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HieroV -> Hello.... (5/10/2008 9:09:19 AM)
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Hi. I've been a member of collar.me for a year or two but not much of a poster - although I've read a good number of the posts here.
I am, among other things, a 40 year old male submissive. I am an internal communications manager for a company that deals with technology and information. (I write and mange content for the internal website. I also write speeches for the CEO and other executives at the company.) I am also a screenwriter who has placed in over five prestigious contests with five different scripts.
I’ve been RT on and off for about ten years. I have been in four d/s relationships with dominant women in my past - two of them as a slave.
For me D/S is love distilled - think only of me, desire only me, obey only me. Casual play for me is hard for me - not judging those who do so - actually sometimes I wish it were not. I am not offering not just my body but also my heart and soul. This deep intimacy, this emotional nakedness is a big part of the draw of this lifestyle for me. Most couples will never discover what their partner really wishes and desires. I don't expect to get everything I want - but I do want to be in (again) a relationship where I have to hold back nothing.
Some feel if a submissive has wants and desires that just makes them "just" a bedroom submissive. I think it is unrealistic to beleive that a submissive's desires and wants don't matter. Some level of reciprocity is critical to any lasting loving relationship.
I take this very seriously but humor is important too!
And that should be more than enough for an intro....
HieroV
(It's the fifth cart in the tarot deck and it turned up a lot in my life for a year or two. Not the most sexy "scene name" but it works for me.)
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