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Owner4SexSlave -> RE: Kinkiness an Inherited Trait?! (5/18/2008 12:39:40 AM)
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Perhaps! I tend to view it as being a combination of different things for different people.
In terms of the pain tolerence I personally have, I believe this to be biological. My own mother has a very high pain tolerence. Plus a few other family members do as well.
In terms of D/s, my upbringing and social experiences, helped shape and mold it. On a biological level, I suspect in part, because I remember things that I did way back in "Kindergarten" and the social adjustments I had to go through. No, I did not play nice and fair with other kids right away.
For me, it's easier to relate to the social experiences I've had growing up over the years. It's a little difficult for me to say one way or another that it was all Biological. So, my honest answer is "Perhaps". I'm not ruling it out.
In terms of my attraction to kink. Again, this is difficult to say. I was abused at one point in time when I was young child. My understanding of Sex, violence, force, and all kinds of things was transformed by this experience. I can not honestly say one way or another, if I had not been abused that I would not be into BDSM or kink. It's subjective for me.
I do know this, that my experiences as a child, did play a major role of who I am today. How could they not. These things became very and deeply intergrated into my personality. In fact to such a level, that I do not honestly believe, these aspects could ever be changed or removed from my core psyche. The reason why is in part Biological, the result of brain pattern development based on my experiences growing up. In short my Neuro pathways became hardwired.
So with that said, on a biological level, I'm wired for kink and BDMS regardless. In terms of this being an inherited trait. I find it questionable. I don't have any clear answers on that one. In terms of my High Sex drive, I believe that to be inherited. It runs in my family. I have reason and a basis to believe this personally. It's difficult to proclaim D/s as being an Inherited trait or not. My family is one full of dysfunctional, head butting, control freaks. Again back to Neurological development of the brain during childhood. I can honestly say, Inherited Trait, but I can not pin it on XYZ Chromosome from my Daddy's Sperm or Mommy's Egg cells. LOL...
I have explored this topic at times, deep in thought, to the point I have literally mind fucked myself to death.
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