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ORIGINAL: InstantClassic

But, how much time should she have outside that area?

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Are there times/situations where she should be in the living room, kitchen, etc?

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How often should I go in the room with her?

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I plan to allow tv/laptop in there, so, she has things to do. But, do i do everything alone?

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 Sleep, watch tv, eat, etc, or, go into the room with her, or, have her come out with me?

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ORIGINAL: katie978
This is nothing that would appeal to me...presumably she's interested in this kind of set-up, but I frankly can't imagine why this would be an attractive idea to a woman...

   That being said-let me address your concerns. You say "She will go to college and/or work." This indicated to me she is currently doing neither and you intend to make her do one or the other? Good luck with that. Anyways. When I went to college and worked, I had about zero free time to be locked in a room. I spent all my free time sleeping. So, unless she's sleeping in that room, she probably won't be spending that much time there.

She currently is enrolled in college and just finished her 3rd year. She also works, but, is looking to find a different job with more hours. She will be returning to school in september. I made it out to be she would be in this room 24/7, obviously, if shes working, going to school, she wont be.

  Why do you need to keep an eye on her? Sure, I can understand watching a girl in a pretty uniform, however, I also kind of worry that you are intending to LOCK this room. That's a terrible idea. What if someone breaks into your apartment while she's there? What if something catches on fire? I consider that the same as leaving someone in any kind of bondage-dangerous and possibly illegal.

Well, ive always wanted to set up an ip based webcam to try it. Im a tech guy, so, id love to see it actually work. But, it really isnt for bondage use, mainly because we wont be seeing  alot of each other and i can easily be reminded of her. I wont have much time to do so while at work anyways. And no, i absolutly dont intend to keep this room locked, esp if im gone.

 But, how much time should she have outside that area? Again, I don't understand why having your slave in this plasticed-in living room instead of the real living room would be any more sexy. Is it supposed to be like a cage, or something?

It would be like a cage, but, a lot more free space. And dont think of it like the plastic your parents might use on a couch... i wanted to try and do something like you see in movies, where theres some bioharzard going around and they go into this steril room.... but, i could easily find other materials. I may simply use curtins with rails.

  Are there times/situations where she should be in the living room, kitchen, etc? I reckon that depends on how fond you are of doing dishes, laundry, mopping floors yourself. If you really like doing those, well, your slave never needs to be out of the room at all! If not, then your girl should be let out to do those things. She'll be fitting the chores in between the schooling, working, studying, and presumably, time spent with you.

Id want her to help with dishes, cleaning up, etc. I prefer cooking and doing a few things myself, but, id def like her to help out. So yes i do plan on having her do things.

   How often should I go in the room with her? If I wanted to live alone, I would do so without some random jerk coming in and leaving crumbs on the bed, hogging the bathroom, farting, and generally being a guy. If I wanted to live with my master, I'd want to spend time with him. I'd want to cuddle while watching TV and to greet him when he gets home and cook dinners with him, etc. How often should you go in the room? Depends on how much you like her-if you hate her and she smells, well, keeping her in the locked and sealed room is brilliant!

5 days out of the week, we wouldnt be sleeping together, so, the 2 days we can, id fully intend to have her be with me. I like her  alot and she dosent smell, so, no worries there!

I plan to allow tv/laptop in there, so, she has things to do. Why not give her something...useful to do? Honestly, if I had a slave locked in a room in my house, that bitch would be making sneakers. Or floggers. Or knitting me sweaters. Or doing something productive other than sitting on her ass eating cheetos and watching TV (since eating and vegging out were two of her only three options).

Well, im not cleaning the bathroom and kitchen everyday so, sometimes, there isnt a lot to do. She should be able to have time to talk to her friends, go online, e-mail, etc... as well as watch tv shows.  Most things like shopping, going to a movie, and other activities, we do together. If she wanted to go to get some milk or something at the store, that would be fine. I certainly understand people need time for them too.

I was going to have a catsuit as a uniform, maybe a hood, depending, so her wearing that outside the room may not be do-able, as, i dont want to have to crank the AC for the entire condo. Why couldn't she wear this outside of the room? Do you still live with your parents? Hers?

No, its just us, but, if i keep the upstairs cool (where she is) downstairs, it may not be as cool. I dont want her being uncomfortable and getting all hot. Ive been in a catsuit before, and, they can get really hot and uncomfortable.

So, from a SLAVE/SUBS point of view, do you have a situation like this? What can you recommend to me? I would recommend you try more restrictive bondage for shorter periods of time. Keep her locked in a cage for some of the precious hours you have together.

We've done a lot of short term bondage before, and experimented with most of the things i wanna do long term. I was never a fan of a cage, as, its almost too restrictive. I liked the idea better of an "open area" so to speak, that we can do a lot in bondage wise.

     Im pretty open to ideas and such, but, i want to make the experience ideal for her, but also, i want our relationship to still be strong without doing everything seperate. Again, I can't imagine what ideal you could be referring to? Being caged is one thing...but what you're thinking doesn't seem to follow those lines. Perhaps if you explained more of what you were thinking we could get a clearer picture of the realities of your idea.

Im terrible at explaining my thoughts and feelings, so, im sure thats why its coming out bad. Again, i almost want it to simulate a cage, but, i want more room to be able to do bondage, or, where she can stand up and walk around, use the bathroom, etc... See my other responses, and, i think it may clear up a few things,