and family to know i am into bdsm and owned ! um no but if asked, would just politely say "yes and?"..[;)]



ShaktiSama -> RE: Picture (5/6/2008 8:26:59 PM)

*runs off to perve MsStarlett's profile*  Fourteen pics!  Woo-hoo!

I like the one with the cut-offs second best, after your main profile pic.  [:)]



LaMistressa -> RE: Picture (5/7/2008 4:41:53 AM)

Most of the people who write me with an introduction mention that they like my pictures, so I guess that has a lot to do with their interest in me. I don't think it's unreasonable to expect a picture in return, especially if it is sent privately. As for role in society and other social circles, I have a fair amount of friends active in the scene who also have similar concerns, yet they manage to be active here and locally. You can always do a torso shot, or a blurred/partially concealed image, or only send pictures via email.

But yes, pictures are a deal breaker for me. 



MsStarlett -> RE: Picture (5/7/2008 7:12:33 AM)

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ORIGINAL: ShaktiSama

*runs off to perve MsStarlett's profile*  Fourteen pics!  Woo-hoo!

I like the one with the cut-offs second best, after your main profile pic.  [:)]


Thanks!  I love being perved by pretty women.  Woot!

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A couple of my favorites do not have pics.  One sends pics directly to my PM box... the other I have never seen at all.  However, I did not make the initial contact.  They wrote to me.  Both are older and highly entertaining.  I enjoy speaking to them.  The one I've never seen said he looks like Quasimodo.  I respect that.  I doubt that he is actually as unattractive as he claims but he is an exceptional human being regaurdless of his appearance. 

Moral of the story:  If you don't post a pic, you better be EXTREMELY verbal and persistant to get a woman to notice you. 

(Damn!  No Spell Checker at work.  Y'all will just have to cope with the way I really type.)



LadyHibiscus -> RE: Picture (5/7/2008 10:05:48 AM)

The cutoffs one rocks, but I love the remote controlled TANK! 

And need I say how much redhaired gals turn me on?  [sm=preen.gif]



Steponme73 -> RE: Picture (5/7/2008 10:21:29 AM)

I can understand everyone's point of view.  I have a problem also with just posting a picture on the internet for everyone to use.  I don't mind sending a picture to someone whom I have made contact with, but it is hard to just post a generic picture.  I may post one that does not show all my features, but lets the other person know I am real.  I also think the pictures that are posted sometimes reveal way to much...on both sides.  I like to see what the Dom looks like in "vanilla" clothing.  After all she is not always going to be dressed in fetish clothing.  Just me and my simple thoughts.



WyckedIndulgence -> RE: Picture (5/7/2008 5:58:41 PM)

MsStarlett...
Just another one guilty of perving your photos and what lovely "discrete" photos they are. I never could resist a beautiful redhead... Sighs ~



Sundowner -> RE: Picture (5/11/2008 10:59:02 AM)

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ORIGINAL: DarkLovelyDomme

Most people on the site are looking for someone with whom to engage in BDSM play. Generally, people want to do that sort of thing with someone they find physically attractive. If you don't have a photo, and a thousand other people do, your odds decrease. A lot.


I was wondering how you handle that in your role as a professional domina? Do you apply the same approach, i.e. you're selective of your clientele? Does the physical attraction affect the "work" aspect or do you take an "all clients are equal" approach?



Dnomyar -> RE: Picture (5/12/2008 9:09:26 AM)

Thanks Lynnxz. A shirt with my pic on it saying "This could be your Master."  Great for attending munchies and events.  



sue67 -> RE: Picture (5/12/2008 9:30:36 AM)

I am new to this site.  I have not posted a picture yet.  what is wrong with just a normal g rated pic?  why does everyone think it has to be naked?  I could understand if things develop maybe even a bathing suit pic.  just wondering still getting the hang of this site.
thank you for all replies



batshalom -> RE: Picture (5/12/2008 12:57:53 PM)

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ORIGINAL: sue67

I am new to this site.  I have not posted a picture yet.  what is wrong with just a normal g rated pic?  why does everyone think it has to be naked? 


I don't believe anyone thinks it has to be naked. A lot of people prefer g-rated, at least to begin with (and there are some TOS issues about what's acceptable in a profile pic).



Pyrrsefanie -> RE: Picture (5/12/2008 9:16:48 PM)

I'm usually suspicious of profiles with no pictures, or profile pictures that don't include a face.  Nowadays on the Intarnetz there's just too many opportunities for general fuckery for me to believe that a profile for a 20-year-old lesbian submissive with DD-cup boobs isn't actually a 40-year-old overweight plumber from Jersey named Dave who's looking for something to spank his monkey with.

Of course being concerned about coworkers or family members finding your profile is a legitimate concern, but you'd have to also ask them what they were *doing* on the website in the first place.  While I don't harbor too much concern over being "outed" (hell, everyone who knows me already has figured out that something is not quite right with this girl) I still take a few precautions.  It's a lot harder for people to sort through profiles in search of someone without knowing their real name or the city/area they live in, after all.  Even if you had a picture up, failing to mention either of those things would presumably bury your profile pretty deep in the pile.

As far as contents of pictures... I prefer clothed shots.  I hate opening up my mail and getting a gratuitous wang shot in the face.  It also affects the way I view that person.  Starting off a line of conversation with "HAY LOOK AT MY D*CK LOLOLOL" indicates more that the person is interested in sexual gratification rather than an actual relationship, at least in my opinion.



MissMagnolia -> RE: Picture (5/12/2008 9:25:37 PM)

there's just too many opportunities for general fuckery for me to believe that a profile for a 20-year-old lesbian submissive with DD-cup boobs isn't actually a 40-year-old overweight plumber from Jersey named Dave who's looking for something to spank his monkey with. [sm=biggrin.gif][sm=biggrin.gif]It's funny cuz it's true.[sm=biggrin.gif]

A sub/slave who won't show me a photo (especially as I nicely provided one) is going to get zero replies from me. I understand the need for discretion, but why can't they send one attached to the email?

A cock shot is never a good intro either. For those who are wondering.



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