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Leatherist -> RE: submissive princess? (5/15/2008 10:20:54 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: pettingdragons dressing up like a princess to have Master cut the pretty gown from her body?? giggles pettingdragons Master Dragons considered slave paddle her with her sceptre. [:D]

DesFIP -> RE: submissive princess? (5/15/2008 10:41:06 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Leatherist When used in a derogatory sense-it's usually about a woman who wants to call every shot and control everything,and then call some poor guy "master"-because a fantasy makes her wet. But he's more of a slave than anything else. I usually hear the term used by some guy who has been rejected because he doesn't meet the woman's criteria. "How dare some slave turn me down" stuff. I don't do humiliation and degradation. They do bad things to me. Because I need to be treated with respect and love, and be told and shown that I mattter to him, I have had people slur me in this manner. But he doesn't think of me as topping him. And when it comes down to it, isn't that what matters? That we are both happy in our relationship? That we both get our needs met? Some anonymous Joe may feel that I'm a princess because The Man will drive when we decide to order take out (the one Chinese place here doesn't deliver). But The Man doesn't feel that way.

Owner4SexSlave -> RE: submissive princess? (5/15/2008 10:46:43 AM)
I can't give you a universal meaning on this label, but the phrase "submissive princess" sort of suggests it could be an "Uber Daddy's Girl" type, this is what it instills in my mind at least.

MusicalBoredom -> RE: submissive princess? (5/15/2008 11:04:03 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DesFIP quote: ORIGINAL: Leatherist When used in a derogatory sense-it's usually about a woman who wants to call every shot and control everything,and then call some poor guy "master"-because a fantasy makes her wet. But he's more of a slave than anything else. I usually hear the term used by some guy who has been rejected because he doesn't meet the woman's criteria. "How dare some slave turn me down" stuff. I don't do humiliation and degradation. They do bad things to me. Because I need to be treated with respect and love, and be told and shown that I mattter to him, I have had people slur me in this manner. But he doesn't think of me as topping him. And when it comes down to it, isn't that what matters? That we are both happy in our relationship? That we both get our needs met? Some anonymous Joe may feel that I'm a princess because The Man will drive when we decide to order take out (the one Chinese place here doesn't deliver). But The Man doesn't feel that way. If being treated with love and respect by someone you are in a relationship with makes you a princess then I'm all for there being more princesses in the world. On a side note, I think a lot of people (yes "a lot" is an arbitrary number) had read and joyed the Beauty trilogy as an introduction to BDSM fantasies. Beauty was a princess...

TreasureKY -> RE: submissive princess? (5/15/2008 11:11:11 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DesFIP I usually hear the term used by some guy who has been rejected because he doesn't meet the woman's criteria. "How dare some slave turn me down" stuff. I do see it used that way by those who appear to belong to the "sour grapes gang", but a lot of the time I see it used in a derogatory manner, I get the impression it's a put-down... a way of suggesting that a submissive isn't a REAL™ submissive. Sort of the "how dare you have an expectations", "it's all about Me", and "I've no intention to make any effort or go out of my way for you... I'm a DOMINANT" lecture, all rolled into one cute little, easy-to-use phrase that cuts to the quick. [;)]

pettingdragons -> RE: submissive princess? (5/15/2008 12:04:59 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Leatherist paddle her with her sceptre. [:D] lots of things can be done with the sceptre.....[sm=stickineye.gif] [sm=wiggleass.gif] [sm=whap.gif] LOL pettingdragons Master Dragons considered slave

breatheasone -> RE: submissive princess? (5/15/2008 12:15:22 PM)
I am a slave...I am also my Daddys princess.....It works for us....and hello everyone!.....Its nice to see collarme debate is alive, and well.....

lusciouslips19 -> RE: submissive princess? (5/15/2008 12:23:49 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: breatheasone I am a slave...I am also my Daddys princess.....It works for us....and hello everyone!.....Its nice to see collarme debate is alive, and well..... Thats cause Candy is dandy! [:)]

breatheasone -> RE: submissive princess? (5/15/2008 12:26:20 PM)
quote: Thats cause Candy is dandy! And so are you beautiful woman.....SMOOCHES......

lusciouslips19 -> RE: submissive princess? (5/15/2008 12:28:05 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: breatheasone quote: Thats cause Candy is dandy! And so are you beautiful woman.....SMOOCHES...... I wish you could come over and we could play dress up. We can trade Tiarra's[:D]

Littlepita -> RE: submissive princess? (5/15/2008 2:12:16 PM)
Wow, I have never heard the term submissive princess uses other than by me...when I'm talking about myself. [:D] I use it in the context that I'm my Daddy's little gurl who requires lots of pink, bling, shoes, and chocolate. Of course, Daddy doesn't always fully understand my requirements, but we (that's the royal we) are working on him. [;)]

Padriag -> RE: submissive princess? (5/15/2008 4:08:05 PM)
Perused the thread... here's what I surmized. Everyone seems to ascribe their own meaning to the label. Which is more or less true with most labels bandied about. I've never used the term so I don't have any particular perspective on it.

cantilena -> RE: submissive princess? (5/15/2008 5:44:04 PM)
I'm familiar with this term, to the point a former partner used that as a pet name for me! I adored it then and I adore the memory of him calling me that. With this particular Dom, it was used as a form of rather sophisticated, unspoken, unexplained humor between us. I have high expectations. A high standard. I do know what I want in life. I also have a great potential for self-depricating humor. He understood all of these things in me, and frankly found it all quite amusing. He didn't find any of it the least bit challenging, either to his dominance or to my own submission. He called me his princess, and that worked really well for us. I still have great fondness for the man, and probably always will.

MISTRESSKUMA -> RE: submissive princess? (5/15/2008 5:59:49 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Leatherist When used in a derogatory sense-it's usually about a woman who wants to call every shot and control everything,and then call some poor guy "master"-because a fantasy makes her wet. But he's more of a slave than anything else. to all the princesses owned by the doms... you go girls! wink wink

freyjasdottir -> RE: submissive princess? (5/15/2008 6:51:41 PM)
My Lord once told me I don't act enough like a Princess. So being the smart aleck I am I had to run to Claire's the next day to buy a tiara. His laughter the next time he was over and saw it on my shelf was more than enough for the run to get it, plus my oldest UM was mortified because I wore in threw the local mall.

Prinsexx -> RE: submissive princess? (5/15/2008 7:53:06 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: switch240 I've heard people toss around the term a couple of times before, I just don't get it. Can someone please explain it to me? My blood is blue. My crown is a halo.

Prinsexx -> RE: submissive princess? (5/15/2008 7:56:08 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: lusciouslips19 quote: ORIGINAL: Leatherist quote: ORIGINAL: switch240 I've heard people toss around the term a couple of times before, I just don't get it. Can someone please explain it to me? She's royal. You rang? How are you distant cousin? We are fine and so is one's kingdom.

domahpet -> RE: submissive princess? (5/15/2008 8:07:51 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: lusciouslips19 Thats cause Candy is dandy! [:)] you called? oh wait, this is CM isnt it??? (hehe, my nic on another site [;)])

MaamJay -> RE: submissive princess? (5/15/2008 8:15:32 PM)
In a derogatory sense I could equate submissive princess with do me boys! But, there seems to be lots of Doms who love spoiling their little girls ... and as long as everyone's happy what does the label matter? Maam Jay aka violet[A]

sleazybutterfly -> RE: submissive princess? (5/15/2008 8:23:58 PM)
I am his princess slave, and he is my prince. I don't sit around and get fed grapes all day, but I am a tad bit spoiled. I am always shown love, respect, and how much he cares for me. He takes care of me with the same love and respect I give to him. We have a great balance of give and take in our dynamic. I don't expect, I don't deserve, it just is.

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