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RE: Becoming a Mistress - 5/13/2008 7:21:17 AM

Dnomyar

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Great post chamberqueen.

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RE: Becoming a Mistress - 5/13/2008 7:48:04 AM

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Tink of it this way, if someone is going to pay you to dominate them, they are not going to want to be part of your learning curve. You are going to need to learn from others what to do. You are going to have to know enough that you can keep your clients safe, since they are going to know less than you do, mostly being secret kinksters or subs on the sly and having little to know actual experience. There is a LOT of work that goes into it, knowing you'll like it isnt enough.
As a pro, you do not necessarly have carte blanche with the submissives who pay you, until you become established enough to be picky. They will tell YOU what they are interested in, and you dont initialy have much room for improvisation. Initially, most of your money is going to go to building a better toy collection, so you can better serve your clientelle. There are laws to research, contrats and waivers to create and keep track of, money to manage, taxes to track. Becoming a pro is a job, not a fling. Remember it might make you hate Domming in your private life (I have known a few it has) and it might make finding a partner more difficult since they have to be willing to share you with all your clients.

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RE: Becoming a Mistress - 5/13/2008 8:43:21 AM

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Greetings Mistresses and Sirs !
Greetings MistressAdrian !
its a pitty that goodlick is not in New Jersey.
Goodlick could be a good training subject for the MistressAdrian
MistressAdrian could probably see , what a pleasure to have such an obedient and serving maid as '' slave-goodlick''

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RE: Becoming a Mistress - 5/13/2008 8:48:02 AM

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ORIGINAL: Dnomyar

Politesub. First you have to become a Pro Mistress so you can experience how a sub should act towards them. Then after you earns tons of money you should wonder do I really want to give all of this up.

Raymond, thank you for some sound advice. My problems are twofold though, firstly i dont have the figure to be a Mistress. Secondly, as polite i am, i would be thanking people for letting me cane them

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RE: Becoming a Mistress - 5/13/2008 8:54:12 AM

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If you're looking to do it JUST for money-- it sounds like you don't have any actual experience -- do something else. Contrary to popular belief, most Pro Dommes do not rake in the cash. You spend most of your initial earnings building a better wardrobe and collecting equipment. If it's not a passion of yours, you'll come to resent how much of your money has to go back into your business.

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RE: Becoming a Mistress - 5/13/2008 11:51:02 AM

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Polite what is wrong with thanking people for letting you cane them?? Politeness is part of being a Dom. Mmmm I see that your comming over to the other side.

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RE: Becoming a Mistress - 5/13/2008 12:03:03 PM

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" One, thank you boy " " Two, thank you boy " Hmmmmm.

Works for me Ladies

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