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TheONEyouneed -> RE: Petulant, spoiled, bratty (10/24/2005 12:36:40 PM)

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a friend is a friend, is a friend....gender or role matters not.
i am not another woman, and i generally do take my friends at their word.if that is wrong so be it, i live by my own code.

telling someone to contact cm powers that be to see whom did the anonymous posting is not doing someone's dirty work.........it is helping them to get to the bottom of an issue that bothers them.

most threads on here have somthing to do w/ someon'e issues about something.


My post was not directed at you specifically, but at the many women who have chimed in here, all claiming to know the man in question, and several of them volunteering that he has spoken to them "privately" about his submissive. If the OP can be traced, more power to him. My objection is that all the women who claim to be a "friend" of this man automatically assume that everything he tells them is gospel truth. I am asking a fair question. Have you asked the submissive, who you have chosen to peg as a "Liar" her side of the story, or does "both sides of coin" only come into play when it is your friend you wish to defend. If you HAVE asked her for her version of events, then forgive my post. But I'd bet a buck or two, that none of you have, preferring instead to think that the man has somehow been victimized by his submissive. She does not appear in this thread to wish to harm him, but instead to help him and he does appear to have more than his share of problems.




fyreredsub -> RE: Petulant, spoiled, bratty (10/24/2005 1:53:28 PM)

you had answered to one of mine, so i took it you meant me.

they are very much together.

agreed... she was asking for advice.

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ORIGINAL: TheONEyouneed

quote:

a friend is a friend, is a friend....gender or role matters not.
i am not another woman, and i generally do take my friends at their word.if that is wrong so be it, i live by my own code.

telling someone to contact cm powers that be to see whom did the anonymous posting is not doing someone's dirty work.........it is helping them to get to the bottom of an issue that bothers them.

most threads on here have somthing to do w/ someon'e issues about something.


My post was not directed at you specifically, but at the many women who have chimed in here, all claiming to know the man in question, and several of them volunteering that he has spoken to them "privately" about his submissive. If the OP can be traced, more power to him. My objection is that all the women who claim to be a "friend" of this man automatically assume that everything he tells them is gospel truth. I am asking a fair question. Have you asked the submissive, who you have chosen to peg as a "Liar" her side of the story, or does "both sides of coin" only come into play when it is your friend you wish to defend. If you HAVE asked her for her version of events, then forgive my post. But I'd bet a buck or two, that none of you have, preferring instead to think that the man has somehow been victimized by his submissive. She does not appear in this thread to wish to harm him, but instead to help him and he does appear to have more than his share of problems.




RainGod -> RE: Petulant, spoiled, bratty (10/25/2005 3:50:59 PM)

Okay. I have been away for a spell. I have been messaged, emailed, and even snail mailed over this thread.
Here is My only concern on the reactions a couple of folks had to it:

It seems very easy for some to rush in like sharks the second they sniff an injury in the water. No other concern other than to bash and destroy someone's character for no other gain than their own loathsome hatred.

For those I ask... are you so without fault you can carelessly toss about boulders? I have often found those who shout the loudest about someone's lack of being a "True Dom" or a "True Slave" are the ones who have the deepest issues. Creating trouble and causing havoc merely draws the attention of the crowd away from their own inadequesies.

No, the post is neither about Me, not was it posted by Mine. Thank you for all who emailed Me with their best wishes and their concerns. Thank you also to those of you who stood by as friends when the miniscule minority sought to bash us.




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