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Where is my mistress? - 5/10/2008 3:11:50 AM

hrcpo77

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Good morning all. Hopefully you all got to see my introduction post. My question is how do I go about finding a mistress in my local area (Hampton Roads, VA). I havent talked to anyone or seen anything where there are events or knowledge of any in my area. I long to learn, serve, and obey but i cannot seem to get on the right track to find someone I can talk to and hopefully serve. Being a Navy Chief at times it is hard and a must to be discreet in situations which makes it that much more hard just to go out and ask. I have tried AFF and other sites but it seems they are full of spams or people who are just playing games ot looking for a quick one nighter. I have known I am a sub my whole life and it is dying to get out of me I am ready to be one and please my mistress, i know shes out there somewhere.
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RE: Where is my mistress? - 5/10/2008 3:52:42 AM

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Have you tried googling Hampton Roads, VA munches? I did and came up with a link. Not sure if it's current, but at least it's a start. You might also try the link in my signature to find groups in VA, and several are listed.

As for the need for discretion...well, if you show up for a munch and there's someone there you know, then perhaps they are there for the same reason you are there. That puts you both in the same boat. Most people are very careful. If i see someone i've met at munch in a vanilla setting i find it best not to greet that person. Best to not "out" someone to a friend. Have you ever thought of attending an event out of your area where you would not be known? I've known business owners who do that.

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RE: Where is my mistress? - 5/10/2008 4:22:53 AM

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Thanks for the reply and info.

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RE: Where is my mistress? - 5/10/2008 4:27:43 AM

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There are many nationalal level events that happen in DC. Black Rose happens in late October. http://www.brevent.org/br08/index.php
The Master/slave Conference happens in early August. http://www.masterslaveconference.org/ There are others, if you look.

Here are some groups. I have no idea if they are active, but I found them doing a google search for BDSM Norfolk VA.
http://www.crimsonphoenixva.com/
http://www.phyxiosmystique.com/
http://www.tiedinva.com/
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/VADommes_and_malesubs/
http://tribes.tribe.net/tidewaterbdsm

Here's a calendar of events for NC, Sc and VA http://the-meeting-guide.info/

Also, contact some Dominants and submissives from your area on here and ask what groups THEY frequent.

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RE: Where is my mistress? - 5/10/2008 5:49:01 AM

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I sent you an email on the other side with a contact.

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RE: Where is my mistress? - 5/10/2008 6:43:03 AM

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It seems like you go several links.. there is also a group in the Richmond/Charles City area called.. Old Dominion Leather, I knew a few folks from there and believe they are active. I see them up here in the DC area though more often than not.

As for discretion, go out of town, if necessary -- the Washington DC area has several good groups and events.

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RE: Where is my mistress? - 5/10/2008 8:41:36 AM

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Have you heard of Crimson Phoenix? It is a munch group in Virgina where most of them have high level jobs in the Army, Navy and so on. They have a web site but it will take you some time to get into their group. It's a long process but well worth the time. They do not just let anyone in but it's a great group of people. Just google Crimson Phoenix and you will get their home page... hope this helps

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RE: Where is my mistress? - 5/10/2008 10:29:43 AM

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Greetings, fellow Virginian! I used to live in Hampton. Hope you ducked the tornado!

I haven't been there for a few years, but honestly I can't imagine you're going to find too much local action in a place like the Roads. Even Virginia Beach. Like others have said, you're going to have to expand your "local" horizons a bit, at least to Richmond. But I'd go as far as Washington / Baltimore. Sad but true, the more extreme the lifestyle, the smaller the pool to choose from. So give yourself every opportunity by searching in as wide an area as possible. With the additional need of military discretion... you may want to concentrate on on-line service until you aren't on active duty. There's no way around the fact that anyone military has only one true master, Uncle Sam.

Good luck!

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