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LoveSickPuppy -> Teasing and Denying. (5/12/2008 2:21:03 PM)

Not looking for stories or methods for masturbatory material, but I was wondering how far can this go? Meaning; what is the farthest you have taken it? Can it always go farther...to the point of locked in a mental institution insane from teasing but no release?

Or maybe this should be the question? Has any Mistress ever said: "Wow, I took that a bit too far" when teasing, edging and denying a submissive or slave?

(Yes I wish that I could find this out first hand, what the limits are..but what are the chances? I don't give a laundry list, I do what I am told)



Pyrrsefanie -> RE: Teasing and Denying. (5/12/2008 9:05:27 PM)

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ORIGINAL: LoveSickPuppy
Or maybe this should be the question? Has any Mistress ever said: "Wow, I took that a bit too far" when teasing, edging and denying a submissive or slave?


Have any mistresses in the history of the world said such a thing?  The laws of probability would say "yes."

Have I?  Psh, no.  In fact I've usually thought to myself that I give in too easily, though I'm sure my boy would disagree.




Reigna -> RE: Teasing and Denying. (5/12/2008 9:50:26 PM)

I don't know about the insane asylum part, but I'm not alone in having found that too much teasing and denial can seriously interfere with a male's ability to come. Some people do not find this problematic; some do. Over the past six or eight months there have been at least a couple of threads on this topic. You might try a search if you're sufficiently interested.



Vigilantejustice -> RE: Teasing and Denying. (5/12/2008 10:11:07 PM)

I have never thought I have taken it too far.

Of course, I am not known for my great impulse control.

Usually I tease and deny until *I* can't take it anymore, lol. The boy could go for days (and has, when our Dominant has made sexual contact verboten).

Yeah, I'm sure that a person could be driven mad from denial, but I think in a consensual situation it's not nearly as likely as if a person winds up in that sort situation not of their own will.

-Corinne
House Vigilante



steffie -> RE: Teasing and Denying. (5/12/2008 11:25:37 PM)

Speaking from the submissive side...

I've had Dommes that have made me wait anywhere from a a weekend... a week... or several weeks.  It's not human nature to be made to "wait" so the Dommes that i've met who are into this, are also into chastity. 

Like a dope, initially i thought the idea of chastity sounded interesting... kinky... cool... different.  Sure, why not?  Agh!  Several days later, especially when the chaffing begins... or when you're forced to sit to pee... or incurably horny ... suddenly chastity doesn't seem quite as much "fun."

Chastity is a powerful tool in a Domme's bag of tricks.  The first time i experienced it, She told me She enjoyed knowing She had control over my every bodily function... and i admit there is a certain submissive joy to giving over that level of control.  It takes a D/s relationhip to a whole new level.

It's when a Domme mixes in the "teasing" with the denial that things become maddening.

Still, there is somewhat of a balanced, karma-like affect that comes with teasing and denial.  The eventual, longed for release, is usually well worth the wait ... and when it cums, it ends up being a source of amusement for the Domme.



MsStarlett -> RE: Teasing and Denying. (5/13/2008 4:32:55 AM)

hmmm....  No, I don't believe I ever took tease & denial to far.  May have done the reverse and taken it to far.  I had a boy toy who's hard limit was that he would not have sexual contact with me because I was married.  It was against his religion.  I worked on that boy for YEARS!  When I finally got him where I wanted him, he was dreadful at it.  (Possibly just 'nerves'.)  I dumped him and never spoke to him again.  His best friend said he went  a little nuts after that.  Stopped taking care of himself.  Didn't get much needed dental work done and lost most of his teeth.  Shaved his beautiful hair off.  Stopped  associating with all of his friends.  Gained weight.  Married some trailer trash and disappeared into oblivion.

Did I do that to him?  I don't really think so.  He wasn't much above trailer trash when I found him.  But he was pretty.  Oh so VERY pretty!    It's a pity that he 'let himself go.'  But that's not my problem.  I got what I wanted out of him and was through with him.



Dnomyar -> RE: Teasing and Denying. (5/13/2008 5:13:09 AM)

Wonders how easy Pyrrsefanie really is. The thing about teasing is that most women can't take that much of it. If they think that your taking it to far then they develope an attitude.



chezzy71 -> RE: Teasing and Denying. (5/13/2008 5:59:58 AM)

I personally enjoy plenty of teasing and denial...i can't prove it is a medical marvel but for me my prostate seems to function alot better after intense buildup and finally release.I am not saying tease and deny me all night long but i think i can take a good couple of hours with activity.No activity..well i can go as long as you like.



Marysboi -> RE: Teasing and Denying. (5/13/2008 6:45:43 AM)

I don't mean to hijack the thread, denial and desire certainly put my focus back where it belongs. Insanity ?? Certainly feels that way at the point of the big "NO". Have had experiences where I was told "NO" at the point of my release. All described as an "accident" that was punishable.."You're not having an accident are you" as the hose waves in the wind spewing seed over the bed covers.." who me"  Big Mistake.. Respectfully.. Jim



DiurnalVampire -> RE: Teasing and Denying. (5/13/2008 7:54:19 AM)

Teasing and denial is a big part of my relationship with Angel. I have made him wait for weeks, with or without daily conversations and teasing. Face to face, I have never teased him for more than a day without allowing release, becasue he does so well when it has to be on the phone. His current longest was 5 weeks, no release. I try and keep it less than that, but sometimes it is necessary, and he does not get release unless I am present, or give him permission after he has asked.

DV



Shewalksinbeauty -> RE: Teasing and Denying. (5/13/2008 2:08:11 PM)

My subbie was the one who turned me onto teasing and denial. He loves it it makes him more sexual and able to keep up with me. We haven't gone more than a few weeks, but I find that he can generally wait longer than I can simply because it torments him when I make him come. He would rather show me how obedient he is than have me force something from him. That is the power for me. As for previous comments on this thread, I don't think it could make you medically insane, although possibly could make your life a bit more difficult as a result. Also, I find that females like me and a few other comments I noticed are the less patient when it comes to waiting for release. 



ken54 -> RE: Teasing and Denying. (5/13/2008 2:38:47 PM)

Tease and denial is fun. As a switch I have done both sides and like it a lot. Of course too much tease can end in an erection you can not get rid of. So I guess I like tease and denial, but with a payoff.
   Ken54



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