It took us two years of CONSTANT practice to reach this point. Now its unconscious for me. I cannot even pee without him, and pee instantly when he says. My thoughts and impulses on every level are intune with his will. It takes time and trust, and a LOT of DAILY conditioning and training. Every day you have to practice until after a fewmonths it just starts to flow.
To be trained to obey instantly without thought. Your dominant gives a command and your body obeys before you even decide to or not. This would kind of be like muscle memory or how a drill sargeant in the army trains new recruits. Both My Lady and I think this is a hot idea but we aren't sure how to get there. Would constant practice drills be the best way? How about hypnosis? Some women have said they have been trained to orgasm on command and I don't think this would be much different both being a conditioned respone to a command. We have no plans to make me into a total robot that instantly obeys everything but a few position commands is what we would like. Has anybody tried to do this? Any success?
basic behavior modification. pavlov's dog and all. reward action you want, don't reward action you don't, until you eventually get the behavior that you want all the time with less and less reward. you want dinner cooked every thursday night by a certain time? make sure that when dinner is cooked there is a reward of some sort until it becomes so habitual that it happens without the reward.
i've read that you can repeat acts over and over again so that they become linked. like if you repeatedly touch someone's breasts as they orgasm they'll orgasm eventually just from having their breasts touched. it's just a learned response.