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GoddessDustyGold -> RE: Hello again to one and all. (10/20/2005 4:17:45 PM)
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I'm not sure these boys (and probably girls, too) are pretending so much, as they don't really understand what submissive means, or to what extent each Domina expects submission. And this really applies to the Dom/mes that really should identify in the written protion of their profile as "Tops". Although there are some out and out posers who are just trying to get some kinky hook-up, even those are sincere, and just make assumptions that because they are willing to allow the use of their bodies for submissive sexual acts, that makes them submissive. The most distressing to Me is when I make so clear My personal definitions of submissive and slave vs. bottom, and those definitions are still ignored.
As to finding out prior to getting into deep conversation, I can usually tell pretty quick. The first clue for Me is that they are incapable of any deep conversation in the first place! *S*
You say in your profile that you are new. Your profile, itself sounds like you are up for play time as long as the boy can book a hotel room, and they are financially stable. So it sounds like you aren't looking for any sort of in depth relationship. This might be wrong, but it is what is sounds like. When you present yourself in that manner, you will get many boys who will contact you since, for the price of a hotel room, they can get an afternoon or evening of BDSM delight. And that is often a lot cheaper than a Pro.
If you are speaking, on the other hand, of boys who contact you and then fade away, or just want to cyber for free, you should be able to drop them pretty quickly and move on.
You will get the hang of it.
Welcome to the boards.
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