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DiurnalVampire -> RE: Becoming a Mistress (5/13/2008 7:48:04 AM)
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Tink of it this way, if someone is going to pay you to dominate them, they are not going to want to be part of your learning curve. You are going to need to learn from others what to do. You are going to have to know enough that you can keep your clients safe, since they are going to know less than you do, mostly being secret kinksters or subs on the sly and having little to know actual experience. There is a LOT of work that goes into it, knowing you'll like it isnt enough.
As a pro, you do not necessarly have carte blanche with the submissives who pay you, until you become established enough to be picky. They will tell YOU what they are interested in, and you dont initialy have much room for improvisation. Initially, most of your money is going to go to building a better toy collection, so you can better serve your clientelle. There are laws to research, contrats and waivers to create and keep track of, money to manage, taxes to track. Becoming a pro is a job, not a fling. Remember it might make you hate Domming in your private life (I have known a few it has) and it might make finding a partner more difficult since they have to be willing to share you with all your clients.
DV
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