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AquaticSub -> RE: bbw submissives? (8/18/2008 7:51:46 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: bestbabync AquaticSub[image]http://www.collarchat.com/micons/m27.gif[/image] see below! let it rest! everyone else has!!! thank you for your concern and point of view! quote: ORIGINAL: ModeratorEleven Ok folks, enough. XI It's been my experience with the moderators that if they wanted people to stop posting entirely, they would lock the thread. If I'm wrong, I'm sure that Mod 11 will correct me.

subtee -> RE: bbw submissives? (8/19/2008 12:17:54 PM)
~FR Hang on....Just wait.one.minute. OMG!!! This is a thread in which we can "chat" about fat vs. thin? I am so totally excited! Bra-vo! (Starts the slow but slowing speeding up clapping thing.) Who's with me? This will be AWESOME. Here's what I wanna know: Are BBWs better than SBWs? What do you think? Who's better? Hmmmm? B or S? Maybe a poll....

sirsholly -> RE: bbw submissives? (8/19/2008 12:23:09 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: subtee Here's what I wanna know: Are BBWs better than SBWs? What do you think? Who's better? Hmmmm? B or S? Maybe a poll.... BS? I am SO with you! joins in clapping

subtee -> RE: bbw submissives? (8/19/2008 1:05:19 PM)
Yay Holly! Yay BS!

SailingBum -> RE: bbw submissives? (8/20/2008 3:44:04 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: bestbabync are there any Doms out there looking to find rt ltr happiness with a very submissive, obedient bbw submissive? what do Doms think of the bbw submissive? why do so many not take us serious, think we are gross or use us for temporary satisfaction? all i ask is the Dom be unattached, within my area (or willing to pay for travel), ready to commit and eager to own and cherish his submissive. Sheesh on getting to know you basis. You would have better luck finding a pot of gold at the end of a rainbow! BadOne

Belladonna30 -> RE: bbw submissives? (8/20/2008 9:45:56 AM)
hey everyone! Fat girl here! my Dom is a fat kid too! He is still by far the sexiest man in the world to me. I have dated male models, athletic guys with muscles everywhere, and i still find my Dom to be number 1 of all time. He loves me for me and doesnt care if im a fat girl or a skinny chick. Now, i personally for health reasons would like both of Uus to lose a few pounds. Wwe are chubby kids, not morbidly obese. Wwe could both stand to lose 40 pounds and it would put Uus in the healthy weight area. Maybe in the near future a modification to how Wwe eat will be set into motion, but as of right now, He is a meat and taters kinda guy who works 12 hrs a day. i feed Him what He likes. Unfortunately, i dont do the kinda work He does but i eat with Him, lol. ive gained an extra 10 pounds from that alone. i think the weight debate is never-ending. People have certain tastes, i like Mt. Dew, He likes Coke. Seriously, there are tons of Doms that will take a fat girl. im a fat girl with at pretty face, in other words, i can lose the wieght (8 years ago I was a size 3 and 115 pounds) and still be pretty. i get hit on all the time with, "You have a gorgeous face and smile, if you were thin you would be smokin". LOL. i laugh that crap off, but none the less i hear it daily. But an ugly faced skinny girl has no hope, lol. i will be the cute fat girl, thanks! Be happy with who you are and the confidence will attract more than looks, by far. A confident sub is worth her weight in gold. cheers! ~bella~

corsetgirl -> RE: bbw submissives? (8/20/2008 10:03:55 AM)
Bella: You are a pretty girl and I would not consider you as a BBW! If you and your dom are happy, what does it matter to what others think about you?! I think what matters is the connection you and your dom have with each other. I received one email from another dom seeking a slender sub. I told him I was a BBW, then he emailed me about ways to lose weight. You know what? I would not want to be his sub at all because if I want to lose the weight, this will be for me. I have that desire to lose weight because I want to be healthy. However, I would want a dom to accept me for who I am and not be a mere appendage to his ego. I look at the overall package of a dom, not just the appearance because I have seen pretty people who are just plain ugly in their attitudes towards others.

roland23 -> RE: bbw submissives? (8/20/2008 10:16:47 AM)
Everyone has their own preferences. I am a little tired hearing some people say that men who do not like BBWs are gay or are looking for trophies etc etc. Some guys like it, some don't. Can't we leave it at that. I am not built like a bodybuilder, this is a turn off for MANY MANY women. I learned to accept it and now only socialize with women who accept me for who I am .

KCherry -> RE: bbw submissives? (8/20/2008 10:39:51 AM)
If someone wants me they want me, if not, meh. Being a heavier girl may have a hand in that, or not, but hey, no biggie. I don't assume that they are a judgemental bastard because of it, then again I don't assume they arent. Op - People arent always going to be nice, it's just a fact of life. Your idea of getting rid of the the meanies and fakes has good intentions I am sure but who would you put in charge of deciding who is real and who is not? Would you want someone telling you not to post because they think you arent real enough or too sweet and innocent?

Briena -> RE: bbw submissives? (8/20/2008 11:15:48 AM)
This thread is funny lol... I dont get it, why its such a big deal to everyone about size, weight, hotness... WHATEVER! BBWs are just as cool as SBWs! Everyone is beautiful in their own way, sloppy fat or not. And I have seen some pretty hit up skinny chicks in my day, so its not just one sided. I mean you could meet a chick who is the size of your honda but she could be the best mother in the world, or the sweetest, most caring lover you have ever had; whereas you get a bangin ass skinny chick who is abusive, rude, and completly disrespectful. Im a happily married, mother, BBW; and I really am a BBW because I know I am beautiful for who I am. BBW is a womans personal acceptance to her appearance. It helps them to not be ashamed for not looking like Tyra Banks. I think every woman is beautiful, even if they are physically ugly, skinny or fat... :D

sirsholly -> RE: bbw submissives? (8/20/2008 11:19:01 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: roland23 Everyone has their own preferences. I am a little tired hearing some people say that men who do not like BBWs are gay or are looking for trophies etc etc. Some guys like it, some don't. Can't we leave it at that. I am not built like a bodybuilder, this is a turn off for MANY MANY women. Then too there are many of us (me included) who are turned off by body builders[:)]

roland23 -> RE: bbw submissives? (8/20/2008 12:37:52 PM)
You miss the point. What I am saying is that I am tired of being dissed because I'm not attracted to BBWs. Not just me but lots of other people probably feel this way. We all have our preferences, but it is clear that these are controversial!

sirsholly -> RE: bbw submissives? (8/20/2008 12:44:20 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: roland23 You miss the point. What I am saying is that I am tired of being dissed because I'm not attracted to BBWs. Not just me but lots of other people probably feel this way. We all have our preferences, but it is clear that these are controversial! i didn't miss your point at all. We are all dissed for our choices. I am nearly 6 feet tall and i do not a Dom who is 5'5. If a short Dom wants to diss me for it i cannot stop him. What i CAN do is ignore him.

Lucylastic -> RE: bbw submissives? (8/20/2008 2:45:06 PM)
I dont have a problem with a person who has preferences, I have a problem with people who use it as an excuse to be rude to the said fat person. It shows more about their character. than it says about the other persons fatness. Ugly personality is far worse than fat cells. Lucy

AMaster -> RE: bbw submissives? (8/20/2008 2:48:32 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Briena This thread is funny lol... I dont get it, why its such a big deal to everyone about size, weight, hotness... WHATEVER! BBWs are just as cool as SBWs! Everyone is beautiful in their own way, sloppy fat or not. And I have seen some pretty hit up skinny chicks in my day, so its not just one sided. I mean you could meet a chick who is the size of your honda but she could be the best mother in the world, or the sweetest, most caring lover you have ever had; whereas you get a bangin ass skinny chick who is abusive, rude, and completly disrespectful. Im a happily married, mother, BBW; and I really am a BBW because I know I am beautiful for who I am. BBW is a womans personal acceptance to her appearance. It helps them to not be ashamed for not looking like Tyra Banks. I think every woman is beautiful, even if they are physically ugly, skinny or fat... :D I agree!

akisha -> RE: bbw submissives? (8/20/2008 2:51:51 PM)
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camille65 -> RE: bbw submissives? (8/20/2008 3:11:18 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Lucylastic I dont have a problem with a person who has preferences, I have a problem with people who use it as an excuse to be rude to the said fat person. It shows more about their character. than it says about the other persons fatness. Ugly personality is far worse than fat cells. Lucy Lordy there have been (and will be) so many threads on this subject. One thing that I have noticed is a certain amount of overweight women who use that as reverse discrimination without actually being sure. Assuming that things didn't work out only because of their weight, as if nothing else could have possibly influenced the guys decision. Oh it couldn't be the bad breath, or the honk-laugh. No way could it be the personality clash. Nothing to do with different social backgrounds. Not a chance that he simply did not like her. She could only be dumped because she is overweight because that is how she identifies herself therefore everyone else must identify her that way too. That is part of why I detest the acronym BBW. I hate seeing someone define themselves in such a narrow category and one that is often an automatic turn off to some people. Its like I'm watching them set themselves up for the fall then pouncing on the 'BBW' part as the blame. Yes there really are some jerks out there who delight in being nasty. I know that, I've met some. But in order to expect everyone else to have an open mind about people, it has to start from the self. Maybe Mr X simply doesn't like Ms Y, nothing to do with her weight. But she fixates on that as the reason because it is safe. No introspection or change needed. I'm not disagreeing with your post Lucy, just saying what sparked inside my noggin.

redhotbbw -> RE: bbw submissives? (8/20/2008 4:22:00 PM)
I don't define myself by the term "BBW". I understand that people have their preferences, as I do, and I respect that and don't blame my weight if someone is not interested. I use the acronym in my screen name because a lot of men only notice my picture, some never even bothering to read my profile before they contact me. I think I am beautiful, inside and out, and if someone doesn't appreciate that, it doesn't matter because there are a lot of men that do!

zumala -> RE: bbw submissives? (8/20/2008 9:06:05 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Belladonna30 hey everyone! Fat girl here! my Dom is a fat kid too! He is still by far the sexiest man in the world to me. I have dated male models, athletic guys with muscles everywhere, and i still find my Dom to be number 1 of all time. He loves me for me and doesnt care if im a fat girl or a skinny chick. Now, i personally for health reasons would like both of Uus to lose a few pounds. Wwe are chubby kids, not morbidly obese. Wwe could both stand to lose 40 pounds and it would put Uus in the healthy weight area. Maybe in the near future a modification to how Wwe eat will be set into motion, but as of right now, He is a meat and taters kinda guy who works 12 hrs a day. i feed Him what He likes. Unfortunately, i dont do the kinda work He does but i eat with Him, lol. ive gained an extra 10 pounds from that alone. i think the weight debate is never-ending. People have certain tastes, i like Mt. Dew, He likes Coke. Seriously, there are tons of Doms that will take a fat girl. im a fat girl with at pretty face, in other words, i can lose the wieght (8 years ago I was a size 3 and 115 pounds) and still be pretty. i get hit on all the time with, "You have a gorgeous face and smile, if you were thin you would be smokin". LOL. i laugh that crap off, but none the less i hear it daily. But an ugly faced skinny girl has no hope, lol. i will be the cute fat girl, thanks! Be happy with who you are and the confidence will attract more than looks, by far. A confident sub is worth her weight in gold. cheers! ~bella~ That's kind of sad... Those skinny girls with ugly faces can't help that they have ugly faces.

SingleRarity -> RE: bbw submissives? (8/21/2008 6:16:39 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: zumala quote: ORIGINAL: Belladonna30 hey everyone! Fat girl here! my Dom is a fat kid too! He is still by far the sexiest man in the world to me. I have dated male models, athletic guys with muscles everywhere, and i still find my Dom to be number 1 of all time. He loves me for me and doesnt care if im a fat girl or a skinny chick. Now, i personally for health reasons would like both of Uus to lose a few pounds. Wwe are chubby kids, not morbidly obese. Wwe could both stand to lose 40 pounds and it would put Uus in the healthy weight area. Maybe in the near future a modification to how Wwe eat will be set into motion, but as of right now, He is a meat and taters kinda guy who works 12 hrs a day. i feed Him what He likes. Unfortunately, i dont do the kinda work He does but i eat with Him, lol. ive gained an extra 10 pounds from that alone. i think the weight debate is never-ending. People have certain tastes, i like Mt. Dew, He likes Coke. Seriously, there are tons of Doms that will take a fat girl. im a fat girl with at pretty face, in other words, i can lose the wieght (8 years ago I was a size 3 and 115 pounds) and still be pretty. i get hit on all the time with, "You have a gorgeous face and smile, if you were thin you would be smokin". LOL. i laugh that crap off, but none the less i hear it daily. But an ugly faced skinny girl has no hope, lol. i will be the cute fat girl, thanks! Be happy with who you are and the confidence will attract more than looks, by far. A confident sub is worth her weight in gold. cheers! ~bella~ That's kind of sad... Those skinny girls with ugly faces can't help that they have ugly faces. People do it in these threads all the time. Apparently it's ok to make subtle jabs at thin people. If you read through this thread it's done over and over again. It is very, very sad. Daddy's Ballerina "e"

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