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mind games goes for both sexes! - 10/19/2005 11:00:18 PM

TSAR3

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this lifestyle has a lot of serious people , but there are the few that like to play games.
so let's tell a few of these games compare notes and see if there are any funnies that anyone could share.

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RE: mind games goes for both sexes! - 10/19/2005 11:20:25 PM

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this lifestyle has a lot of serious people , but there are the few that like to play games. so this post was created to warn and keep people safe from those who are using this lifestyle to ask for photos to post on the web.
Keep in mind one post does not mean they are playing mind games prehaps the other person got upset at them for some reason , in a chat or didn't like a email they sent.
so please think before you post anything , and show proof of why you think they are playing mind games.

I'm not sure I'm following exactly what you mean, but CollarMe has a rule against attacking anyone by name. So I don't have much of a problem with somone writing "A person asked me to post erotic pictures on a website and I'm not comfortable with that" or even "I don't think a dominant has a right to tell me to post pictures." Both of those open a discussion where people can express opinions.

Also, how can someone show proof of anything before they post a message? Even if they had proof, which really isn't necessary for a posting, how could they show it prior to making that post?

Finally, just what are you warning people about? Posting pictures? Posting messages about people asking them to post pictures?

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RE: mind games goes for both sexes! - 10/19/2005 11:49:12 PM

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it not really an attack its to show the the ones who are looking whos playing games i have talked to people here that were looking and all they wanted was photos.
it just to help people to find what they seek better.

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RE: mind games goes for both sexes! - 10/20/2005 1:02:43 PM

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and how does this fit with bondage gear/apparel?

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RE: mind games goes for both sexes! - 10/20/2005 7:55:01 PM

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Tsar, welcome to the boards. You will get a better repsonse if you reword your post. Keep in mind that newbie warnings often fall on deaf ears. Newbie complaints about this board/site will probably be met with hostility or indifference. If you ever think you are the first to be played, scammed, used and abused on sites like this, think again. And no, talking about it will not neccesarily help anyone else avoid it. It's part of the internet experience. The forum you posted in is for gear and apparell talk, not mind games unless they come in a box. Thanx ;)

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RE: mind games goes for both sexes! - 10/20/2005 10:19:36 PM

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i didn't post this just for my self several people i have talked to said they are tired of all the games. i have read many profiles here on the site quite a few said they weretired of all the games.
i didn't do this group to bash or get even if that is what anyone is thinking. like i said before i done it to help those who really are looking , and not playing games.

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RE: mind games goes for both sexes! - 10/20/2005 10:32:10 PM

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i couldn't think of any other place to put it. i guess it could have went in with all the gruops but i didn't think it would hurt to put it here. besides i am known for standing out around where i live.

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RE: mind games goes for both sexes! - 10/21/2005 1:29:20 AM

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i didn't post this just for my self several people i have talked to said they are tired of all the games. i have read many profiles here on the site quite a few said they weretired of all the games.

And they asked you to post this? I'll admit to being confused. Since you state these people have already spoken up, why did you feel you needed to speak up for them.

I'll paraphrase Priscilla Mullins' suggestion, "Speak for yourself, Tsar." It's always more powerful that way.

It's also more powerful if, in stating the existence of a problem, you can provide some suggestions in how to deal with it.

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RE: mind games goes for both sexes! - 10/21/2005 8:54:54 AM

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well this is one way to deal with the problem of mind games , this board is not working like i tought it would but it's working. i think this is a stronger board than intended.

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RE: mind games goes for both sexes! - 11/1/2005 12:16:02 AM

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Well of course it's not working as expected lol it's not a board to talk about game players and wanta bee's that's not the boards purpose's.

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