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Mercnbeth -> RE: cuckold females (5/19/2008 7:31:18 AM)
quote: ...Anyway, is there anyone else who is a cucked girl, on here?... this slave isn't a "cuckold female", but if Master were to bring home some strange and fuck/flog it in the bedroom, with or without this slave observing it, she still wouldn't consider herself a cucked girl. she would consider it as Master doing whatever and whoever He pleases, whenever He pleases. best of luck to you on your search![:)]

tsatske -> RE: cuckold famales (5/19/2008 7:39:46 AM)
quote: Exactly what did I say BEFORE I was attacked that came off as arrogant or offensive... or my reply to that nastiness, for that matter? MB, to answer you - probably the main thing i find off putting is how you repeatedly answer to those who you feel are insulting to you, and, in nearly every such answer you make, point out that thatis what can be expected from this community. Honestly, if you lump people into large groups as 'communities' and then decide that you can get nothing of value from any community which has any negative members in it, you will never find the friendships, support or connections you desire, anywhere in life. There is bad and good everywhere. and some who fit you, and some who don't. Another issue you might have is trying to find exact matches to you. Yes, they are good when you find them. but do not limit yourself to support from people who are 'just like you.' For instance, yes, i said i could not be cockolded. But, i think there are a lot of more basic things in your dynamic, and in mine, that we have in common. Read again WHY i can not be cockolded. It is not a scold to you for being cockolded, for feeling the way you do or experience what you experience or enjoying what you enjoy. I am simply saying, look for the similarities instead of the difference, and, while you still won't be a match for everyone on every issue, you will find much more support and friendship than you expected. try to overlook and ignore most negative things. Some things you may feel you need to respond to, but, really, most people who don't get it, just don't get it. shrug and let it go. also, every community is different. seek out those communities and associations that feed your soul, and use each of them for the places they fit, do not try to make one fit into a place it does not. Are you a registered slave? because, really, this sounds like an I.E. issue to me, and the community on collarme is just not very understanding about I.E. it's just not a dynamic that is done here. have you tried taking your post to the slaveregistry boards? You might find more that share your experiences, there. Not in the least telling you not to post here, just to broaden your search and look in places where it might work. Also, i wrote you on the other side asking if you do any lists.

hopelessfool -> RE: cuckold famales (5/19/2008 7:46:36 AM)
My only suggestion is, if it works for you it works for you. Just Make sure to have safe sex and that he does as well. Also make sure he has contact numbers of the women Just in case. When in a situation where there are multiple partners, an std is one hell of a party pooper.

tsatske -> RE: cuckold famales (5/19/2008 7:51:37 AM)
quote: I do have issues with letting people get away with verbally abusing me, so letting it pass... I wish I could, but I care too much about myself and my own mental stability right now to do so. That said, yeah...everyone can kneejerk react sometimes.... generally when something hits a nerve... hmmm.... MB, everyone must do what works for them. For me, personally, if i am going to take on someone who makes general negative comments, insults or attacks me, on the Internet, it is going to be when i am at my emotionally strongest, healthiest and stabilist, (and even then i limit it to the few who just really manage to get to me with stupidity). for me, this spends energy. There are some things you can predict in life - like if someone says something nasty to you, and you respond in kind, you are going to have a flame war going. and, if you engage in flame wars, you will get yourself viewed as that type of person and draw that kind of energy to you. When what is said needs to be answered badly enough, it can be worth that - if, and ONLY IF, i have the stability to handle it. because, even though you were only returning like for like, i promise that it is going to get volleyed back at you again. If there is a fire in my house, i have to decide what to do, based on all kinds of variables. How big is the fire? can i put it out? is it time to call in help? is there time to get some stuff out before the whole house is gone? how well am i feeling today, can i leave with sufficient haste? Here is what i never consider doing - getting so MAD at that fire things it is entitled to burn everything I value and care about that I jump on it and slap it and beat it with my fists in anger. [sm=flameout.gif] You are saying, that you just can't seem to help yourself. I understand. but try not to be too surprised when you end up with third degree burns and the fire ends up worse. you can find good connections here, and in many other forums. My own dynamic is not the easily accepted norm, nor am i. I am, as you said, a bit of an odd duck. but i have found good connections, by focusing on the positive that is sent to me, taking that which fits me, and, usually, letting the other float past, unnoticed. that is how jetsam should be treated, dear.

xxblushesxx -> RE: cuckold famales (5/19/2008 8:28:54 AM)
OP; If you felt I was attacking you, you are quite wrong. I am as capable as you are of being bitchy, unreasonable, and not listening to what someone else says...just what I think they mean. This was not one of those times. When I read your profile/journal, there did seem to be a lot of unhappiness and uncertainty. I actually empathized with you. Now I think I empathize with your master.

Wildfleurs -> RE: cuckold famales (5/19/2008 9:18:50 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MastersBitch96 Hi! I know the term cuckold is technically a male oriented term due to it's historical origins, BUT there seems to be no alternative term for a female who is cucked by her Master. So, that is what I call myself. Anyway, is there anyone else who is a cucked girl, on here? I really could use friends for support and conversation about this and other topics related to slavery and submission. If this is your situation, please, please contact me. Also, I hoped perhaps to get some conversation going regarding this topic. -- MastersBitch96 PS Feel free to check out my profile and learn a bit about me. I'm sorry, I am not allowed to speak with men, so even if you are a cuckold, if you are male, please just post your thoughts here rather than writing me privatly. The term for women into cuckolding is called cuckqueaning (-sp). And no, you aren't the only one with that particular kink, its something that I have as a bit of a kink. But seeing as this thread seems to have disentigrated and there seem to be very few women into it, thats about all I have to add of value. C~

OmegaG -> RE: cuckold famales (5/19/2008 9:26:22 AM)
I actually had something that I might have added to this thread, but considering how the OP replies, I've decided not to.

littleone35 -> RE: cuckold famales (5/19/2008 10:37:00 AM)
First i would give you a lot oof credit, i could not take it if my Master wanted to be with another. I tend to get jealous. I know what you mean about the restriction., i can talk to whomever i want but meeting anyone is out of the question.(not that i want to). Also don't let the nastiness get to you not all on here are nice. Sorry i have no input for you basically just a show of support. Matt's littleone

BossyShoeBitch -> RE: cuckold famales (5/19/2008 12:51:10 PM)
Omega, I wish you would reconsider, i'm actually quite interested in reading what you had to contribute..

BossyShoeBitch -> RE: cuckold famales (5/19/2008 12:53:54 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: tsatske because, really, this sounds like an I.E. issue to me, and the community on collarme is just not very understanding about I.E. it's just not a dynamic that is done here. what is I.E.?

tsatske -> RE: cuckold famales (5/19/2008 1:03:35 PM)
internelized enslavement.

Slave2Bob -> RE: cuckold famales (5/19/2008 5:16:06 PM)
I'm kind of afraid to post, but this bothers me. Doing his "Masterly" thing is one thing. Locking the door is another. You know what he's doing, why does he feel the need to lock the door? I know it's a small detail, but that in itself would bother me. If it's for the other girls feelings, what about yours?

AquaticSub -> RE: cuckold famales (5/19/2008 5:18:18 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MastersBitch96 Exactly what did I say BEFORE I was attacked that came off as arrogant or offensive... or my reply to that nastiness, for that matter? And it would seem that you could use a lesson in not sounding arrogant yourself, when you feel the need to correct a person on a simple and obvious typo... ever notice how the 'e' is quite near the 'a' on a keyboard??? You also don't seem to have read everything I said... this is an alternate account for me so I can remain anonymous to those who know me here... I'm hardly a new poster. Also... things you didn't bother to read, it was not I who restricted the contact, it was my Master, AND he has lifted that ban. I would comment nicely on your second paragraph (oh, yeah... there's such a thing as capital letters... but I guess they were typos, huh?) So, thanks anyway, but I'd like my buck fifty back.-- MastersBitch96 Nothing but when one person expressed their opinion that you seemed to not be content you sure went pyscho instead of simply going "I don't know what gave you that impression - that isn't how I feel". Which, honestly, just makes some people not want offer advice. Chances seem good you'll take it the wrong way and what's the point?

MladyHathor -> RE: cuckold famales (5/19/2008 5:46:03 PM)
*sweetpea , its right here:* quote: to communicate my thoughts, feelings and desires with the world, as a catharsis and means of self-humiliation. I am very masochistic in all ways, but humiliation is really where my deepest, darkest desires lie. *says it all...* *Me think thou dost protestest too much.*

celticlord2112 -> RE: cuckold famales (5/19/2008 6:19:04 PM)
quote: Exactly what did I say BEFORE I was attacked that came off as arrogant or offensive Girl, you need to rethink yourself. No one attacked you. Quite the opposite. Chill.

pettingdragons -> RE: cuckold females (5/21/2008 7:17:40 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Mercnbeth this slave isn't a "cuckold female", but if Master were to bring home some strange and fuck/flog it in the bedroom, with or without this slave observing it, she still wouldn't consider herself a cucked girl. she would consider it as Master doing whatever and whoever He pleases, whenever He pleases. best of luck to you on your search![:)] it is the same for this slave...it would not be looked upon as being "cockolded" just a Master doing Master things...not that He feels the need but if it should arise...it would be just that....Master doing what ever Master feels like doing.... pettingsdragons Master Dragons considered slave

pettingdragons -> RE: cuckold famales (5/21/2008 7:22:16 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: celticlord2112 Girl, you need to rethink yourself. No one attacked you. Quite the opposite. Chill. this girl agrees...have a cup of joe [sm=coffee.gif]and relax into the conversation....no one is attacking you....... pettingdragons Master Dragons considered slave

CuriousPuppy -> RE: cuckold famales (5/24/2008 4:21:13 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ownedgirlie Strange, actually, that female cucking is not as common as male (or so it seems). Could it be that males, in general, enjoy deep humiliation more than females? I do not know the answer. I for one believe I would enjoy being cucked. Actually, I don't think it would humiliate me (would that be your purpose?)...but I think it would make me hot as hell to watch my Master fuck another girl. I'm not sure that will ever happen with me, though, as he has mentioned he would also want me as a participant. I think it's just that those sort of things are viewed & defined differently on a conceptual level when it's male dom female sub rather than the "traditional" female dom male sub that goes with cuckholding. Words can have gender and definitions that apply differently based on who they are being used on; calling a guy a bitch has a completely different meaning than calling a girl a bitch for example.

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