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24/7 slave - 10/20/2005 5:51:12 AM

domihelen

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I had several slaves in the past, more and more I found I like this kind of lifestyle, I nearly like more session in SM. most favirate is maid slave. but the question is I got married, it's not a right marridge, we are too different, we nearly seperated, but it's difficult to devorced, so now how to keep a 24/7 slave under my marridge

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RE: 24/7 slave - 10/20/2005 7:17:30 AM

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My advice: you don't.

If you are married or partnered and you want to also have a slave (24/7 or not) you do it with the full knowledge and consent of the other partner.

I think this greatly increases the chances of you having success with the slave-owner relationship because you aren't hiding anything and that relieves a lot of stress.

But then again my husband and my slave are really good friends. They do some things together I have no interest in doing (talking about computers and physics for example -- thank god they can enjoy their techno-geekness together).

Also just a note that 24/7 is very very unlike scening. It is something to be worked into slowly and realistically. It is a lot of very hard work for everyone involved. When it is right for you and the slave, it will be rewarding and empowering but it is still a lot of hard work.

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RE: 24/7 slave - 10/22/2005 6:17:42 AM

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thanks for your answer, you are correct, 24/7 slave has lots of work, but if keep a slave under marriage, how to get along with together?

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RE: 24/7 slave - 10/22/2005 7:29:47 AM

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I'm not sure I under the "under marriage" part of your question.

I had assumed it meant without your spouse's knowledge.

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RE: 24/7 slave - 10/22/2005 9:57:39 AM

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ORIGINAL: domihelen

thanks for your answer, you are correct, 24/7 slave has lots of work, but if keep a slave under marriage, how to get along with together?

You may want to check out the Polyamorous Lifestyles forum on this site.

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