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Continuing Confussion - 5/20/2008 12:35:29 PM

HisObedientslave

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Not exacty sure where I belong, just know I belong somewhere..But it amazes me how many talk, say they are this and that, live this way..Pretty much this is the way things are stuff...And then when your not within ear shot things are different...Why tell me what you think I want to hear if your already set in the way u live the lifestyle? Why not be honest and up front about things instead of leading me on to a certain extent? How can I give respect or learn to give it when those that tell me one thing face to face and then something totally different when I'm not around? Just because I'm still finding where I belong whether it submissive/slave don't I deserve just a small bit of respect, honesty?

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RE: Continuing Confussion - 5/20/2008 12:36:50 PM

KatyLied

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Only you can determine how much disrespect you will allow others to give you.

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RE: Continuing Confussion - 5/20/2008 5:30:45 PM

DesFIP

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Please, The Man still teases me about an email I got five years ago from a dominant who according to his profile was a strict Master and severe sadist yet his email was about how he could adapt to anything I liked. My main draw to this dude was that I lived within 30 miles and in a semi-rural area that's quite a draw. He just didn't have much to pick from and wasn't able, or willing, to travel.

They're lonely and ready to settle in the beginning, naively believing that either he can adapt or you will, that love or d/s rather will conquer all.

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