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BDSM cycle of things. - 5/9/2008 1:46:25 AM

yesmaammelbourne

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Sorry couldnt think of a clearer topic title!

I was just wanting to get some feedback from people on whether after a really intense BDSM session, or being in that mindspace for a while, do they have like a 'bounce' effect back into the vanilla world?

Basically I've found myself after being in that state of mind, that I crave reallly normal things. EG After desiring a dominatrix, and being submissive for a day or two, I then tend to crave normal life totally free of kink, and girly girls, as if that part of my brain has been turned off so much, that it to needs to be given attention.

For this reason at this stage I could be a 24/7 sub, just wanted to get some opinions from people with more experience than myself.

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RE: BDSM cycle of things. - 5/9/2008 6:12:34 AM

LuckyAlbatross

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The answer to any question that starts out "Does anyone else...?" is always yes.

You know who you are and how you react. Perhaps over time you will find a balance works and that flowing in and out of the dynamic works best for you. Perhaps you are like a strict dieter who occasionally binges?

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