Top 10 (or 20) rules pf protocol?

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jackson35 -> Top 10 (or 20) rules pf protocol? (10/22/2005 6:46:37 AM)
I've been around the lifestyle some for the past year, but wasn't really willing to learn until recently. Unfortunately, most of the group I belong to is 80 or more miles away, so it can be very difficult for me to meet with anyone to ask questions. What I want to know are some of the basic rules of ettiquete and protocol. I know a few of them (ask before touching is obvious and a basic rule in swinging groups)... at this point I am chiefly concerned with not getting another's sub\slave in trouble for something I've done, especially the subs in the group I would like to 'chat' with at munches and parties (some of them have common interests or similar work as I.)

JohnWarren -> RE: Top 10 (or 20) rules pf protocol? (10/22/2005 7:36:21 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: jackson35 I've been around the lifestyle some for the past year, but wasn't really willing to learn until recently. Unfortunately, most of the group I belong to is 80 or more miles away, so it can be very difficult for me to meet with anyone to ask questions. What I want to know are some of the basic rules of ettiquete and protocol. I know a few of them (ask before touching is obvious and a basic rule in swinging groups)... at this point I am chiefly concerned with not getting another's sub\slave in trouble for something I've done, especially the subs in the group I would like to 'chat' with at munches and parties (some of them have common interests or similar work as I.) Basically, behave as if you were in a vanilla situation and there is someone you can ask: the person you are chatting with. A submissive knows what the rules are in his or her relationship and will probably be glad to communicate them to you.

KatyLied -> RE: Top 10 (or 20) rules pf protocol? (10/22/2005 7:44:43 AM)
Just watch, see how others are behaving. Some groups are high on protocol, some not so much.

EmeraldSlave2 -> RE: Top 10 (or 20) rules pf protocol? (10/22/2005 8:41:16 AM)
It's the subs responsibility to inform those around her if any rules are likely to be broken or how to avoid them being so.

Phoenixandnika -> RE: Top 10 (or 20) rules pf protocol? (10/22/2005 3:04:22 PM)
Personally, when I went out into the scene for the first few times to local munches, I found them pleasant and fun. People were open to my questions, and weren't all serious like I imagined. I remained respectful and did not judge anyone. through those actions, they welcomed me back time and again, and I eventually got invited elsewhere, to parties,...clubs...etc. I suggest the same for you, to remain respectful to everyone and polite. if something does not suit your taste, simply concentrate on something that does, without passing judgement on others. I wish you well and feel free to contact Me or Mine if you have any personal questions you do not feel like posting here. Phoenix.

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