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SephandElena -> RE: What does a Master thinks,when it´s like this? (5/19/2008 1:45:36 AM)
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ORIGINAL: MiaMaria
Hello, I´d like to know a Masters view on this.. and what´s going on,from a Dominants point of view, because I don´t understand quite much..
Had a Master,eerything´s fine, except couldn´t call him just text,he didn´t fancy talk in phone. well... some few
times,he had difficulties stay in contact, but very very short moments, so I let it pass. He managed to stay away
for some holiday seasons, never got a clue,until it was over, he text me "sorry,but I still have family left yadda-
yadda". After that,he got sick,we couldn´t meet. After that, he drifted away, after som weeks, he claimed,he
haven´t forgot me,he never ever let me go,I was the one-yadda-yadda. two months past-the same story.
Never heard anything. Know he´s gonna do it again. What do such a Master have in mind??
I also found out he was searching on a dating site,I wrote,he answered,he said he searched. Later said he
knew it was me.
Master number two, former Master,everythings fine back then, but when I had to work and couldn´t meet,
he dropped me. No contact, no answer, cut the phone of. After eight months he said howdy online,and
now he wants me back and talks like nothing ever happened. I haven´t got the words to ask the right
questions yet,where shall i start, what shall I say?
He says he wants to meet me and wants to talk about bdsm all the time and acts like sure,I will -kinda..
I just don´t know,but I haven´t promised anything at all. He didn´t want me to look for anyone else,he said.
I asked him,do you want one time or fast relationship? he said you can´t know it has to be developed before
you know. But no,not one time. (and he´s not famous doing so either)
well all Dominants/Masters.what is your view on this? what´s going on?
Summary for those who can't work this out.
First Dom, would text message, wouldn't talk on the phone very much at all, suddenly disappears to be "With family", no contact at all for months. Comes back out of the blue claiming that he never forgot her, wants to be with her. You guys know the drill here, all the good stuff that fakers like using.
Seems she left him, (sensible girl right there), after she found him still searching for someone else on a dating site.
Second guy (I have difficulty calling this kind of man a Dom sorry people), met up, all was fine and dandy until she had to work, then he dropped her like a hot potato, cut off contact completely and utterly without warning, and with just as much warning, reappears sometime later wanting her back. (looking for an easy lay?), with no explanations for his complete removal of contact.
The question would seem to be should she go back to him. He's apparently promising that he wants to meet with her once more but refuses to comit himself any further than that, no signals of if he wants this to be a one time thing or a relationship, as he claims it takes time to know. She's looking for help on what to do.
My appologies if I've summarised wrong, this is what I've understood from it.
If I'm correct on my sumarisation, I can only say that if he's played you for a fool once, then he'll do it again. Keep an open mind, and don't stop talking to other people. Find people who know him. Or have known him, ask them their opinion too, this might be a favourite game of his whenever he's feeling horny. You deserve more than that, a lot more. Respect yourself and find someone who will respect you the way you need to be.
Seph aka Reb.
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