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RE: Your first mark, and how did you react? - 10/19/2005 7:43:53 PM   
daddysprop247


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ORIGINAL: asyouwishmaster

I am very curious about the first time you were left with a mark. How did you feel the first time you were spanked hard until your ass was on fire? That first time a cane was used. That first time you were left with a bruise? Did you feel abused at all? Did it make you wonder what you were doing? Did you feel fabulous that you had something to remember the moment? How did you feel about the person who left the mark?



hmmm....the first time i had any lasting marks (more than a day or so), it was very early in my relationship with my Master. first i must preface this by saying that my Master and i do not ever "scene", so the situations in which i am beaten, as well as the method, may be a bit different from most.

anywho, we were not living together yet. He called late at night and told me that he was in the truck on his way down, that i was to be waiting outside for him to pull up, get in, and shut up. He said he'd had a really rough day and that he needed to beat me. actually his exact words were "beat the sh*t outta you". He had never spoken to me in such a way...so cold and emotionless. He sounded angry but not angry with me...still, as his slave i would be the one to suffer his wrath. so he made the hour and a half drive down to my house, i got in, and immediately he started in on me with his fists...one hand on the wheel, the other pummeling my left arm, side, leg. He drove us to a park (empty so late at night), turned to face me, and proceeded to punch and slap me with both hands. i was crying, confused, scared, but trying to bear it in silence as he had trained me. when it was done, i remember a few words of apology, saying he felt sorry for me sometimes because of the things he forces me to bear. i felt relief that the beating was finally over, and a dim happiness that i was of some use to him. He took me home.

the next day, i could hardly move i was so sore all over. i felt like i had been steamrolled. when i was getting undressed to shower, i saw a body covered with big, black and blue bruises. looking at them and touching them made me feel nothing but awe and love for my Master. i saw each of them as little lovenotes from him to me, that i could read anytime just by looking down at my body or pressing against a sore spot. those first bruises did not clear up for a couple of weeks...turning from blue/black to sickly green on my brown skin. good thing it was winter, so i did not need to come up with an excuse for wearing big baggy sweaters and long pants. did i feel abused? yes...but that is a feeling i cherish, because it's one thing that defines our union. i felt abused....used...tired...frightened...loved...needed. it all felt completely, 100% right....i thought, this is the way it should be. this is home.

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RE: Your first mark, and how did you react? - 10/20/2005 5:37:24 AM   
sinbetweens


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Status: offline 		The first time I left a mark on my girlfriend as we were getting into BDSM, she woke me up in the morning with a proud smile and displayed the bruises on her wrists. "You're still on my skin," she said. I was delighted... and made her wear a long-sleeved shirt to work.

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RE: Your first mark, and how did you react? - 10/20/2005 7:03:07 AM   
AlderTheKitty


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Status: offline 		the thing i remember most about the first time i played with my last mistress was thank goddess we wheren't allone cause she knew nothing i almost pasted right out because the person had to put so much effort into keeping her focued on my safty that neather of them notised i was going under

i did have an undesreved feelig of affection for her because later she did nothing but try and find someone to cheat with and it wasn't untill then that i felt abused

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RE: Your first mark, and how did you react? - 10/20/2005 7:10:30 AM   
thetammyjo


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Status: offline 		I had a part-time partner, someone I was training, run up to me at a munch a few days after a good beating and say "TammyJo come to the bathroom I have to show you this". And she was so happy with the marks that she had to show me in public.

She was difficult to mark too cause I thnk over time your body and skin adapt to SM plus she was just naturally harder to mark.

Her reaction made me beam all evening long.


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RE: Your first mark, and how did you react? - 10/20/2005 7:34:36 AM   
subkitten32


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Status: offline 		The first time I got marks I was so proud, happy and scared. Scared cause I was worried my Mom might see them (poor planning*LOL*), proud and happy cause like a lot of us I am twisted that way. A funny story, I had a session with a Dom and he bruised my breasts pretty well, I had forgotten i had a test scheduled, I couldn't cancel it, I was going in for a echo...it took awhile to get this test and it was important. So I grinned and bore it. The tech looked at me funny and I said not to worry it was fine, he asked if I fell I said no but it's so totally ok, I enjoyed it, he looked at me for a moment and smiled and said ok and he continued the test.

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RE: Your first mark, and how did you react? - 10/20/2005 7:49:56 AM   
Rayne58


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Status: offline 		subkitten I have had a similar experience, I had a fairly hard session with both Master and my female play partner who likes to Domme me. It was on a Friday night, and I had forgotten that I had a gyn appointment the following Monday - my butt was quite bruised in places *blush* I'd waited 2 months for that appointment and I wasn't going to let a few bruises get in the way

The male gyno didn't even mention the bruises thank god *whew* However if he did Master told me to just say I like rough sex!

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RE: Your first mark, and how did you react? - 10/20/2005 4:37:33 PM   
clover


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Status: offline 		My first marks were about 4 years ago. I remember turning around to look at them in the mirror every chance I got until they faded away. Just looking at them made me feel turned on and put me in a very submissive mindset.
I do remember being surprised that it took as much as it did to mark my skin. I'm really fair skinned, so I had assumed I would mark easily.

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RE: Your first mark, and how did you react? - 10/20/2005 4:48:23 PM   
MsIncognito


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ORIGINAL: EmeraldSlave2

The first time I had a scene I just felt completely serene, at peace, like a piece of myself had clicke dinto place. It was odd as I had expected I'd be all giddy and excited and anxious...but I was just completely calm. I think it worried the top.

The first time I got a mark, I thought "woowwwwwwww...coooolll"

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RE: Your first mark, and how did you react? - 10/20/2005 4:57:16 PM   
EmeraldSlave2


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Status: offline 		Wow! Thanks!

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RE: Your first mark, and how did you react? - 10/20/2005 6:03:33 PM   
HentaiGamerKitty


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Status: offline 		My first marks were with my previous dom..They were caused by a whipping with a leather belt across my ass and I was SOOO proud of them. They lasted for a week or more and I spent a ton of time admiring them in the mirror (and staring at the pics we had taken of them!)

I love the idea of having bruises afterward...its a reminder of a wonderful experience.

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RE: Your first mark, and how did you react? - 10/20/2005 6:05:48 PM   
RiotGirl


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quote:

I am very curious about the first time you were left with a mark. How did you feel the first time you were spanked hard until your ass was on fire? That first time a cane was used. That first time you were left with a bruise? Did you feel abused at all? Did it make you wonder what you were doing? Did you feel fabulous that you had something to remember the moment? How did you feel about the person who left the mark?


i felt fabulous and wanted to show the marks off to the world. It was awesome. Loved every minute of it and never had a negative thought about it. Just wished i could of shown my marks off to everyone, so i settled to showing them off to others in the BDSM community

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RE: Your first mark, and how did you react? - 10/20/2005 10:28:09 PM   
ivbnbad


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Status: offline 		i noticed this morning, coming out of the shower that I had a bruise on my hip...i don't know how it got there but it turned me on...lol...

~lil_help_Sir?

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RE: Your first mark, and how did you react? - 10/21/2005 6:41:39 PM   
PerhapsitsFate


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Status: offline 		The marks from my first public scene were the ones that came to mind. It was a long drawn out spanking over a spanking barrel... the lights were quite dim in that room, and it probably lasted longer than my friend intended, but i wasn't complaining. My bottom was every color of the rainbow for over a week. I had someone take pictures of it, and shared it with everyone I knew who was kink friendly... and every time I would go to the restroom at work, if I knew I was alone in the restroom, I would take a step into the stall, drop my pants, and admire the butt in the long mirror over the sinks.... LOL...

I don't mark nearly as pretty as I used to... *sigh*... but I love every single one I get!

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RE: Your first mark, and how did you react? - 10/21/2005 7:51:19 PM   
sanita


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Status: offline 		Well, my first mark, aside from hickeys and such on my breasts, was with the One who is now my Master. For months, He had planned to mark my ass when He had me alone, and He did. This was in 1998. He hog-tied me with velcro restraints, blindfolded me, and used what i found out later was a slapper.

my reaction? On the floor of the hotel room, seeing the flash of red inside the blindfold, i screamed "What the FUCK was that?!?!?" and He took off the blindfold and showed it to me. i still think He had to have wound up in some way. *lol* It was a hard hit. That left a welt but not a bruise for a day or so. As for how i felt, i was in wonder, and awe, and it was all good. i cannot think of how many times i saw Him chuckling, because i had reached back to rub it, without even realising it.

Really, though, when i read the question, i thought of the long-term marks that i got last October, a year ago, when i figured out i was His, and told Him so. i went to see Him. At one point, He was using the handle of the bullwhip on my ass like a paddle. He was smacking me in the same place over and over again, mostly to see when i would ask Him to stop or pull away. i was trying very hard to focus on something else, so it took a long time for me to realise it hurt and pipe up.

Later, after another significant first for us, He leapt on top of me and bit me on my rear. Hard. He even chewed a bit.

By that evening, my ass was getting deep red and welted. Whenever i sat on His very soft couch, i felt as if a rock were digging into my glute. He is a Sadist, and was very pleased. The next night, after i got home, and got out of the shower, i was shocked at my image in the mirror. one side of my bottom had a large elongated bruise, and the other had a clear bitemark, and was very bruised around it. after a few days, it looked as if someone had spilled blackberry cobbler on my butt.

i am a fair-skinned redhead, but it takes a lot to visibly bruise me. i can feel bruises that are not ever discolored. However, while the pain and sitting discomfort faded within a week, the bruises lasted almost a month. They faded to the size of a quarter and a little stripe like a pencil. It helped, because the next time He marked me, it was a month before the OB/Gyn appt. *l*

As for feeling abused. i didn't. He was being cautious, because He was worried that i would not be able to take what He dished out. i was so proud to have pleased Him, to actually have pleasantly suprised Him. i am not very much of a masochist as far as loving the pain, but when i hit that place where the Sadist in Him is beyond pleased, i consistently fly.

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RE: Your first mark, and how did you react? - 10/22/2005 2:06:32 PM   
Crimson2004


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Status: offline 		My first mark was wonderful. He bit all over my shoulders almost to the point of bleeding. That was the first time I ever explored pain associated with sex so it was a little scary at first, but I really got into it.
How did I feel about the person...Hmm.. Well I loved him, we were engaged. But at first, I felt angry at him for trying to get me into this type of thing, and then the longer it progressed the more I liked it and the more I liked him for introducing me to it.

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RE: Your first mark, and how did you react? - 10/22/2005 2:36:56 PM   
anthrosub


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Status: offline 		My first mark(s) were four, neatly placed stripes across my backside from a cane. I have a great fear of the cane...the sound of it cutting through the air and the searing flash of pain it can deliver. However, I was fortunate to be introduced to it by someone who knew what they were doing. I was even allowed to ask politely for each stroke.

Four stripes probably sounds trivial to some but it was the first time for me. When it was over, I had a glowing feeling of accomplishment and a sense of pride in having pleased my former Owner.

anthrosub

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RE: Your first mark, and how did you react? - 10/22/2005 4:00:12 PM   
Littlepita


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Status: offline 		*Sigh* Reading this thread makes me long for when I get my chance to feal and see my first marks. We talk a lot about my first spanking across his lap, being strapped down to the spanking bench and having the floggers used on me. And now since I sent him the caning thread to read I think I'm going to be seeing that too. I wonder which will leave the first mark.

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RE: Your first mark, and how did you react? - 10/22/2005 5:23:15 PM   
Sunshine119


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Status: offline 		First marks.....

Before my first real spanking, we didn't realize how much I would bruise. While the spanking wasn't overly hard, the next day, in my office, I noticed that I was somewhat uncomfortable sitting in my cushy chair. Going into the bathroom and pulling down my pantyhose, I was greeted by a large bruised area. The feeling got me so high, I couldn't wait to share it with my Dom.

I was soooooo proud! Wish I could have shared it with a lot more folks.

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RE: Your first mark, and how did you react? - 10/24/2005 12:15:00 PM   
plantlady64


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Status: offline 		Hello There,
When I found BDSM 2/05 bruises were on my hard no list. When I got my Master he convinced me that maybe I should try something that bruised me once to see if I liked that level of play. I agreed to try it for him bruises or not.
After my butt was completely black and blue the first time I was hooked on marks from my scenes that would not leave anything permanently.
Now I get marked when I play pretty regularly. It's funny, but if I have no bruises the next day It's like I feel almost cheated out of them. There like little badges of strength and courage to me now. I love the marks as a reminder of my Master or Dom's affections too.
Now that I love bruises I'm thinking I'm ready to take it to the next step. I expect to be branded 2/06 in my collaring ceremony where I trade my training collar for my real permanent one.
It seems the deeper I dig in the life the more I want.
I want my Master to permanently brand me. I think that's a huge sign of devotion for him, and a symbol of my life's path in BDSM. I ask him if he'd willingly allow this to be a part of our ceremony as it's a very special thing on a very special day. It just made sense to me & I think it's the right thing to do.
It seems anything I say there's no way I'm going to do, that often I find in time my opinion changes.
Sometimes it's due to my fear being un-grounded and dispelled by education, sometimes it's I've progressed to the point I'm ready for the stronger types of play, and sometimes it's to be pleasing to someone else.
No matter what the reason is for having them fall, these walls of mine seem to tumble down over the things I fear for no specific reason over time.
Sincerely,

sub suzanne

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