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RE: Question on anal... - 5/9/2008 10:34:51 PM

MasterFireMaam

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Sure. All you have to do is negotiate. There are plenty who don't include sex of any kind in an SM scene...and there are those of use who don't care for strap-op play. Keep looking.

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RE: Question on anal... - 5/10/2008 4:51:18 AM

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Griswald, how far away are you from me?

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Been Married for 21 years to a man who never took so much as a finger up his ass. There are plenty of us who can live without it. (But we look for those who DO enjoy it.)
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I've been getting more attention from Dom's lately. Must be "Spring" in the air or something.

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RE: Question on anal... - 5/10/2008 6:50:14 AM

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I've been smiling through this because it seems that the assumption is that being used anally is a "submissive" thing. My Master enjoys anal play, and part of every session is for me to lick Him and then gently insert one finger. He enjoys the feeling, thrives on being serviced, and I like knowing that I get a formerly "virgin" part of Him.

As a Domme I never, ever forced anal on anyone. I would talk with them about it up front. I enjoy anal play because it tends to be something that a guy doesn't go out and brag to his buddies about. It's like a delicious secret kept between the two of you. Forcing anal play on someone who does not want it is a form of rape and has crossed the line outside of consensual.

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RE: Question on anal... - 5/10/2008 7:10:13 AM

DianeB

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quote:

ORIGINAL: chamberqueen

I enjoy anal play because it tends to be something that a guy doesn't go out and brag to his buddies about.

One of the best replies I've read on this subject.....

Diane

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RE: Question on anal... - 5/11/2008 7:54:44 AM

MissLily

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I think you were just with the wrong Doms. Anal is a hard limit for some subs too.

The way to go for you might be TPE and humiliation. Perhaps physical punishment. Ass play is just not necessary in this.

Hope it finally works out for you,
Miss Lily

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RE: Question on anal... - 5/11/2008 8:39:35 AM

MISTRESSKUMA

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Dear Ruhemaus,

It is possible of course.

The hard thing is finding a woman who "wants" to.

It is not easy.

You will need to find a woman who is in some way is attracted to you enough to want to give you want you seek.

It can be hard as finding someone in vanilla world.

What do you do when there is no woman who is interested in giving you your desire?

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RE: Question on anal... - 5/11/2008 8:53:23 AM

malloves69

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go hire a pro dom or a escort would be my answer

make sure they will do what you want then set it up ..if they wont find someone else that will ..really isnt that hard ...might be if you are cheap about it but hey thats me

and no im not cheap --lol ..money talks ..mal

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RE: Question on anal... - 5/11/2008 9:20:05 AM

DivineDarkDiva

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quote:

ORIGINAL: RuheMaus

So, I'm 90% Dom, i know this. But, in the past, and even still to this day, i do have the occasional urge to try submitting, even if in private. my query pertains more to anal, as taking is a VERY hard limit for me. But, those few times i have tried to submit, the Dommes seemed to always want to include it. - thus bringing out my safeword.

Is it possible to be topped on occasion without taking it in the butt? Am i just meeting the wrong folks, or is this normal? Just a little confused and curious for some info, that's all...

It is fully possible to be dominated and not be anally penetrated. I think you must know this already. If you don't ignore a submissive's hard limits, you must know there are dommes who will respect yours. Unfortunately, you haven't encountered them. Perhaps part of your negotiation process should include whether the prospective domme adheres to hard limits. If she does not, you aren't safe with her. Consider that she may also disregard your use of a safe word. Take care.

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RE: Question on anal... - 5/14/2008 2:00:26 AM

pleasure693

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I think it is our pussy for our Mistresses. ?

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RE: Question on anal... - 5/14/2008 2:01:51 AM

MissMagnolia

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I'm a D and have never found anal play anything but revolting, so no, not all dommes are into it.

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RE: Question on anal... - 5/14/2008 2:06:31 AM

LaMistressa

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This sounds more like a negotiation problem to me. You need to be more explicit in setting your limits when negotiating scenes where you are the bottom. And anyone who would try to break that limit after its been stated you shouldn't play with anymore, period.

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RE: Question on anal... - 5/14/2008 2:56:28 AM

chezzy71

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Ya know..there has been a ton of pee and anal threads lately on this board.Gets me wondering if anyone can talk about anything but the "whizz"emitting from their penises or get past the thought of having an inantimate object shoved or delightfully placed up the "poop chute"???

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RE: Question on anal... - 5/14/2008 4:09:25 AM

MsStarlett

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You're correct. There have been quite a few discussions on the matter. And my hubby wondered why I was so hot for it last night. *evil grins*

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RE: Question on anal... - 5/14/2008 4:10:40 AM

Dnomyar

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Op your problem is that you may have a cute ass. What you need to do is to take a magic marker and draw a circle on it with a slash thru it then write Do not Enter. Problem solved.

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RE: Question on anal... - 5/14/2008 4:13:42 AM

MsStarlett

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Tell you what... OP - Send me a pic of your ass and I'll give you my honest oppinon.

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RE: Question on anal... - 5/14/2008 6:02:58 AM

Dnomyar

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This question is along the lines of this post. Do assholes like anal???

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RE: Question on anal... - 5/14/2008 10:42:25 AM

ThundersCry

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I fookin`....agree =L=

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RE: Question on anal... - 5/14/2008 10:55:31 AM

Dnomyar

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Diane amend that to straight guys.

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