night101owl -> RE: submissive ...... slut or saint? (8/19/2005 8:52:11 AM)
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I don't believe there is one "pure" form of submissive. Some draw from Judeo-Christian hetero gender-based roles. Others draw from military hierarchy. There are many sources. At the same time, it's the stereotype of hetero gender-based roles that leads me to avoid identifying myself as submissive (preferring "bottom" and "masochist"), although there is certainly a lot of submission in what I do. I am also a girl, because I love the dynamics of Daddy/girl, and I'm a slut, because I like to revel in my enjoyment of sexuality. But you also seem to be asking what is kinky. Anything that deviates from mainstream pop-culture sexual culture is kink, regardless of how they deviate.
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