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abqowner -> RE: Defiance question. (5/9/2008 9:18:03 AM)
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Of course you're right, it's a matter of personal preference. Here's my experience FWIW.
You know how things are cute when a kitten, or a baby, or a puppy do them? But as soon as they get a little bigger, stronger, or grow teeth suddenly it's not so cute? Whenever I'm in scene with a high handed submissive it's usually because their owner / master encouraged a certain behavior that isn't cute anymore, or the sub took too far. So its a useful case of good owner / bad owner and I'm just stepping in as a favor. I'm actually amazed how well it works. I can punish a willful sub to my heart's content, because "no, stop, don't" doesn't cut it for that scene. Then they scamper back to daddy, having put on quite a show, and tearfully beg his forgiveness and swear to be good from then on, please don't give me to that woman with the whip again!
So in that instance it's an interesting scene. The sub is provided an established boundry without her owner looking like a bad guy, and everyone got to watch some real struggle for a bit instead of whatever poncy little show the sub tried to put on originally.
That being said, if one of my own slaves ever copped a high handed attitude, even in play, it usually ends up with them being locked in a cold room for a day or two. I don't beat my own slave for such things - I usually just focus on something they utterly hate - like being cold and ignored.
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