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bcsubgirl -> RE: Disrespectful treatment, asking other's opinions (5/19/2008 4:07:12 PM)

my understanding of what a pigslut is.. it like a regular slut only sluttier. sort of 'will do anything' kind of attitude, can be treated in a more degrading manner.

Tsatske, i am with you. i would love to try humiliation.. but need to have trust first, and know i am respected first.

great points, Stepphann. i do intend to contact him and send him an explanation of why i jammed out. i don't think there is anything to salvage though. his approach was too cold and abrupt. i need a fair bit of coddling or i just can't function and his was definately a
'no coddling zone' approach.
 




Bound2One -> RE: Disrespectful treatment, asking other's opinions (5/19/2008 6:38:17 PM)

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ORIGINAL: bcsubgirl
great points, Stepphann. i do intend to contact him and send him an explanation of why i jammed out. i don't think there is anything to salvage though. his approach was too cold and abrupt. i need a fair bit of coddling or i just can't function and his was definately a 'no coddling zone' approach.



Is this the same dominant from the other thread - whose collar you're ready to accept so quickly?  I'm confused!!   [sm=ofcourse.gif]



LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Disrespectful treatment, asking other's opinions (5/19/2008 8:16:05 PM)

I think you need to focus more on your personal boundaries and why you're so willing to get into an authority dynamic without feeling secure or having a reason to feel secure first?  I'm glad you stopped when you realized it just wasn't right for you- but how about just not starting next time and save yourself the trouble?



bcsubgirl -> RE: Disrespectful treatment, asking other's opinions (5/19/2008 11:05:33 PM)

bound2one.. this thread is about something a Dom i decided not to meet.

LuckyAlbatross, there are no BDSM meetings of groups where i live, so tend to use the internet to learn and about the lifestyle and meet potential Doms.

and i didn't start, as i didn't feel secure.



kittenpuss -> RE: Disrespectful treatment, asking other's opinions (5/20/2008 11:10:40 AM)

If you are not happy from the start then why bother? Sounds like your instincts are telling you to back the hell away.....




Dnomyar -> RE: Disrespectful treatment, asking other's opinions (5/20/2008 11:40:44 AM)

Could be insecurity backing her away.



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