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What is the attraction of Genital Torture? - 5/19/2008 9:06:37 AM   
justnewsub


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Status: offline 		I am very curious:  What is the attraction for both those who do it and those who receive it? Also what is your favorite way? 

I am not judging I'm just very curious. 

Thank you so much for sharing with me (us)

justnew :)
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RE: What is the attraction of Genital Torture? - 5/19/2008 9:16:50 AM   
Shawn1066


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Status: offline 		Well, I enjoy it because my Owner enjoys it.  I didn't enjoy the idea until I met her and she decided that I was going to try it.  Now, it's something that's very enjoyable for the both of us.  The look on her face is quite intoxicating.

Personally, I enjoy when she binds me tight and tortures me with the Whartenburg Wheel the best.  Or when she gives me a light little slap.

DV's Fox

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RE: What is the attraction of Genital Torture? - 5/19/2008 9:24:55 AM   
mistoferin


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Status: offline 		That is kind of like asking what the attraction is to ice cream, cotton candy, flogging, sex or any other thing is. The answers depend on the person answering. Mostly people do things because they get enjoyment or satisfaction out of them on some level.

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RE: What is the attraction of Genital Torture? - 5/19/2008 10:16:59 AM   
abcbsex


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Status: offline 		Actual torture to my genitals is something I don't personally enjoy, but my amount of *ahem* lubrication after the fact would attest otherwise. it's a mental/physical dissonance for me. The tension adds an interesting element to serving my sadistic partner.

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RE: What is the attraction of Genital Torture? - 5/19/2008 10:23:36 AM   
justnewsub


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Status: offline 		I think what I'm asking is what is the mental gratification you feel?  Like stress relief, the feeling of control being taken away?  Also I'm kinda curious how you first discovered it, did you do it to yourself or did your Domme/Dom introduce you to it?

Also thank you for the answers so far... I love getting a better insight to things I don't understand :)

All my best

justnew

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RE: What is the attraction of Genital Torture? - 5/19/2008 10:34:53 AM   
KatyLied


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Status: offline 		What is the attraction of most kink?  Either you enjoy it or you enjoy submitting to it for the sake of the enjoyment of another.

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RE: What is the attraction of Genital Torture? - 5/19/2008 10:37:14 AM   
Lynnxz


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Status: offline 		For some reason, doling out CBT, especially to someone who isn't going to whine about it, gives me an uncontrollable case of the giggles. >.<




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RE: What is the attraction of Genital Torture? - 5/19/2008 11:01:23 AM   
blushingflower


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Status: offline 		Well, if one is a masochist, then the pain is the attraction.  

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RE: What is the attraction of Genital Torture? - 5/19/2008 11:07:04 AM   
azropedntied


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Status: offline 		The pain , the pleasure , the rush of adrenaline , the thoughts of anticipation of what is next , the mixture of feelings , the whole roller coaster ride aspect .And as a Switch all those can be plopped too , looking down upon a quivering body watching ,knowing what the exchange is as it unfolds is just yummy  all the way around .  

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RE: What is the attraction of Genital Torture? - 5/19/2008 1:27:18 PM   
subsfaith


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Status: offline 		For me it is the intensity of pain and the duration of pain that can last many days.

Being subjected to endure several days of that specific type of pain reinforces my submission, a constant reminder of who I am and of my place.

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RE: What is the attraction of Genital Torture? - 5/19/2008 5:48:42 PM   
MladyHathor


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Status: offline 		Because men have those outward things that can be used for clotheslines, trailer hitches, saddle horns---uhm I wasn't aware that when he hollers yehaw, it was torture??
 


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RE: What is the attraction of Genital Torture? - 5/19/2008 6:01:14 PM   
azropedntied


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Status: offline 		You know for the first time in a  long time i thought on this hot day i shall have jello , Yes jello ! I had not had this childhood treat is so long i had forgotten what it tasted like .Last time i had seen this wonderful product  Women were in a kiddie pool  wrestling in it .So today , this hot afternoon i sit with my cool squishy treat ..pop a moster big spoon full  into my mouth  then enjoy it while reading  this .Thank you MLady . for also reminding me how fast jello comes shooting out ones nose and onto my computers flat screen .bbl after i clean up and get a fresh bowl
Very funny !!

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ORIGINAL: MladyHathor

Because men have those outward things that can be used for clotheslines, trailer hitches, saddle horns---uhm I wasn't aware that when he hollers yehaw, it was torture??
 


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RE: What is the attraction of Genital Torture? - 5/19/2008 6:03:26 PM   
blueskyboy


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Status: offline 		a cock ring and pine needle cbt after a hike to a private spot....well everything thats not already wet gets wet ... the moans muffled by the trees  -  

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RE: What is the attraction of Genital Torture? - 5/19/2008 6:28:41 PM   
justnewsub


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Status: offline 		i'm sorry if this seemed like a silly question... it kinda was... i was hoping to get a better understanding of it... i can see how the joy of submitting to the act in and of itself is a reason to enjoy it...

my girly parts are just so sensitive the thought of it makes me cringe... and i think with men it would be a bigger cringe... however i do enjoy a good nipple tweaking.. as stated before the idea of submitting and the adrenalene rush that comes with it... yummy!!....

So to change the thread just a bit... if I am allowed to do so... what is your favorite way to do it or have it done to you???


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RE: What is the attraction of Genital Torture? - 5/19/2008 8:09:33 PM   
azropedntied


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Status: offline 		Well said and that is why  Tops luv to do it the cringe factor  is another part of it .Just like the drool factor with a  gag .At times i can feel the energy coming off a woman  just from her anticipation , and that too is a huge factor the energy.

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ORIGINAL: justnewsub
my girly parts are just so sensitive the thought of it makes me cringe...

Wow to list all the naughty s and devious plans and thoughts and wishes  would be wrong .For me anyway  it would as i do not like to just say ok every time i have a woman i am going to do  or most of the time perform 1-3-7-9-11-and the famous move 313 backwards in a full layout  ."i can be bendy " lol .
I may bring 3 bag stuff with implements and may use them all or may just use 2-3  it all depends on the flow .As far as what i like having  done to me  , that too is not in my  control , whatever the Domme  thinks is best .


So to change the thread just a bit... if I am allowed to do so... what is your favorite way to do it or have it done to you???



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RE: What is the attraction of Genital Torture? - 5/19/2008 8:15:13 PM   
tag8833


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quote:

my girly parts are just so sensitive the thought of it makes me cringe

That must mean that play involving them is very intense for you.

I love CBT because it feels different from anything else I expierce in life.

My favorite type of CBT is Testicle Paddling or Ball Punching.

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RE: What is the attraction of Genital Torture? - 5/19/2008 8:16:08 PM   
SirMIkeSD


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Status: offline 		I just enjoy it.  Nothing more nothing less.  It just like anything else, somethings you like and some you don't.


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RE: What is the attraction of Genital Torture? - 5/19/2008 8:37:50 PM   
bipolarber


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Status: offline 		I imagine it's a lot like the way my cat feels when I play a little rough with him: "Hey, it's kinda painful, but at least it's attention."





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RE: What is the attraction of Genital Torture? - 5/19/2008 9:33:15 PM   
TemptingNviceSub


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Status: offline 		I once asked a Dominant friend of mine just what the attraction was in causing pain to a womans breasts in particular...was it misogany (sp)?...was it because it was such a sensitive spot and a huge reaction would result?.why did Dominant Sadists enjoy hurting a womans breast???...He said, no it was not an inherent dislike of women..simply stated..."we are sadists!..and the breasts are part and partial to the sexual enhancement of that sadism, and the same for the masochist, it is the sexuality with the pain, and the most obvious form of it......Tempting

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RE: What is the attraction of Genital Torture? - 5/20/2008 12:28:47 AM   
MasterFireMaam


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Status: offline 		The same reasons we like most other kinks...it's HOT and it's POWERFUL for us in some way.

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