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AngelOfSade -> RE: Aftercare (5/16/2008 9:28:26 AM)
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ORIGINAL: MasterFireMaam
It's going to depend on the person. I've met some who don't want aftercare. It also depends on the Top. I know some who must give aftercare...it's their own aftercare. We need it, too, sometimes.
Master Fire
I have never really thought of it this way, but ... yes, I recognize myself here. I really enjoy giving the aftercare, particularly if the session was intense, and not just slightly kinky sex (which is also good !). I like to cuddle my poor partner, make her feel safe, comfortable and protected. I have never thought of it as being *my* own aftercare, but this makes sense. I am also looking for comfort and reassurance in a way, to reach a place inside me where I fully feel that the session has ended, that we both reconnect on planet Earth, and I have this desire to know, after the session, what it is she felt and what moved her. Or not.
Thanks for the enlightment :-)
A.
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