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blueyedbbw -> What am I????? (5/15/2008 3:09:32 PM)
I call myself a bedroom sub. I have in the past, been in a slave and a sub so know whats up with that, but hated myself for allowing someone to control me like that. for me, it does not work. I love the whippings and the fisting and the disipline in the bedroom. Even if at first I say no, love it when someone makes me. But yet, outside the bedroom, I have to have control, oh, don't get me wrong, I don't mean, do this, do that! I mean, If i ask what you want for dinner and you tell me what you want, I will cook it. If you tell me whatever, I will cook what I feel like and I will not change it. If I don't feel like cooking I will not. I don't mind getting someone coffee but like the same in return. Maybe I should just say I am kinky in bed and go with that...LOL. I'm single again and the though of a vanilla relationship makes me sick! Any ideas or suggestions would help. And, please, if you have something mean to say to me , just say it to yourself.

Level -> RE: What am I????? (5/15/2008 3:47:25 PM)
You're kinky. Why make it hard?

sirsholly -> RE: What am I????? (5/15/2008 3:48:44 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Level Why make it hard? [;)] well hell Level...if you don't know by now...

lusciouslips19 -> RE: What am I????? (5/15/2008 3:49:03 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: blueyedbbw I call myself a bedroom sub. I have in the past, been in a slave and a sub so know whats up with that, but hated myself for allowing someone to control me like that. for me, it does not work. I love the whippings and the fisting and the disipline in the bedroom. Even if at first I say no, love it when someone makes me. But yet, outside the bedroom, I have to have control, oh, don't get me wrong, I don't mean, do this, do that! I mean, If i ask what you want for dinner and you tell me what you want, I will cook it. If you tell me whatever, I will cook what I feel like and I will not change it. If I don't feel like cooking I will not. I don't mind getting someone coffee but like the same in return. Maybe I should just say I am kinky in bed and go with that...LOL. I'm single again and the though of a vanilla relationship makes me sick! Any ideas or suggestions would help. And, please, if you have something mean to say to me , just say it to yourself. Say you are looking to be a Daddy's Girl.

domahpet -> RE: What am I????? (5/15/2008 3:49:59 PM)
im going with daddys girl too[;)]

sirsholly -> RE: What am I????? (5/15/2008 3:50:39 PM)
op..i agree with Level. You are who and what you are. Stop trying to put a label on yourself and just have fun!!

sambamanslilgirl -> RE: What am I????? (5/15/2008 3:52:17 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: blueyedbbw Maybe I should just say I am kinky in bed and go with that...LOL. sounds like a good idea to me

DesFIP -> RE: What am I????? (5/15/2008 4:00:31 PM)
Don't bother with a label. Look for someone who matches you. The Man doesn't really care what's for dinner as long as it doesn't include peas. Can be soup, salad and a sandwich or a slow cooker stew. Doesn't matter to him. And if I get home late and can't face cooking he's fine with going out to the diner or ordering in a chicken parm hero. He's laid back. Which is what I need because I can't have a three course meal on the table nightly at 6:30. Half the time I haven't made it back by then. But I'd say you're a sub who is not interested in micro management. You need to be with someone who doesn't want to have to tell you what to do.

JohnWarren -> RE: What am I????? (5/15/2008 4:06:53 PM)
Labels are like newspaper photographs. They do give a certain amount of information, but when you put either under a microscope, you get less, rather than more, information. You are what you are. That's why I like the title wiitwd so much

SleepyDom -> RE: What am I????? (5/15/2008 4:13:22 PM)
Since you dislike an ongoing power exchange I wouldn't consider you a sub. I'd call you a "bottom" if I had to put a label.

Padriag -> RE: What am I????? (5/15/2008 4:13:25 PM)
Level summed it up. You are who you are... go with it.

blueyedbbw -> RE: What am I????? (5/15/2008 4:48:20 PM)
thanks for all your responses and I agree with most of you on what you said and will change my profile soon. but not yet..did I mention I am a procastinator. As far as being a Daddys girl I am lost?? Aways avoided men that was looking for daddys girl..

kinkypuppy2 -> RE: What am I????? (5/15/2008 5:09:22 PM)
just accept who you are and follow that path.

BRNaughtyAngel -> RE: What am I????? (5/15/2008 6:08:27 PM)
If you're just wanting a label to slap on your butt [sm=wiggleass.gif] to help in finding a potential partner, then there's nothing wrong with "bedroom submissive". However, if you were a guy, I think most would probably label you a "bottom". I must have missed something somewhere, but I don't see a Daddy's girl connection. [sm=dunno.gif] Just make it clear in your profile that you only submit during kinky sex, and I'm sure you'll find plenty of interested bedroom-only Top/Dominant types.

SirMIkeSD -> RE: What am I????? (5/15/2008 7:08:59 PM)
How about you are a SM bottom, that's what I was taught they are. Mike

BBWnNC72 -> RE: What am I????? (5/15/2008 7:18:40 PM)
Labels are for food items and such. You are who you are. Don't try to over-analyze it, just go with what you feel and have fun. But my Dominant would say you are a bedroom submissive or bottom.

Dnomyar -> RE: What am I????? (5/16/2008 5:45:36 AM)
And what is wrong with creamed peas??? Peas mashed into your mashed potatoes??? OP come see me and I will label you.

SirDominic -> RE: What am I????? (5/16/2008 6:09:22 AM)
Have to agree with those who say just be who you are, and don't worry about trying to label it. My wife has always been submissive in the bedroom, chains, whips, the works. Outside that venue, we are pretty much a vanilla couple. Works fine for us.

wulfgarw -> RE: What am I????? (5/16/2008 7:41:11 AM)
You're kinda like me in the fashion of that I tend to 'leave the Dom at the dungeon door', in that I'm kinky minded 24/7, but I leave the Dom attitude for playtime.

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