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RE: Feeding the vulnerable places - 5/16/2008 5:33:10 PM

SimplyMichael

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Coming from you, that is VERY high praise indeed! Thanks Celeste!

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RE: Feeding the vulnerable places - 5/16/2008 6:01:16 PM

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ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael

As a dominant, what makes you feel the most loved, that touches those most vulnerable place inside you?

Forget about as a Dominant... how about just as a person.

One of the most intense feelings of love that I ever get is when they open themselves to me. As I grew to get to know both Alandra and Kyra, they began to show very inner part of themselves to me. I fell for these two girls in a big way, and as they shared their deepest histories, closets etc... I knew that not only was I deeply in love with them.. but they Had to be in love with me to be so vulnerable to me. In short... it is their vulnerability to me that touches me to the core.. I feel completely loved, craved, needed, wanted and everything else. On the flip side... when I feel that they are shutdown.. I feel the relationship is threatened.. Sometimes, I make a knee JERK reaction and respond negatively to what I preceive is them shutting down. With sometime, I have learned to somewhat not be so quick to become a JERK. What help was actually understanding that I was feeling threatened of loosing what I consider the most important thing in my life. It has allowed me to respond more constructively.

I suppose that is why I love the SM aspects so much... as much as I enjoy causing the pain.. with someone I love like Kyra and Alandra... their is an intense vulnerability that comes with the play that feds this feeling of being loved.

Yeah.. it's wonderful... to feel loved. the vulnerability is ever so sweet.

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RE: Feeding the vulnerable places - 5/16/2008 6:43:11 PM

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We think, we live, we cry,we bleed..but no where does it say we cann't feel deeply

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RE: Feeding the vulnerable places - 5/17/2008 5:04:07 AM

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So what feeds YOUR heart and if you care to respond about why that would be interesting as well.

There are many things which 'feed Me', her openness and vulnerability, her devotion, the mix of fear and absolute trust in her eyes when she knows I am about to play with her knowing I am going to hurt her to the very limit of what she can endure but absolute faith in My ability to keep her safe from actual harm.

Seeing her take pleasure in doing something she detests or fears, doing it willingly, giving it her all and still feeling positive about it because she is doing it for ME.

The way she unthinkingly reaches out when scared or insecure, drawning strength from just My presence and overcoming whatever obstical is in her path.

What feeds Me?.... she does... all of her.

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RE: Feeding the vulnerable places - 5/17/2008 7:37:44 PM

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awwwww

that's so sweet.........i think your just using the forum to pick up grrrls haha

no in all seriousness it's so nice to see a Dom actually recognize their sub / slave for once....whoever she is, she's one lucky grrl and by the sounds of things your a lucky Dom.

~meticulous~

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RE: Feeding the vulnerable places - 5/17/2008 10:13:48 PM

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*warm smile* its always nice to see/read about life journies that are multi dimentional ... it can seem great to have an 'all mighty' dominant within a particular exchange or scene but its absolutely beautiful to see glympses of the real depths of the totality of life... any one who thinks dominants do not have vunerabilities or needs .... or submissives do not have strengths or great abilities .. is in my mind a bit silly .....

We all have our simliarities and our differences .... the best relationships I think are ones that show these in a wonderful light ... they feed all the facits of who we are in a natural but delightful way .... sometimes so naturally that we are surprised by how other relationships have missed feeding what we now see was an aching hunger

thank you for the glympses of your own unigue beauty, Simply Micheal, BSB, Merc and beth ... ,Celeste

edited to add a few more ....hmm Knight of Mists ....RavenMuse *smiles*

Mz Minx

*a warm smile to the memory of My Sir .... who was the first to tecah me how beautiful and natural it was to receive what I needed and to respect and love me enough to offer it freely... thank you always *

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RE: Feeding the vulnerable places - 5/18/2008 5:04:50 AM

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SimplyMichael,

I deeply enjoy this thread. While I am not currently in a relationship, I carry with me gifts and trinkets, that serve as touchstones to memories. Things that greatly touch my heart. I have memories that haunt me in a good way, before I sleep, or come forth at times when I least expect.

Right now, and this might sound odd, I find myself missing things. I'm not talking physical items either. Stupid moments, such as when I go to refill my coffee cup, that there's no more coffee brewed up. Sure, go ahead and laugh. Yes, if want coffee, I am the one that has to make it. I tell you, I suck at making certain I have coffee brewed for myself at times. Anyways, just small stupid little things, call this an Emptiness Appreciation thing. I literally feel something missing at times. I am reminded of the somebody missing.   I'm getting all sappy over cups of coffee now.

There have been moments where somebody has done or given me something, I myself felt unworthy of recieving. Moments or periods of time when I, to tell you the truth, felt like I was being an complete asshole.  I'm certain everybody knows their own asshole or bitch potential. hahaha..

Right now, my keyboard is all messy and a there are a few things, I should or could probally do for myself.  I know the Exact feeling you are talking about, when you somebody does something you did not ask for. What's ironic, is that I never asked anybody to keep me in coffee, ever. It was just something that happened. It was not a rule, nor was it a command, it was something I had not asked for, it just was.

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