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RE: Disrespectful treatment, asking other's opinions - 5/19/2008 4:07:12 PM

bcsubgirl

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my understanding of what a pigslut is.. it like a regular slut only sluttier. sort of 'will do anything' kind of attitude, can be treated in a more degrading manner.

Tsatske, i am with you. i would love to try humiliation.. but need to have trust first, and know i am respected first.

great points, Stepphann. i do intend to contact him and send him an explanation of why i jammed out. i don't think there is anything to salvage though. his approach was too cold and abrupt. i need a fair bit of coddling or i just can't function and his was definately a
'no coddling zone' approach.

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RE: Disrespectful treatment, asking other's opinions - 5/19/2008 6:38:17 PM

Bound2One

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quote:

ORIGINAL: bcsubgirl
great points, Stepphann. i do intend to contact him and send him an explanation of why i jammed out. i don't think there is anything to salvage though. his approach was too cold and abrupt. i need a fair bit of coddling or i just can't function and his was definately a 'no coddling zone' approach.

Is this the same dominant from the other thread - whose collar you're ready to accept so quickly? I'm confused!!

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RE: Disrespectful treatment, asking other's opinions - 5/19/2008 8:16:05 PM

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I think you need to focus more on your personal boundaries and why you're so willing to get into an authority dynamic without feeling secure or having a reason to feel secure first? I'm glad you stopped when you realized it just wasn't right for you- but how about just not starting next time and save yourself the trouble?

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RE: Disrespectful treatment, asking other's opinions - 5/19/2008 11:05:33 PM

bcsubgirl

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bound2one.. this thread is about something a Dom i decided not to meet.

LuckyAlbatross, there are no BDSM meetings of groups where i live, so tend to use the internet to learn and about the lifestyle and meet potential Doms.

and i didn't start, as i didn't feel secure.

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RE: Disrespectful treatment, asking other's opinions - 5/20/2008 11:10:40 AM

kittenpuss

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If you are not happy from the start then why bother? Sounds like your instincts are telling you to back the hell away.....

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RE: Disrespectful treatment, asking other's opinions - 5/20/2008 11:40:44 AM

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