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roland23 -> BDSM Movies for Novices (5/8/2008 8:57:10 AM)

What BDSM movies (I mean mainstream or indie) would folks out there recommend? I am currently auditioning a potential novice. 



mistoferin -> RE: BDSM Movies for Novices (5/8/2008 9:01:08 AM)

Recommend for what purpose? Entertainment?



Maya2001 -> RE: BDSM Movies for Novices (5/8/2008 9:12:30 AM)

Call me confused as well...do not understand the reason either, when you say auditioning ..does that mean you want her to act on  film/camera as well???   If so ..then they should be first starting out in adult acting classes ... for example  http://www.littletheatreonline.com/act.htm



SteelofUtah -> RE: BDSM Movies for Novices (5/8/2008 9:13:44 AM)

The Secretary
The Story of O
Emanualle in America (Oddly HardCore for a Soft Core Title)
9 1/2 weeks

If you want HARDCORE S&M  google Master Len Movies and order away. Len is a GREAT guy and having done 9 or 10 workshops at his place I can tell you these are NOT for the faint of heart.

Hope that helps

Steel



mistoferin -> RE: BDSM Movies for Novices (5/8/2008 9:14:28 AM)

I just HOPE he doesn't want to use them for a "training" model.



SteelofUtah -> RE: BDSM Movies for Novices (5/8/2008 9:18:54 AM)

Screw it, Why not? I have seen worse.

I feel it is better to give a little and watch it hurt, then educate the ones that are already sure they know what they are doing.

And it can be good lessons for those that watch from the side lines.

Steel



OmegaG -> RE: BDSM Movies for Novices (5/8/2008 9:22:59 AM)

I don't know-- I never actually get to watch the movies.



mistoferin -> RE: BDSM Movies for Novices (5/8/2008 9:23:07 AM)

oops sorry....I should have said that was a fast reply...didn't mean it directly in response to your post



roland23 -> RE: BDSM Movies for Novices (5/8/2008 9:37:29 AM)

I just want to entertain and more importantly, to introduce someone to how BDSM looks on the screen 



Maya2001 -> RE: BDSM Movies for Novices (5/8/2008 10:02:33 AM)

Too often for newbies ...they confuse movies with real life eg Story of O  and believe that is how real life BDSM should play out therefore filling their mind with a false fantasy life and expectations.  Much like the old Castlerealm website did, and they came here expecting love and roses from every dom they met, often ending up in disasterous abusive relationships instead.  



akisha -> RE: BDSM Movies for Novices (5/8/2008 10:16:45 AM)

If you want stuff found online try "Sex & Submission" and "Brutal Master"

They film their sessions



BlackPhx -> RE: BDSM Movies for Novices (5/8/2008 10:26:35 AM)

Steel;

Thank you.. I had wondered what happened to Master Len. Great Lords in Gossamer skirts, it has been a while since I have chatted with him. We used to ranged Alt.Torture along with John Warren, pammie and a few others. When you next get a chance to see him do me a favor and say Hi from poenkitten, we crossed paths in Vegas at a play party but never got to actually play as my flesh was defeating Sister Sledge and Guardian ( I wouldn't safeword..I was having way too much fun) and ML had one of his Slaves with him.

Sigh... So good to see the Good Ones are still above ground and torturing the next generation.

poenkitten



Daddyslilpookie -> RE: BDSM Movies for Novices (5/8/2008 10:32:51 AM)

Secretary is a great movie for novices, it gets you in the mind set[;)]. I also want to recommend which this movie is a classic I am sure you have seen it, Nine and a Half Weeks is a good one too ,great ideas for play. I also want to recommend The Story Of O, and Boxing Helena which I think in my opinion is more fantasy than reality, maybe it leans toward more experienced players but it is also a great movie. Hope this helps[:)] 



BlackPhx -> RE: BDSM Movies for Novices (5/8/2008 10:38:51 AM)

How it looks on the screen is rarely how it is in real life. Things can look safe that are not and dangerous that are perfectly safe. If you go for the hardcore movies like Slaven, or the ones on Brutalmasters site, you will possibly be watching alone in a dust cloud. They are hard core, very dangerous unless you know what you are doing and really should not be practiced on anyone save a hardcore masochist.

If you are looking for the lighter core movies, then you have gotten some good examples, that I would add Exit to Eden onto.Yeah, yeah I know it was a travesty of the book (which is a travesty of the life but pretty) but it has some key elements in there. Consent, the fact that the desires have to be on both sides, that sometimes just service is enough, and of course that the desire is found in people from all walks of life and economic strata.

You can also seach the newsgroups for snippets of movies. the Insex movies are ones that are most often posted, but warning run a good virus scanner before opening any of them. http://www.insexarchives.com/ is where their archives can now be found since they have been sold.

poenkitten




azropedntied -> RE: BDSM Movies for Novices (5/8/2008 12:47:35 PM)

Vice and consent
Preaching to the perverted
Fashionistas
a dvd called Fetishes
The pain game
Liberty in restraint
SICK " the life and death of bob flanagan
The Secretary
Beyond Vanilla
All great movies , enjoy .



Owned1 -> RE: BDSM Movies for Novices (5/8/2008 12:59:29 PM)

Wait!!!!!  Are you saying my M/s relationship is supposed to be like it is in the movies?!?!?!

Well I obviously need to go shopping and fill my fridge with a ton of food I can eat off of Master, as well I will need to give up my day job and become a secretary to an unstable unsure questionable dominant.

Dang and here I thought I was in a real M/s relationship and living BDSM 24/7

<off to email my Owner to let him know this new information>

Owned



RedMagic1 -> RE: BDSM Movies for Novices (5/8/2008 1:29:41 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: BlackPhx
I had wondered what happened to Master Len.

His ladyfriend has an active CM profile.  I have their offline contact info, but we've never met.

I would actually recommend documentaries over porn, for someone who is brand new.  It shows the ups and downs, and is more realistic.

Monika Treut's work is a good place to start, for example:
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0104249/



ladycirce -> RE: BDSM Movies for Novices (5/9/2008 12:42:30 AM)

the tortured D/s relationship in the Fountainhead is pretty intense. as usual, the book is better.
then there is the Night Porter, more non negotiated madness.
neither of these films should be used as an example, yet A/anyone interested in D/s should try to catch.

then we have equus giving pony play a bad name ;)
and for a fun, psychotic musical try Marat/Sade...

finally, Russ Meyer's Up! is not to be missed, although all of his pictures do seem to have that special something.



Lashra -> RE: BDSM Movies for Novices (5/9/2008 4:46:19 AM)

Personally I like the Men in Pain site they have some good movies there too.

~Lashra



happypervert -> RE: BDSM Movies for Novices (5/9/2008 6:09:06 AM)

If you want to introduce her to the D/s dynamic, then just watch reruns of Leave It To Beaver on tv.



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